How did you discover your kink?

[Starfire6369]

Most recent started with having kidney stones. After surgery Dr placed a ureteral stent in. The feeling I had when it was pulled out was brief but incredible. Since then I have experimented with improvised catheter and sounding.

 

[van_delay]

I was going down on my wife and her feet were placed in a way that my cock was resting on her feet. She moved her feet to place my cock between her arches. I came very quickly. Been hooked on feet ever since.

 

[Christina_submission]

My "kink" started many moons back and there wasn't much access to BDSM Kink etc. around (no internet really it was its early stagers " anyway the start looking back was when i was making out with a guy standing up he turned me around and was kissing my neck from behind he grabbed my hands and then handcuffed me behind my back and pushed me into the wall head up against the wall and i couldn't move my arms and proceeded to take me right there up against the wall .............that was my first experience it has grown every wider and into many kinks since then

 

[CuriousRick]

My "kink" started many moons back and there wasn't much access to BDSM Kink etc. around (no internet really it was its early stagers " anyway the start looking back was when i was making out with a guy standing up he turned me around and was kissing my neck from behind he grabbed my hands and then handcuffed me behind my back and pushed me into the wall head up against the wall and i couldn't move my arms and proceeded to take me right there up against the wall .............that was my first experience it has grown every wider and into many kinks since then

Very hot introduction!!

 

[Christina_submission]

Very hot introduction!!

ty ...it was all down hill from there or should i say into the rabbit hole and exploring

 

[CuriousRick]

ty ...it was all down hill from there or should i say into the rabbit hole and exploring

Sounds like the rabbit hole opened up and you were drug in!!

 

[Christina_submission]

Sounds like the rabbit hole opened up and you were drug in!!

one huge rabbit hole of kink

 

[CuriousRick]

one huge rabbit hole of kink

My kind of rabbit hole. Lol

 

[CuriousRick]

I would have to say Lit has helped me learn and expand my horizons. Some I have experienced some I haven’t

 

[joe_schmonyc]

My "kink" started many moons back and there wasn't much access to BDSM Kink etc. around (no internet really it was its early stagers " anyway the start looking back was when i was making out with a guy standing up he turned me around and was kissing my neck from behind he grabbed my hands and then handcuffed me behind my back and pushed me into the wall head up against the wall and i couldn't move my arms and proceeded to take me right there up against the wall .............that was my first experience it has grown every wider and into many kinks since then

What a great description. I love to pin a woman’s hands over her head agains the wall as I finger her to orgasm under her skirt.

 

[Syzoth]

As my marriage progressed, I wanted to be more and more physical (ie- "rougher") with my wife.

It started with light bondage... tying my wife's wrists behind her back with her own bra when I bent her over and penetrated her doggystyle, or while she was giving me a blowjob. And then dirty talk. Then more physicality: groping her tits and ass harder, and even choking her (albeit very gently) during sex.

From there, we gradually progressed to some toys: collars and chokers, gags, wrist and ankle cuffs, blindfolds, bed restraints; still fairly vanilla stuff.

At that point, I was still hesitant to REALLY be rough with my wife, though. And she still definitely had some trepidation.

So then I decided to turn things around... I told my wife to start being rough with me.

It wasn't too long before she was choking and slapping me (again, lightly) while riding me cowgirl style.... tying me up and forcing me down as I ate her pussy.

Among other things my wife forced me to do!

Now we often take turns being in charge. It gets more and more exciting and physical each time my wife and I are rough with each, and our sex life is better for it.

I suppose that makes us switches ?!?!

 

[Lighthousenorth]

On the first holiday with the woman that is now my wife (no worries, we were already in our 40s) we visited an art park. We were shooting photos at a big reflecting artwork and at a certain moment I asked if we would walk on or if she had more ideas for photos. "I want to photograph you nude" she said. It was meant as a joke, but I immediately undressed. It felt highly arousing to be nude on such a public place, even though there were no other people around that specific artwork. Since then I did many nude pboto shoots on public places.

 

[CEOescape]

For me it has been a journey of TRIAL AND ERROR!

