How doYOU flirt

mayi

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How doYOU flirt (FLIRTERS WANTED)

I find it interesting all the little ways people flirt with each other, the harmless to the not so harmless.

So do tell me, what is your way of flirting or give an example of flirting gone good or gone bad :D

For me, it is many ways.
 
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It would be easier for me to name the ways I don't flirt!

I am such a southern flirty girl, from the eyes to the hair flip to
the hand on the arm or shoulder...

I've been told by more than one person that I flirt as naturally as I breathe ;)
 
mayi said:
I find it interesting all the little ways people flirt with each other, the harmless to the not so harmless.

So do tell me, what is your way of flirting or give an example of flirting gone good or gone bad :D

For me, it is many ways.
I like the second glance with a sly smile a lot. I also like to hold the gaze for an extra second before looking away.
 
hey cheeky,

that is what i was wondering, is there anything we don't do to get attention?

but beyond the smile and hair............can you imagine NOT flirting?
 
Nice Blue, but does it work? Does he/she smile or even better.......approach?
 
Do you notice your voice changing as you talk to someone? You know going from a normal playful levels to low sultry levels?
 
What about you guys..............how many times have you said "hey beautiful" just to see her reaction?
 
mayi said:
hey cheeky,

that is what i was wondering, is there anything we don't do to get attention?

but beyond the smile and hair............can you imagine NOT flirting?

Nope, I can't.. honestly.. it is such a part of my personality that I can't imagine not doing it.

And like Blue said, the eye contact is big for me... holding that gaze for a few
seconds too long, followed with a shy little smile...

If I'm seriously flirting, my southern drawl gets more pronounced... I don't know if it gets sultry but it changes for sure...
 
Do you find yourself dressing for one person.......just to add to the flirting?
 
stryder..............please explain more.....how can you flirt with your eyes and get the point accross?
 
In real life..I don't flirt. What's that flirt? :rolleyes: hehe...well even during my younger years,I don't really flirt,Im just being myself and no idea why my crushes noticed me..those were the days.:D Even hubby I met him at the party and a friend introduced us,honestly from day 1 I liked him but didnt do anything to flirt to get his attention.It just happened,next thing I know we dancing partner the whole party. :nana:
 
mayi said:
Nice Blue, but does it work? Does he/she smile or even better.......approach?
The holding the eye contact thing has worked multiple times. I'm going to have to try it again once I start dating again.

The other technique worked once that I remember, but that was more luck than anything I think.
 
so does cleavage work??

if it does then men must be dying these days with all the low cut tops!
 
Have you ever seen that "person" who you just wanted to talk to for hours...........in a flirty safe way?
 
I guess i spend too much time around men. Looking into their eyes is nomal work stuff. For me it has to go deeper, like the tone of the voice or the giggle when he says something off. But also keeping it clean at the same time. THink how boring a day would be if you could not flirt just a little.
 
a lot of lookers................no flirters????????????
 
I guess I try to be witty ... someone says we must make chicks laugh if we want to ... :rolleyes:
 
mayi said:
laughing works, and maybe a little more!
sure ... also I realize I worded it like it takes an effort whereas the whole thing is usually quite pleasant :)
 
vibes said:
sure ... also I realize I worded it like it takes an effort whereas the whole thing is usually quite pleasant :)


give me an example ;)
 
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