How popular are blowjobs, actually?

[CuriousJInLA]

44 yo male. I’ve had a lot of experiences over the years and I feel like they’re very much part of most experiences, either casual or relationship related. There have been a few instances where they’re not something someone wants to do, but generally speaking they’re quite popular

 

[Hmm72]

I love giving blow jobs and I've never had any complaints from the recipients about it. I feel like if you enjoy what you are doing and really get into it, it is more pleasurable for the guy you are with. I have had orgasms while giving blow jobs. I get turned on even more if the guy talks dirty to me while I'm doing it.

Hot damn

 

[RachelWalsh]

I think most guys generally expect them.

 

[CuriousJInLA]

I actually don’t expect them but admittedly would be disappointed if there wasn’t some degree of play involved, even if it wasn’t to orgasm (and by the same token I would hope to also go down)

 

[FoxtrotJulietRomeo]

For me, it's been something I can best describe as 'contextual'.

Way, way back, I started by reading everything I could get my hands on with a view to developing a good understanding of what women want or need. A lot of this came courtesy of my mother who was very much a sexual experimentalist (hence my very existence!) and by the time I was 20, had still had more girlfriends than me!!

She was a very literate woman and there were what in those days might be called 'sex manuals' all around the place so naturally I read everything I could get my hands on. I'd already decided that I didn't want to be the guy that went off like a cheap firework the second a woman touched me!

That kind of came back to bite me later....

The first woman I ever had full sex with happily sucked my cock. She was 17 years older but I was SO determined that it wouldn't be all over in a minute, I never actually came at all! We had sex from 1:30am (ish) to around 6am then when we woke (7:30 or so) carried on till around 11:30. She was gorgeous, she was fantastic and I was rock hard the whole time but no result.

Two girlfriends after that, I honestly can't remember whether they sucked me or not. I do remember the second one really liked (and found it much easier) having me fuck her ass.

The next one I remember particularly well a) because she was spectacularly pretty (UK guys, think Isla St Clair) and b) because in the first few weeks, she used her mouth as contraception! She hadn't been on the pill so to give it time to take full effect, she very simply (and effectively) chose to suck me off when I was close to coming!

She also always made some cheeky but complimentary comment afterwards which also made it extra sexy!

The next one was bloody good at it and very easily and effortlessly had me exploding in her mouth a few times though as above, her real preference was anal sex.

There were a few after that who sucked me but with no result, sadly including an ex's sister-in-law who made it abundantly clear that she really wanted me to cum in her mouth - but I just couldn't.

I really didn't see what all the fuss was about back then - it was a nice enough sensation but nothing spectacular - and so more often than not, it didn't get me off and looking back, I firmly blame myself for trying too hard!

As the D/s thing crept more into my sex life, things changed a little. With one lady, I'd half-stripped her when I took her by her (lovely, chewy) nipples and forced her to her knees. I then fucked her mouth and surprised us both by coming very forcefully in very little time. It was her first time tasting cum and I recall she remarked "well that wasn't so bad..." as she wiped her face!

Another particularly wicked (married/separated) woman who I worked with surprised me after an evening of sex. I was meant to be going home. I was in the car, I'd started it and Sandra stood in the doorway in front of me. When I turned the lights on, she shrugged and her wrap dropped to the floor leaving her naked!

Next thing, I'm standing in front of her sitting on the sofa and I'm fucking her face till I cum in her mouth. She smiled up at me - delighted with the result - and eventually I went home!

The D/s element became more of a feature and after meeting a couple of ladies who could quite perfectly deep throat me, things became a little more relaxed and 'productive' but it was still easier to cum when I 'made them do it' that otherwise.

Perfection finally arrived a few years ago when I met a lovely woman who didn't actually understand that she was quite pathologically submissive but as we explored together, not only that but she could take face or throat fucking in any conceivable position and absolutely adored being used that way.

