Hickeying the unhickeyable?

[PorscheLynn]

A little visit to the Sexual Twilight Zone...

One of the only ways my s.o. and I are at all sexually incompatible is that he is incapable of giving me a hickey. It's not, of course, a big deal. But I'm more fond of hickeys than many folks, and I'm also stubborn when presented with a strange situation such as this. You see, it isn't that I *can't* get hickey marks on my neck (etc). Nor is it that he cannot give them to other people. But in the three years we've been together, the most mark he's ever left was a dime sized speckling of red pinpricks, after the kind of neck molestation that would leave anyone else with a black and blue hickey the size a baby's palm. In those three years we've double checked (vigorously, repeatedly!) that I can indeed still get a decent hickey from others, and he can indeed give a decent hickey to others.

Having presented you with this mystery, has anyone else ever experienced this sort of hickey incompatibility? Have suggestions of any kind based on their frightening knowledge of hickeys? Give it your best shot, I'm curious as to the reason for this bizarre little phenomenon..

 

[fgarvb1]

Well, I think the problem may be his suction.

I know a woman who can suck the chrome off of a trailer hitch ball.

She can give a hickey to a block of concrete.

 

[PorscheLynn]

Could be his suction; except that he leaves a hickey just fine of others, and no less dark than other people do on those people. Any suggestion on improving the suction, to see if it helps? Though I have felt his suction abilities *ahem* elsewhere, and so I do doubt this is it, I'm eager to try anything. Experiments are fun.

 

[sebboh]

Maybe he's holding back?
My last s.o. liked to be biten. Hard. But most of her body parts were really sensitive and took a light touch. So it took me a while to realize light touch everywhere, except for biting.

 

[PorscheLynn]

After three years together I think I know when he's holding back (which is rarely). Don't mean to sound like I'm shooting you down; we're just very close and I can tell, I'm pretty sure. That and I do feel the suction on my skin... no mark afterward though.

Anyone else have any thoughts? Or general info on hickeys and how they work, maybe?

 

[shelleb4]

hi porchelynne

i have the same skin as you i think, it just wont do hickeys. Try as several have, it takes real dedication and time to get the most pathetic hickey mark.
My partner can have a hickey like mark on his back just from wearing a back pack or giving one of the kids a ride on his shoulders. But me, no. I dont bruise easily, ive had accidents where i should of been really bruised but have nothing to show for my bravery. Its a bugger isnt it! Broken bones ive had resulted in hardly any swelling and not a single bruise to show.

I do remember as a teenager, writing my name on my boyfriends back in hickeys - lovely!
Wish someone could do that to me, just once.

 

[SlickTony]

Some people find the damnedest things to worry about.

 

[PorscheLynn]

Some people find the damnedest things to worry about.

Not so much worry Slick, just wonder. It's confoundingly weird; at least in shelle's case, it's consistant. And after three years I just kind of miss it, hickeys make for a nice not-remotely-subtle way of announcing you got lucky. Just kind of nice, is all.

 

[TirelessTongue]

Hickeys? I'm not a fan of them. I don't have any turtleneck shirts to wear, and I prefer short sleve shirts all the time.

Hickeys are "NOT" something you want your co-workers to see. Its no fun dealing with all the questions and rumors....it just doesn't look good in the workplace either.

 

[snake1500]

ENJOY it woman, i like to chew on a womans neck, but the passion marks I leave are kinda embarrassing, to say the least.
...Let him feast on your neck, and not worry 'bout the results...
...kinda like fuckin' after a vasectomy.....enjoy, knowin no worries...