Have you ever "built up the reserves?"

[youngheart21]

Have you ever held out from cumming for maybe a week or so, just to see how fast she can get you off when you finally give in? Or to see if you get an extra sized "portion?" Ladies, ever have your man do this so you can try to set a speed record for making him blow it? Or just for fun?

 

[Be_happy]

Haven't done that, but interesting!! What about you....did you do it? How fast were you?

 

[Smygtittaren]

I kind of like to do this once in a while. But only when masturbating..
What I do is I stroke until I'm really close to cum but i stop before I do. Once in a while I repeat but stop just before I cum.

When I finally do cum it's a great orgasm, the longest I've done this has been for maybe 4-5 days

 

[youngheart21]

Haven't done that, but interesting!! What about you....did you do it? How fast were you?

I am doing it now! Was busy with some stuff last week, and over the weekend realized that I hadn't came for a few days, thought it'd be interesting to see how long I could stretch it out for. I think it's been over a week now. A couple nights ago I re-discovered literotica, hence the post. And needless to say, browsing the posts here is making it incredibly difficult to hold out!!

I kind of like to do this once in a while. But only when masturbating..
What I do is I stroke until I'm really close to cum but i stop before I do. Once in a while I repeat but stop just before I cum.

When I finally do cum it's a great orgasm, the longest I've done this has been for maybe 4-5 days

Got the same thing going on and am anticipating one hell of an orgasm! Now to find me a woman to help out...

 

[kaycee217]

I've done it before, but it didn't help me come any faster...at least noticeably so.

I've also done it on accident for extra sized "portions" which my partner appreciated.

 

[Shadowann2]

I had surgery a few months ago and we went a week without sex. Both of us abstained from orgasming until we could be together again. Yeah, I think we set a speed and "portion" record! But, hey...we had 3 rounds that night! The wait was so worth it!

 

[littlebabyclit]

Ok I get the "bigger portions" thing but would somebody explain to me why you'd want to cum faster?? I'm curious...how is that a skill that helps in the bedroom? :O

 

[niv78]

I have done this, it also helps in the actual pleasure from the release, it tends to be much more of a feeling and more powerful.

As far as cumming quicker, some women like quickies, coming home from work and grabbing her and pushing her over the side of the couch and fucking her until you cum hard and fast. Just depends on the woman you're with.

 

[tinawill77]

There's nothing wrong with coming quickly (as long as it's not too quickly) if you can come again. And again.

 

[mark_j]

Ok I get the "bigger portions" thing but would somebody explain to me why you'd want to cum faster?? I'm curious...how is that a skill that helps in the bedroom? :O

Not every meal needs to be a banquet..

Not every encounter needs to be a marathon...

Sharp and urgent has its own rewards..

 

[kaycee217]

Not every meal needs to be a banquet..

Not every encounter needs to be a marathon...

Sharp and urgent has its own rewards..

Did you write that yourself?

Sounds like a line from a movie!

 

[No_Socks_In_Bed]

There's nothing wrong with coming quickly (as long as it's not too quickly) if you can come again. And again.

Buiilding up reserves is always an interesting give and take. I took up a bet with a really hot girl that I could hold out 11 days of no activity, self-inflicted or otherwise (we were physically apart during this time but were crazy for each other). For the record, the sex with her EVERY time was amazing and, no matter how long we went at it, it never seemed to be enough. I understand, though, that this isn't the longest length of time to deprive one's self, but we were in that part of the relationship where both of us were in that giddy phase and just wanted the other person incessantly. While I ended up winning the bet and was able to hold out for those 11 days, the actual sex during the initial round was not that long sadly enough...maybe a minute or two, but the volume suprised both of us. Quite alot can be built up over 11 days, especially since we were mercilessly teasing each other in the interim.

The other side effect that comes along with building reserves is that the bounceback tends to be pretty immediate after holding out for longer periods. Not to brag, but I've been rather blessed with the ability to bounce back quickly irrespsective of how long I've gone without sex or how many times I've had sex in the same session. However, after holding out for 11 days, I didnt really go down right after I finished and was able to keep things going. Safe to say, she was rather pleased with the absence of a lag time b/w rounds...so much so that well-laid dinner reservations were pushed back 2 hours b/c we didnt really want to stop. Needless to say, we kinda rushed through our meal to get back to the main event.

 

[mark_j]

Did you write that yourself?

Sounds like a line from a movie!

Pretty much. It, at the worst, is plagiarized from a movie line with my own changes, but if I did I don't recall what the exact line is..

Seemed appropriate for the discussion at hand though.

 

[kaycee217]

Pretty much. It, at the worst, is plagiarized from a movie line with my own changes, but if I did I don't recall what the exact line is..

Seemed appropriate for the discussion at hand though.

I agree; good stuff

 

[rydia57]

No...


But I have held off for a week, cos I knew i could get some stronger deeper orgasms from it, the first time I felt like I had a hangover the next day! I think it was all the adrenaline and all...but it felt great before that!

 

[irishwoody]

Yes - but not to "build up reserves" - I have stop masterbation for a few days before meeting up with my gf (at the time). We were living seperate countries. When we did get together then it was much more "urgent". That said I sex with her was (and still is) as good with or without "reserves".
It is true that not coming (or almost coming then stopping) for a few days before hand will increase volume ejaculated and some increase in pleasure at the moment, but for me the orgasm is just a small part of my total sexual activity so it doesnt really warrant holding off for ths purpose.

 

[Eilan]

We've never done this intentionally--just after childbirth or illness. It's not something we're interested in doing just because we can.

I definitely think there's a time and a place for quickies, but after spending several years with a quick-triggered ex, I'm a huge fan of sex that lasts long enough for me to get off!

 

[MHaggard]

No can do. Life's too short!

Unless...

Ya'll can tell me the appeal to try it!

 

[raffi_sandoval]

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[PhilGarlic]

Yes I have

Due to a busy time and shift work at the moment I'm on day five. My balls are aching and I know that tomorrow night when I get the chance my wife will be getting some good old fashioned hard raw sex. (whether she wants it or not )