She was very much into the idea of cock worship - which I knew nothing about - so I let her explore and when we stayed together, it was perfectly normal for me to wake up and find her halfway down the bed, already munching on my semi-stiff cock and once I woke (and got hard) properly, she would throat me before mounting and fucking me while making me hurt her tits. This would usually progress to anal (she is THE most anally-focused woman I've ever known) and would often (eventually) end with me spunking over her lovely face or into her open mouth.

In 47 years of active sex, no-one has ever done anything even close to what that lovely lady can do and best of all, she absolutely LOVES doing it!!

 

[Dombull617]

44 yo male. I’ve had a lot of experiences over the years and I feel like they’re very much part of most experiences, either casual or relationship related. There have been a few instances where they’re not something someone wants to do, but generally speaking they’re quite popular

Blowjobs aka sucking dick is often talked about as one of the "pillars" of sex, at least as much if not more so than eating pussy.

But I wonder, how well does that match up with your experiences?

Those who have suckable dicks - do you enjoy bjs? Are they important for you, in terms of fulfilling your sexual desires? Have your partners actually been any good at it?
Do you like it in fiction/imagination more than in reality?

Those who have dated people with penisses, do you give bjs? Did your partners insist, or did you bring it up? Do you like doing it, hate it, go along with it reuctantly?
In your statistic, do you get the impression that bjs are very important to your target demographic?

Done right, they are awesome

 

[Littletoo]

Blowjobs aka sucking dick is often talked about as one of the "pillars" of sex, at least as much if not more so than eating pussy.

But I wonder, how well does that match up with your experiences?

Those who have suckable dicks - do you enjoy bjs? Are they important for you, in terms of fulfilling your sexual desires? Have your partners actually been any good at it?
Do you like it in fiction/imagination more than in reality?

Those who have dated people with penisses, do you give bjs? Did your partners insist, or did you bring it up? Do you like doing it, hate it, go along with it reuctantly?
In your statistic, do you get the impression that bjs are very important to your target demographic?

My street name was "Penis Breath"

 

[Littletoo]

Blowjobs aka sucking dick is often talked about as one of the "pillars" of sex, at least as much if not more so than eating pussy.

But I wonder, how well does that match up with your experiences?

Those who have suckable dicks - do you enjoy bjs? Are they important for you, in terms of fulfilling your sexual desires? Have your partners actually been any good at it?
Do you like it in fiction/imagination more than in reality?

Those who have dated people with penisses, do you give bjs? Did your partners insist, or did you bring it up? Do you like doing it, hate it, go along with it reuctantly?
In your statistic, do you get the impression that bjs are very important to your target demographic?

 

[MightyMilly]

Speaking purely for myself, I never sucked one yet that didnt want to be sucked....

 

[kinky_jat]

I prefer going down on a Woman to Her going down on me, I find it more of a submissive nature to service a Woman than to be serviced by Her. If She wants me to do it wearing at least panties that is just a bonus for me .

 

[kinky_jat]

Done right, they are awesome

Love the pigtails and Her eyes .

 

[Gazzspeed]

I warm wet mouth is definitely my favorite... love having my cock sucked and my cum swallowed.

 

[Wageslave]

I wouldn't turn the chance down

 

[zoso682001]

I love giving blow jobs and I've never had any complaints from the recipients about it. I feel like if you enjoy what you are doing and really get into it, it is more pleasurable for the guy you are with. I have had orgasms while giving blow jobs. I get turned on even more if the guy talks dirty to me while I'm doing it.

Like you my wife has had orgasms from sucking cock alone . She said when I suggested she loved sucking cock that she loves pleasing me . I didn't want to spoil anything so I didn't bring up her penchant for cumming either from sucking or triggered by my orgasm .

As far as pleasing me I witnessed her having an orgasm while sucking a friend she had taken a serious liking to so it wasn't just me .

 

[RachelWalsh]

Also, sucking dick is nice. It seems everyone is into it now.

 

[zoso682001]

Once upon a time it was considered an extremely intimate thing to do . Now day's it seems to be just a casual thing and no big deal .

Personally I've enjoyed every version .