I LOVE the Journey!
NO Error have I found! giggle

 

[FeelingLikeMyself]

Like every other unsupervised teenager in the 90's; AOL

 

[HampshireBoy]

I think that I always had proclivity for being naked and I realise now I really liked being naked with clothed females. I remember a male friend and I streaking in the local park when we were younger and finding out that we were beingwatched by a couple of women but I'm not sure how much that contributed to be honest.

 

[dreamysub]

Right here on Lit.. years and years ago.

 

[Blase]

I've written about it before (but I haven't been here much lately).

I originally came to Lit looking to read stories. Wasn't thinking about D/s at all because all I knew were the whips, chains and black leather stereotypes.

Started writing on the SRP board and the stories somehow always seemed to have control themes. Felt a certain chemistry with one partner in particular, which lead after a time to her sending me a PM that ended with "Do as you wish with me..."

That was the first of what became some very special connections with some very special girls, over the years.

 

[WanderingSarah]

For one kink, I read a book. Then another book. It was ridiculously hot. Still reading those kinds of books.

For the other, I don’t remember the BBC miniseries name, but Richard Armitage was kissing his on screen wife, she climbed him like a tree and he told her he was going to come inside her. Maybe I'm just attracted to him. Who knows.

 

[WanderingSarah]

Blast from the past, but sparkhouse??

I have no idea what that is.

It was a book I found in some old things while out thrift shopping. It was entirely a certain kind of porn.

 

[SluttyLindsey]

I was dominated and exposed in a relationship as a teen and it turned me on and I never stopped. I craved people seeing my body and feeling cum though he only came in my ass or mouth at the time

 

[JusticeGrey]

I just found it hanging up to dry one day and felt compelled to put it on

 

[pumperguy191]

Looking back, I can remember watching tv and when a magician sawed a woman in half, I had to run to the bathroom because "things" were happening to me. I was getting aroused. It turns out that I have a fetish for pain and punishment.

 

[Tessinwales]

My kink is men ejaculating .... more specifically their semen. I so love it, I love feeling them cum on my skin, anywhere on or in my body. But especially love it when the man pulls out of ma at the last second and pumps his seed all over my inner thighs, around my pussy and up my tummy. Mmmmmm!

The origins of this go back to when I was a teenager and discovering boys. I had a boyfriend, we had not had penetrative sex, and in fact I was still a virgin. But one day when we were having one of our touching/kissing/feeling sessions I took him in hand as requested. Shortly after he shot his load and covered my tummy with warm thick creamy cum. Good job I had let him unbutton my blouse or he would have covered that instead.

After that I have always enjoyed a guy cumming on me. In me is good, but on me, on my skin is better.

 

[FeelingLikeMyself]

Like most people growing up in the mid 90s, with unsupervised Internet access and a lot of confusion

 

[kinky_older_guy]

Mymasturbation.com
Pornhub
And sites like Lit and Lushstories

Well, I'm kind of old, so I remember the days when we didn't have any of those. Even no Internet. But I discovered some of my kinks at the very young age, some at the college, some later in my life ...

Did porn have something to do with that? Well, mostly not. For instance, my fetish for women wearing boots came just from the 100% vanilla world. My aunt loved riding horses, she would visit us after her horse riding lesson. My mom usually asked me to help her take her riding boots off. And for some reason, her boots turned me on. Folks, don't ask me why, to be honest I don't know the answer, it just came out of the blue.

But true, later on, I discovered Internet porn much before Pornhub was ever conceived. It was back in 1993, I was 21, Usenet groups alt.sex.bondage (hey, youngsters, Google it!), alt.sex.stories ... btw, most those stories are preserved on www.asstr.org, some of them are here on Lit. Then, one day, I discovered the brave world of text-based talkers - the famous Lintilla and Crystal Palace. And that's where it really started, where I could talk to women having the same or different kinks ...

In real life, some other kinks I discovered later - for instance, pee play (watersports, golden showers) I tried first time when I was 28. She was much older ...

So, it's a mix, really ...