How long did you lurk?
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Weinergirl
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about three months but I do more reading than posting. I'm a total voyeur.
As for marriage-I think it's always a transition period where you settle out who you are and who you are together. There's me and there's the relationship -umm I hope that makes sense. You kind of have to do a balancing act-I got married at 19 too, so I got an idea of where you're at.
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As for marriage-I think it's always a transition period where you settle out who you are and who you are together. There's me and there's the relationship -umm I hope that makes sense. You kind of have to do a balancing act-I got married at 19 too, so I got an idea of where you're at.
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I didn't realize at first you were referring to me, Weinergirl. Was wondering who got married at 19. Must be another blonde moment. LOL I've been married for 13 years, so I should have found that balance by now, right? Naw, still a struggle. I keep waiting for it to get better. The good moments are few and far between.
Purple Haze
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I have lurked, and I lurk no more. Let's just say I've been around for a month or so.
Savage Kitten
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wooooohoooo -- Purple Haze
and u chose my lurking thread as your very 1st post!!! hehe i feel so honoured!!
hey btw, love the nick ... purple is my fav color hehe
and u chose my lurking thread as your very 1st post!!! hehe i feel so honoured!!
hey btw, love the nick ... purple is my fav color hehe
Samuari
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The tough years
If I remember right there were some really though years in our marriage right about where you are in yours. Economics were unstable, first kid was having hormones hit her like a truck, nothing even began to go right. Couldn't remember the last time we really felt good about who we were, and where we seemed to be going. It was a hard thing to do, to pick up that dirty laundry, again. To wash the same sink of dishes, again. To put a band aid on the same skinned knee, again. Its dreary.
You know what? It does get better, if we begin to be assertive. It has always helped me to carve out some space, put my name on it, and do what I wanted for however long it was. It let me come back to 'life' refreshed. It kept me together, and helped to keep our marriage together.
Good luck, I'll be praying for you.
April,April said:
If I remember right there were some really though years in our marriage right about where you are in yours. Economics were unstable, first kid was having hormones hit her like a truck, nothing even began to go right. Couldn't remember the last time we really felt good about who we were, and where we seemed to be going. It was a hard thing to do, to pick up that dirty laundry, again. To wash the same sink of dishes, again. To put a band aid on the same skinned knee, again. Its dreary.
You know what? It does get better, if we begin to be assertive. It has always helped me to carve out some space, put my name on it, and do what I wanted for however long it was. It let me come back to 'life' refreshed. It kept me together, and helped to keep our marriage together.
Good luck, I'll be praying for you.
Magic Merlin
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I 'lurked' about a month or two (I think) around here before I registered. Once I found the BB however, that was the beginning of the end. I registered, snuck in and out in a few threads. Once I got the first, "I agree with MM", my head swelled and I've never been the same.
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