 

[WendyTrilby]

I have a few friends who dislike giving blowjobs. It’s not something they want to do. They don’t enjoy the hassle, they’re not comfortable with the idea of putting a penis in their mouth, and they definitely don’t like the final interaction.

Sadly, I don't think they see this interaction the same way I do. Let’s face it, despite the pretense of the movie Deep Throat, where her clit was at the back of her throat, there is nothing in a person's mouth that can stimulate them to orgasmic levels.

However, not far from my mouth, there is something that can be stimulated – the hypothalamus of my brain.

I enjoy the art of oral sex for one reason: my pleasure.

And how do I get that pleasure? By giving him pleasure, ensuring him an explosive climax. Do I care if he has an incredible ending? Sure, I am very giving and loving, but I’m also incredibly selfish. In the end, sex with me is all about me. By bringing him to an explosive climax, I get a rush of erotic stimulation knowing I have the power to give him pleasure or leave him frustrated.

That kind of mental pleasure is my aphrodisiac. If I get you off, I secretly know I own you (at least in the moment), and that turns into insatiable excitement for me.

Let this be our little secret, but post blowjob, it doesn’t take much to finish me off. You can go down, use a hand, or if you can get up again (I’m pretty good at making that happen), you can finish me the biblical way. But once I’ve made you call for Jesus with my mouth full, the pleasure swings from you to me, and I know I will go home satisfied.

Guys, take this for what it's worth. When a woman is giving you oral, she is also withholding you from her most intimate area. I see it as the ultimate act of control, and if I can get him to beg to finish in my mouth, that's the ultimate victory.

If you think a blow job means the guy is in charge, you're seeing it from the wrong perspective. It’s actually the woman who’s in control, from the first lick to the last swallow.

So, are blowjobs popular among women? Yes. But mostly because we are in it for our own pleasure, and now that you know that making you orgasm in an almost humbling way gives us satisfaction. But if you suspect your woman isn’t enjoying it, step up your moaning and groaning game and let her know she is in charge of your pleasure. She will love it as I do.

 

[jason28053]

I have a few friends who dislike giving blowjobs. It’s not something they want to do. They don’t enjoy the hassle, they’re not comfortable with the idea of putting a penis in their mouth, and they definitely don’t like the final interaction.

Sadly, I don't think they see this interaction the same way I do. Let’s face it, despite the pretense of the movie Deep Throat, where her clit was at the back of her throat, there is nothing in a person's mouth that can stimulate them to orgasmic levels.

However, not far from my mouth, there is something that can be stimulated – the hypothalamus of my brain.

I enjoy the art of oral sex for one reason: my pleasure.

And how do I get that pleasure? By giving him pleasure, ensuring him an explosive climax. Do I care if he has an incredible ending? Sure, I am very giving and loving, but I’m also incredibly selfish. In the end, sex with me is all about me. By bringing him to an explosive climax, I get a rush of erotic stimulation knowing I have the power to give him pleasure or leave him frustrated.

That kind of mental pleasure is my aphrodisiac. If I get you off, I secretly know I own you (at least in the moment), and that turns into insatiable excitement for me.

Let this be our little secret, but post blowjob, it doesn’t take much to finish me off. You can go down, use a hand, or if you can get up again (I’m pretty good at making that happen), you can finish me the biblical way. But once I’ve made you call for Jesus with my mouth full, the pleasure swings from you to me, and I know I will go home satisfied.

Guys, take this for what it's worth. When a woman is giving you oral, she is also withholding you from her most intimate area. I see it as the ultimate act of control, and if I can get him to beg to finish in my mouth, that's the ultimate victory.

If you think a blow job means the guy is in charge, you're seeing it from the wrong perspective. It’s actually the woman who’s in control, from the first lick to the last swallow.

So, are blowjobs popular among women? Yes. But mostly because we are in it for our own pleasure, and now that you know that making you orgasm in an almost humiliating way gives us satisfaction. But if you suspect your woman isn’t enjoying it, step up your moaning and groaning game and let her know she is in charge of your pleasure. She will love it as I do.

