How’s your married sex life?

[zcraft5]

Married sex life? Those words don't seem to go together.

sure dont It is sad what happens with one partner loses the drive and the rhas to seek gratification by other means

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

sure dont It is sad what happens with one partner loses the drive and the rhas to seek gratification by other means

She never really had a drive, and even that is gone.

 

[Tweedledude]

She never really had a drive, and even that is gone.

Completely understand.

 

[Bubbles80]

Me 44, he's 48...married 17 yrs ...
Post kids it reduced significantly, though now it's once a week on Saturdays....wishing it was more adventurous n more often..... do substitute it through erotica

 

[Tweedledude]

Me 44, he's 48...married 17 yrs ...
Post kids it reduced significantly, though now it's once a week on Saturdays....wishing it was more adventurous n more often..... do substitute it though erotica

I've resorted to large amounts of coke zero and chewing my fingernails up to the first knuckle lol

 

[Wifejenna]

Me 48
Him 50
We always make time.
4-5 times a week.
I never tell him no and I expect the same.
He keeps viagra filled
15 years of marriage. Its not what it used to be, but we keep it interesting. I’ll flash truckers, go to a club, video booth, watch pornos, wear sheer tops in public, post pics online. We make it work for both of us.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Me 48
Him 50
We always make time.
4-5 times a week.
I never tell him no and I expect the same.
He keeps viagra filled
15 years of marriage. Its not what it used to be, but we keep it interesting. I’ll flash truckers, go to a club, video booth, watch pornos, wear sheer tops in public, post pics online. We make it work for both of us.

That's the difference between living with a sexually repressed person vs an engaged one. Even at it's best, we didn't average 4-5 times a month.

 

[SWR101]

Me 48
Him 50
We always make time.
4-5 times a week.
I never tell him no and I expect the same.
He keeps viagra filled
15 years of marriage. Its not what it used to be, but we keep it interesting. I’ll flash truckers, go to a club, video booth, watch pornos, wear sheer tops in public, post pics online. We make it work for both of us.

You go girl!

 

[bunny4med]

Still like we are honeymooning. We get days apart with my travel, but we both got pretty high sex drives.

 

[Purple_Fronds]

Me 48
Him 50
We always make time.
4-5 times a week.
I never tell him no and I expect the same.
He keeps viagra filled
15 years of marriage. Its not what it used to be, but we keep it interesting. I’ll flash truckers, go to a club, video booth, watch pornos, wear sheer tops in public, post pics online. We make it work for both of us.

That’s wonderful to hear

 

[Tweedledude]

Me 48
Him 50
We always make time.
4-5 times a week.
I never tell him no and I expect the same.
He keeps viagra filled
15 years of marriage. Its not what it used to be, but we keep it interesting. I’ll flash truckers, go to a club, video booth, watch pornos, wear sheer tops in public, post pics online. We make it work for both of us.

You don't have an available sister?? Lol

 

[TomnDiane]

Wife stopped all of that 15 years ago, simply said "I can't do this anymore, it hurts." I asked her to see her doctor, she refused. I reminded her the vow was monogamy, not celibacy. She refused to answer, but said "I love you." So, that's been my life ever since. We are room mates that don't get along very well much of the time.

 

[drobert44]

First marriage sucked. Now single and my sex life is GREAT!!

Single and so happy!

 

[drobert44]

Wife stopped all of that 15 years ago, simply said "I can't do this anymore, it hurts." I asked her to see her doctor, she refused. I reminded her the vow was manogamy, not celibacy. She refused to answer, but said "I love you." So, that's been my life ever since. We are room mates that don't get along very well much of the time.

Why men stray or go gay.....

 

[tallman60a]

Me 48
Him 50
We always make time.
4-5 times a week.
I never tell him no and I expect the same.
He keeps viagra filled
15 years of marriage. Its not what it used to be, but we keep it interesting. I’ll flash truckers, go to a club, video booth, watch pornos, wear sheer tops in public, post pics online. We make it work for both of us.

Super hot, and glad this is part of it.

 

[Sgts19]

Both 69
2 or 3 times a week is plenty for me....married 46 years it does get sort of ho hum been there done that
My problem is she wants more sex,
Both good health, in shape

Shouldn't be bitching at least she loves sex

 

[tallman60a]

Both 69
2 or 3 times a week is plenty for me....married 46 years it does get sort of ho hum been there done that
My problem is she wants more sex,
Both good health, in shape

Shouldn't be bitching at least she loves sex

Sounds like she is getting it, so good for you both!

 

[JennyCapricorn]

Usually 2-3 times a week but if life gets in the way - kids, illness, stress, timing - it can sometimes be more than a week at which point we use the code “we’re being stupid”to schedule time without the kids knowing.

 

[Sgts19]

Sounds like she is getting it, so good for you both!

I'd like to tap out once in a while and let someone else take over. LOL

 

[Roswellcurious]

I’m 54, she’s 56. We’ve been married 32 years and together about 36 years. 2 boys in mid-20’s still at home. If I’m persistent enough, we have sex 7-8 times...per year

 

[LMWM321]

Jeez... My heart breaks for all the posters who are in sexless or near-sexless marriages.

...I'm VERY thankful that after nearly 40 yrs my wife and I still do it 2-3 times per week. ..If video'd our sessions probably wouldn't get any likes on Pornhub, but the sex works for us.

And to be honest, the more we see our same-age friends and relatives struggle w/ health issues the more we feel compelled to make sure we tend to our sex life. It's like we know the clock is ticking on our good health. ..We'd better fuck like rabbits now b/c no one knows what tomorrow brings. So we're having more (and kinkier) sex than we did just 10-12 years ago. ..And I don't see it slowing down unless illness intervenes.

I must say that if my wife told me she was definitely through with sex, I'd probably tell her that she can still count on me to continue loving her, caring for her and keeping her at the center of my life... but she should NOT count on me to stop having sex just because she has. I've NEVER cheated on my wife, and don't relish the thought of doing so but her saying "No more sex" would seem to me to be every bit as much a broken marital vow as my seeking sex outside the marriage. ..And I would fully expect her to do the same if I said, "Sorry my love, but I'm done with sex."

I think even our adult kids - who are pretty progressive on issues related to sex - would understand such a decision.

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

It's honestly the best it's ever been... I've been more vocal about what I want. Fortunately, my husband has been very receptive. I was scared he would get defensive.

 

[drobert44]

Usually 2-3 times a week but if life gets in the way - kids, illness, stress, timing - it can sometimes be more than a week at which point we use the code “we’re being stupid”to schedule time without the kids knowing.

Right

 

[Jack_102]

I’m not married
But I if like if I was it would be 4 time a day lol

 

[ADIDAS00]

Married 16 years and we have sex pretty much everyday. It wasn’t always this way. We’ve had our dry spells but currently we’ve spiced things up with some extracurricular activities