How do you deal with a cheating spouse?

[LindsayRae]

Well, yes, there is the Cafe. Just like the Playground. And, of course, BDSM and GLBT talk boards have a sub-board for talk too. And Am Pics has their one talk board. Several "general boards" on this site now!

 

[Ramrod325]

Lost?

General Board is for general discussion. How To is a Q&A board and oftentimes an advice board for people. That is why others were guessing/asking if you had a cheating other. And since she's not a wife it's easier to cut the strings and move on at this time. People gave you genuine advice in hopes that they may have/could have helped.

How To isn't a board where you enter it saying to yourself "Well, maybe some day my girfriend/wife/whatever she is may get pregnant...or she may get fat...or she may turn bitchy...she may leave me...so I'd better ask, now, what to do."

So if you know what the how to board is for, why are you not posting comments in the people who want to control the world thread? Or maybe people who would rather down or blast someone else with their negativity? Or maybe people who can't keep their nose on their face? You seem to know it all, maybe there's a thread on people who seem to know it all?

 

[Ramrod325]

Excellent!!!

Well, yes, there is the Cafe. Just like the Playground. And, of course, BDSM and GLBT talk boards have a sub-board for talk too. And Am Pics has their one talk board. Several "general boards" on this site now!

So if you know so much about lit, let's direct your comments to people who think they know it all and want to control the world? You would fit in excellent there!!!!

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

So if you know so much about lit, let's direct your comments to people who think they know it all and want to control the world? You would fit in excellent there!!!!

You're really weird, dude.

Just sayin'.

 

[Ramrod325]

Thanks

You're really weird, dude.

Just sayin'.

You would just have to follow a douch bag hound dogging everyone. Thanks for the concern anyway.

 

[DefiantOne]

just a thought, why not sit down and ask your spouse if they're in some kind of a midlife crisis, compelling them to "hunt and conquer" because maybe they're feeling old/ugly? Or because they feel more free to be sexually aggressive now that their tubes are tired or they've gone through menopause and don't have to give a crap about getting pregnant? Or maybe because they're bored with the vanilla sex that's available to them at home? Or, they're scared shitless to dare come right out and just ~ask~ for an open marriage or swinging or cuckolding you, with your consent?

People are weird about cheating, they'll do it and risk killing a marriage but don't see the point in asking for a better alternative than a full on marital kamikaze run into divorce and anger, etc.

 

[_Virginia_]

Well, this is the second thread I've seen you post in (the "swallowing" thread being the other) and it seems like you get pretty nasty pretty quickly when you don't like what someone says.

I haven't been posting here for that long but I do know that if you ask a question here, be prepared for the answers! You're probably not going to agree with what everyone says. There's really no need to get so argumentative - unless that's what you're here for....in which case I hope people stop taking the bait and start ignoring you.

 

[FloridaSmoothie]

Chastity belt? You can get one on eBay.