how to calm down a little?

[shelleb4]

Im just beginning a journey of becoming sub to my husband who is also new to this.
The problem is: how do i calm down! Im becoming obsessed with it all. Its taking most of my head space.
I dont want to rush him or put on pressure, but im walking round with a huge cheesy grin on my face and what im sure must be a
"when can i do it again" poster on my forehead.
Libido's were a little mismatched to begin with, but never a problem.

So any tips?

ps, wanking is not working for me before you suggest that.

 

[herecomestherain]

Shell there's time enough to be calm when your'e dead! Enjoy yourself and keep up your energy and his with lots of healthy food and drink. Have fun.

 

[WallyLlama]

I can't resist wondering... how does a sub put pressure on her dom?

It DOES seem like contradiction in terms!

 

[catalina_francisco]

Enjoy the frustration, the passion, and the joy. The calming down just may never be possible. For some of us it is like an addiction...the more you get, the more you want. Failing that, if it gets too much, perhaps some meditation or mutual gentle touching and stroking can work to ease the need temporarily.

Catalina

 

[peachykeen]

I can't resist wondering... how does a sub put pressure on her dom?

It DOES seem like contradiction in terms!

'scalled 'topping from the bottom', luv