How Many of you are willing..

He asked once. I told him that I don't have that many fingers and toes, can't keep track. Before I was married I was such a slut.
 
Partners??? Are we supposed to have partners??? :confused: OMG, I never knew that, I love myself so much I never even considered it.
 
Cheyenne... Tiggs...
Really people, semantics is semantics. Lets just say that only the person who writes the question knows what they really mean. Please tell me you're arguing over something totally unrelated and this is just your way of expressing it cause, you know, this is getting a mite silly.
You're both intelligent, articulate women so way are you engaging in the net equivalent of a pissing contest?

Oh, none yet. I'm, er, saving it for that special someone. Yeah, that's my story and I'm sticking to it.

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If we took a Holiday. (oh yah, oh yah)
 
Never said:
Cheyenne... Tiggs...
Please tell me you're arguing over something totally unrelated and this is just your way of expressing it cause, you know, this is getting a mite silly.
Heck if I know why Tiggs tried to tell me I didn't read correctly. I thought I've been rather polite in return. I really just think she was was over tired. Not going to bed will do that to you. Happens to my nieces and nephew all the time when they are up past their bed times. After sleep, she'll probably be back to normal.
 
I have no problem telling anyone including my man the number of partners I have had. I have had sex with 2 guys my whole life. And before that I had messed around with maybe 5 guys.
 
i personally haven't counted- don't want to. i keep it ambiguous for my benefit, not anyone else's, i had my reasons for every one of them,... i only regret,...well shit,...anyway, i'd rather not know myself,... why? i have had closure with all of them, and i actually stick to my closure, i forcibly forget the details,... i keep what changed i my personality, and let go of what happened,... i don't need it anymore,...

as for cheyenne and tiggs, everyone interprets your two's writing in their own way,

here comes my opinion- watch out!

i think you two should answer the questions posted, according to your interpretation of it. the original question poser can appreciate answers to their question,...

please, don't post to each other if it's just to go back and forth- even if you're both saying you're the one being nice, that in itself is being petty. if you don't like each other, don't read each other's posts and don't respond to each other.

if there is no problem- post the words- i have no problem! (not, i didn't start it, or sarcastic comebacks, subtle jabs, you get the idea,...)

k bye
 
I have this pesky honesty problem, especially with people I care about. If anyone important to me asked, I would be willing to tell. My number is low (three), but what does that really tell you about me? Nothing! It's not something to judge a person by.
 
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confess?? Never?? Never I tell you! Never!

What? What?! What did I ever do to you? Don't be waving that red face at me like that..

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It depends on the woman.I'm always looking for miss right but aften settel for a near miss.A persons past isn't as inportant as their present.If this dosen't make sence,my excuss is I got off my horse head first today.
 
for me, not enough!

my number is rather low I think, (7). It should be lower, but I lost the woman that I thought was the one. So now I am back to searching for emotional-free sex, because the love hurts to much! Oh, and if I do find another woman that I want to spend the rest of my life with I will not have any problem with telling her about my past.
 
Are we supposed to give the exact number?

If we are including all the playful times that did not lead to intercourse.... jeezzzzzz I have no idea... but ask me how many women I have had intercourse with.... (some I made love too,,,, some I just fucked and a few fucked me) and I can tell you the exact number and list their names in order of first to the last one....
 
I don't mind at all.........

I was thinking about this the other day and, and, and....

It's not like Wilt the Stilt or Charlie Sheen or anything but, but, but......

It's enough so's I've lost count.

Somewhere in the twenty to thirty range.

And baby - love to add your initials to my left cheek too.
 
well I haven't responded to my thread as someone pointed out. I wouldn't tell because I don't think it is any of their biz. One ex b/f got so pissed off at me because I wouldn't tell that he almost hyperventilated. It's ridiculous. If I'm with you, I'm with you and it doesn't matter who I've been with. I'm clean, I'm safe, I'm discreet and I'm good. (hehe) Sparks, wanta find out HOW good? I'll be up there in a month.
 
Just 2...

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 21 and then it was to someone that I totally regretted afterwards. But, have gotten over that! LOL!

My second is my husband...and I have yet to regret it! :p I know I am not sexually experienced but, my husband and I have incredible sex I think he's the living end! Let's just say he rocks my world! So, do I ever wish I had tested the waters with others before marrying....not ever! I am crazy in love with my STUD! It's been 13 glorious years!

He's had more but...that's before my time so I don't care! I am reaping the benefits! :cool:

[Edited by forgetunome on 10-10-2000 at 07:41 AM]
 
TN_vixen

Hey I might be down that way soon!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

I like what you said..... whne I am with you, I am with you and the rest does not matter. I had a girlfriend once who became obsessed over the fact that I had been with many women. It was not pleasant.
 
If you asked me ...

.. I would have to say "a few"..." the one or other" ... or simply "I don't know"

This isn't an answer to "hide" cause I don't want to tell but I simply couldn't. I never was aware of that fact untill a few weeks ago those "tests" (I am sure some of you if not all remember the slut test, and purity test and whatever else *s*) popped up and you were asked to give a number of past lovers/partners. I then noticed I simply didn't know.

I sat and tried to count - but then there are those "counts" when you would count an encounter if in that mood and not if in another - and then there are those you sure would NOT count even though you know they happened, and then there are those you would consider a "partner/relation" without sex and sex without relation - so how to count how to count ... I sat and wanted to "get my numbers straight" but instead found myself meandering in the past and after a little I just put down a (very rough) estimate.

So not to give the impression I can't keep track of my many many adventures *insert a "would have loved to have that wild a life so far"-sigh here* and thus have no "count" ... the fact is each of them was as it was - individual - and each of them (well, most of them) was right at that time .. but never did I see them "as a whole" that needed to be meassured because it is of no consequence ... at least I would like to think that way. And that is the answer I most likely would give a SO if asked

... unless it got really nervwrecking, then I might switch to :"Well, first there was... and he was excellent, after that I think ... yes, there was, and he was even better. That went for a while till I met ... From then on things turned a little foggy but till ... there can't have been more than maybe another 3 or 4. After ... then things got really wild ...*insert innocent smile and obviously pretended gasp of consideration* Ohhh - feel free to interrupt me if you want any more details..."
if by then the asking party isn't sick of it I really don't know ;)


Now something that REALLY seriously peaks my coriousity - those of you who gave numbers ... did you "know" - or did you sit down and recite names along your fingers? .. and were you surprised about the "outcome of the headcount"?
 
I admit that freely to pretty much anyone... nothing exciting really about my number... maybe that is why?

Now, if you were to count how many I have had while dreaming... that would be something else entirely!!

;)
 
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