Soooo much advice on what to wear and how to cut your hair and how to stand and other things about how to be somebody you aren't. I figure this way, listen to Shakespeare, "and above all else, to thine ownself be true." When you try to be or act like somebody you aren't, others will see through you. Life becomes and act and acting all the time becomes tiring. You're bound to slip up and forget a line or miss a pose. The fact is that if you initially "trick" some woman into thinking you're somebody you're not, she'll eventually see through it, and it will blow up in your face. Be who you are and attract women who like you for who you are. It goes the other way too. Don't try to change people and make them somebody they aren't. They get tired and frustrated with the act. If you're a nerd, find women who like nerds. If you're a neanderthal, find women who like neanderthals. If you're an intellectual, find women who like intellectuals. You might be surprised at how many "nerdy", "intellectual" women are horny animals behind the scenes. That way you can relax and enjoy life.