Well said! And very insightful

 

[Mike130]

I have a few friends who dislike giving blowjobs. It’s not something they want to do. They don’t enjoy the hassle, they’re not comfortable with the idea of putting a penis in their mouth, and they definitely don’t like the final interaction.

Sadly, I don't think they see this interaction the same way I do. Let’s face it, despite the pretense of the movie Deep Throat, where her clit was at the back of her throat, there is nothing in a person's mouth that can stimulate them to orgasmic levels.

However, not far from my mouth, there is something that can be stimulated – the hypothalamus of my brain.

I enjoy the art of oral sex for one reason: my pleasure.

And how do I get that pleasure? By giving him pleasure, ensuring him an explosive climax. Do I care if he has an incredible ending? Sure, I am very giving and loving, but I’m also incredibly selfish. In the end, sex with me is all about me. By bringing him to an explosive climax, I get a rush of erotic stimulation knowing I have the power to give him pleasure or leave him frustrated.

That kind of mental pleasure is my aphrodisiac. If I get you off, I secretly know I own you (at least in the moment), and that turns into insatiable excitement for me.

Let this be our little secret, but post blowjob, it doesn’t take much to finish me off. You can go down, use a hand, or if you can get up again (I’m pretty good at making that happen), you can finish me the biblical way. But once I’ve made you call for Jesus with my mouth full, the pleasure swings from you to me, and I know I will go home satisfied.

Guys, take this for what it's worth. When a woman is giving you oral, she is also withholding you from her most intimate area. I see it as the ultimate act of control, and if I can get him to beg to finish in my mouth, that's the ultimate victory.

If you think a blow job means the guy is in charge, you're seeing it from the wrong perspective. It’s actually the woman who’s in control, from the first lick to the last swallow.

So, are blowjobs popular among women? Yes. But mostly because we are in it for our own pleasure, and now that you know that making you orgasm in an almost humbling way gives us satisfaction. But if you suspect your woman isn’t enjoying it, step up your moaning and groaning game and let her know she is in charge of your pleasure. She will love it as I do.

From a guy’s point of view, I always thought the woman was always in charge. My task is to please her any way I can. Her sacred essence is just as desired as her longing for his.

 

[Pornfan77]

I love getting a blowjob! At least I remember loving them. Been so long, but they are what I think about more than anything. I miss having a girl who liked sucking dick. Big difference in a woman who does it for her partner and one who does it for herself.

 

[apantyhoselovr]

it never has been a do or die thing with me.my ex was a cocksucker and loved it. she loved dick and sucking dick made her pussy run down her leg. if she had sucked dick while i fucked her i'd still be cleaning pussy off me. she'd deep throat me til her make up was gone. she took her make up bag wit us on a date to a concert because if she went home her mom would know she'd been a cocksucking whore. she sucked mine everywhere. and....got wet as a female could from a dick in her mouth.i loved her for it. not much finer than a female wet mouth with red lipstick using them to tell her man's dick she loves him. for me its just fun making his dick cum with my mouth.

 

[OralAllOver]

As popular as Taylor Swift -- ironically, the opposite fan base

 

[brad260]

seems very common and has been ever since i can remember.. giving and receiving.. that's a good thing!

 

[BInowGay]

I love getting a blowjob! At least I remember loving them. Been so long, but they are what I think about more than anything. I miss having a girl who liked sucking dick. Big difference in a woman who does it for her partner and one who does it for herself.

Guys give the best blowjobs

 

[cadman7777]

I love giving blow jobs and I've never had any complaints from the recipients about it. I feel like if you enjoy what you are doing and really get into it, it is more pleasurable for the guy you are with. I have had orgasms while giving blow jobs. I get turned on even more if the guy talks dirty to me while I'm doing it.

I use. to blowjobs from an employee and she loved it when I talked dirty while she was sucking me....you could tell she was taking it to another level as I talked all the until I exploded in her mouth