How many people have you had sex with?

[JuicyWife]

I don’t know exactly. I had two wild years from 19-20 . Best guess would be something between 40 and 50.

 

[VerbalRK]

If I have multiple personality disorder does jerking off at different times in different moods count as various partners?

 

[Sappho_CGN]

7 men, 3 ladies

 

[Richelieujuniour]

Honestly, I don’t know.

When I was young, I wanted to sleep with 1000 women …
Stopped keeping count a long time ago, but I’m sure I’m still far from the mark!

 

[easyoff]

Never really counted, but back then casual sex was very popular.

 

[ImpishSeraph]

2, my wife and my ex.

Could have been a higher number I'm sure, but I was raised in a relatively religious family. Plus I was a bit shy and didn't come into my own until later in life. Kinda wish I'd gotten to have a little more "variety" before I tied myself down in retrospect.

You carried less expectations/baggage into your marriage. Look at it as a good thing.

 

[Bbl87]

You carried less expectations/baggage into your marriage. Look at it as a good thing.

In that sense, I agree.

However, there are many things I'd like to experience sexually that my wife won't do because "I already tried that with someone else, you're not missing anything." That has been incredibly frustrating.

 

[NewEng]

Fast approaching 70 - I keep trying to count but I don't have enough fingers and toes!

 

[Stan_the_skin]

No more than 10. I'm now 61.

 

[Kat73]

At 51 I have had sex with 6 guys and 4 girls.

Have not had sex in a year now.

 

[IARainman]

5, so far

 

[English_guy_bkk]

Probably nearing 100 without blowing my own trumpet

 

[sister jenny]

No idea
(not because it is sooooo many, but because I've never kept track)

 

[Michael_Keaton]

My best count is 7, plus one woman who gave me the best BJ of my life but we never got around to fucking. Long story..

 

[Wriggle]

Do I get to add all the cyber sex onto the total?

 

[CD_Bree]

Never really counted, but back then casual sex was very popular.

I think casual sex and FWB is way more popular now. I remember having to work pretty hard for it. Now it seems its, hey lets go to bed. I enjoyed the chase.

 

[UnexpectedLuggage]

38, and I've slept with four women.

 

[van_delay]

I think 12 for me

 

[jraymond]

My girlfriend/wife and once while drunk at a friend's house. I don't like to count the time I was drunk.

 

[TwoHeadsBald]

im 40s and have not kept count

I am 69. Same as you have not kept count.

 

[forgotmyantidepressants]

2

 

[rainbowbite]

It's around 12 but I can't remember the exact number.

 

[Nightscream89]

not including one night stands, 5. (Or 6 depending if you count my ex's best friend who joined us for a threesome as a one night stand, since we only did that once.)

including one night stands, idk how many to be honest. I would guess somewhere in the 40's?

I am 35 years old.

 

[PersonalFavors]

I’m 60 now and cannot remember when I lost count.

 

[boo56]

Not that many, I guess. More than 10, probably fewer than 20. Mostly a serial monogamist. If comes down to sex, I'm probably going to be around for a while.