Horny to fuck vs horny to be fucked

I was a top only, very dom, for 12 years. Then, a couple of years ago, a guy stuck his finger in my ass, and finger-fucked me while sucking me. It felt good . . . I started to push down on his finger, wanting to feel it deeper inside me. A second finger was soon followed by his cock and WOW was that amazing.

Now, I’m 80-90% Top and can’t wait to bury my cock in a nice tight ass. But, on those occasional evenings, I am a total bottom slut: including once taking an 8” cock followed immediately by another friend.
Totally relate to this.

As a masculine straight acting man, I like my men the same, though mainly like to top.

That was till I received my first rimming and fingering of my nut.

I still mainly top, though when I get that itch that needs to be scratched on my nut, it is a different type of horny feeling. Very slutty, like being a bit naughty acting, till that itch is scratched.
 
Well, I booked my ticket to visit my gf for a month in February.

After I made the reservation, I could feel the horniness inside me knowing that I would be seeing her soon. I savored the knowledge that her cock would be in my mouth and in my ass soon. Yes, I am going to be fucked by her!

I told my gf about it in our cam conversation today and she was excited about it too. In her case, she knows that her cock will be in my mouth and in my ass soon. Yes, I am going to fuck him!
 
Well, I booked my ticket to visit my gf for a month in February.

After I made the reservation, I could feel the horniness inside me knowing that I would be seeing her soon. I savored the knowledge that her cock would be in my mouth and in my ass soon. Yes, I am going to be fucked by her!

I told my gf about it in our cam conversation today and she was excited about it too. In her case, she knows that her cock will be in my mouth and in my ass soon. Yes, I am going to fuck him!
You're so lucky
 
Yeah, my libido with a man is different than with a woman. I want a woman to serve me, and I want to serve men.
Funny, sometimes I feel like I'm turning into just the opposite of that. :LOL::sneaky:

Seriously! My marriage is FLR, I'm already a sub. I am bicurious, but I don't really find men "sexy". I am fascinated by penis and cum, though. I'm an oral sub for my wife, she strokes my prostate with a strap-on, too. We have PIV sex but she can only handle that about once a week anymore. After years of fucking her ass occasionally the only thing I'm allowed to put in there is my tongue. She does give me BJ's whenever I want, which is so wonderful.

I want to give a BJ but, with a guy attached to it, it would have to be a special relationship.

The guys I can find attractive are feminine. I could probably fuck one of those well, having given and received anal. And if he's masculine? I'm JUST now realizing I can do that and enjoy it. Giving some down-low guy who's man of his house, or thinks he is, what he really needs! My average sized easy to take but filling cock! I could talk humiliation to him, too, if he requested or I just think it's what he needs.

Oh, boy! New things to think about it! I've turned a page today! I love LIT!
 
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I notice that sometimes when I am chatting with my trans girlfriend on cam, I will get horny for her and her cock and cum. Horny to be fucked.

I have noticed that it's a different kind of horniness than when you want to fuck. At least for me. I still experience that kind of being horny - to get your cock in a woman and cum in her but the horniness I feel with my girl is definitely different.

Can anyone relate to this? Or am I out in right field as usual?
I get it.

My wife and I already knew that to make love, have sex, and fuck were all different for us but never thought about, to fuck or to be fucked. We agree, totally different. I can strongly desire to have sex with her and have an entirely different ache to be fucked.

Ex. What she wears, how she moves, talks, hand holding, hugs, and kissing gets me in a heavy state of arousal to be with her, make love, have sex, and fuck (depending on her level of the aforementioned).

Then there is this other mode where she pushes other buttons that get me turned on in a way I'd take anything she could dish out or ask of me. It is that vibe of "I want to see you take one." Talk about causing an aching for it. :0

Great post!
 
Oh I am the total sub , if I come or not is of no matter compared to the feeling as he slides down my panties and plays with his toy before entering me and taking his pleasure ,In fact I get so turned on just trying to please him that on occaisions that final thrust ,feeling his balls slap against me as he cums is so intense for me that I have been known to cum purely because he has cum in me ,of course the moment any one starts to play with my nipples I am lost and willing to do any thing regardless of where we are
 
That would happen unless I make a conscious effort to keep it suppressed. My present erection suggests that it may not be possible.
Can u get rid of your boner without any sexual contact? Not cum, just will it away like if you're at work or school
 
I notice that sometimes when I am chatting with my trans girlfriend on cam, I will get horny for her and her cock and cum. Horny to be fucked.

I have noticed that it's a different kind of horniness than when you want to fuck. At least for me. I still experience that kind of being horny - to get your cock in a woman and cum in her but the horniness I feel with my girl is definitely different.

Can anyone relate to this? Or am I out in right field as usual?
Fucking horny to be fucked stuffed filled right now
 
As it turned out last night I wasn’t horny at all when my phone rang. My FB wanted to come over. I wasn’t ready, I hadn’t thought anything about sex all day. Of course I said okay, I’ll get ready. He laughed and knocked on my door.😋
 
For me it’s almost like two different personalities. There’s my every day persona with my wife and normal life but there is also my sub bottom persona that comes out when cock is the subject. A bottom bitch emerges that has a single minded intention of being slutty.
I’m totally the same, there’s just an instant switch and I’m needing to be the slut, just let my submissive bottom slut free.
 
I'm definitely horny to BE fucked these days. All I think about now is being a bottom. I want to have a boyfriend and have him use me whenever he wants. It's all I fantasize about, and it makes me so horny and cum so hard. I love the feeling of being taken and pleasing a man. I love women and their shapes and smells and all the sexy things they wear, but I get so much more turned on dressing up in lingerie and dreaming of being fucked! Hopefully someday I will find a man who loves to have me dress up for him and serve his needs. 😘
 
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