How To Approach Same Sex

[Mermaid]

Hello How To!

I have a question/challenge for you. How do you approach someone of the same sex, that you may be interested in, when you don't know how they'll react? That's a mouthful. I actually freeze up when hitting on either gender, if I happen to be interested in the person. Any suggestions?

 

[Etoile]

Hi Mermaid! You might want to ask this in the GLBT Chatter section also (not instead!). There are some people over there who I know would have good answers for you.

If you're still looking for avatars, check out my gallery - see the link in my sig

 

[nycphoto]

Walk up to them and talk to them, get a feel then ask if you think they are into you.
It is your confidence that will make the other person feel comfortable with you. If you are scared they will tend to pick up on that and react. Pose yourself and go towards them, act the part of a seductress. If you fail so what, try another day another bar.

 

[Xectxny19X]

You know...it really depends on the scenario. Can I get a case scenario por favor? *wink* In any case, just paying a lot of attention whether it be eye contact or conversation does the trick as well!