How to feel aroused by pissing on someone.... ???

I don't necessarily see it as either a dom or sub issue. For me, I'd rather watch a woman pee or perhaps even have her pee on me, especially my cock and balls. That way I'd be looking right up her naked crotch which is what I suppose my real motivation is. I've never had woman willing to do the golden shower thing, although I've had two willing to let me watch her pee while standing in the bathtub.

I think the "watching" thing is more a voyeuristic issue than anything else. It's kind of like a version of sneaking a peek into the bathroom while someone is peeing and that peeking thing is a way of getting into someone's private space. Maybe that's sort of the issue. It's not so much the pee thing per se as much as it the voyeurism.

I sometimes like to view videos of women pissing in public places. It's much more interesting than just peeing in a toilet, which frankly does nothing for me. It's "normal" and therefore not erotic. It's watching a woman sneak off behind a bush or parked car in a public park, perhaps with people or cars going past in the background, lifting her skirt, squatting and peeing. I know the rush there is the taboo part of it. The doing of it in public. The breaking the rules, breaking the law part of it.

THere is also a bit of "humiliation" involved when a woman pees in public. It's like if she has to go so badly that she has no time to find a bathroom or there isn't one around and so she just does it behind the bush. Suppose she got caught? How fucking embarrassing and humiliating for her. It's the same rush people get "dogging" i.e. having sex in a semi-public place where there is a risk of getting caught.

There is also that "animal" part of it. It's like animals just pee in the field when they have to. When a human does that, it's admitting to the fact that humans are just mammals. Without social pressures and such, we'd all probably be pissing and fucking in public like monkeys. I think there's a part of that associated with public swinging or group sex, especially in the open air like around a swimming pool. There's something visceral about behaving like an animal, especially when it comes to being naked and doing things that we are condition to see as dirty and private.

Maybe it's sort of a way of thumbing your nose at bullshit teachings and rules. I think I've always been a person that questioned "rules" and if I didn't get a good reason as to why a rule was necessary, I figured it was bullshit. It goes back to the nuns telling me this or that was wrong, and the only answer to "why" was, "because Jesus said it." What crap. If a rule makes sense for whatever reason, let somebody explain it logically and rationally. And yes, I do understand why it's against the "rules" to pee in public whether for decorum or modesty or hygine. I'm not stupid. I just get a rush out of watching sometimes. Just like I like watching people fuck in groups or in front of a camera.
 
As a young man I remember...

I remembered a party I was at many years ago. I had been drinking beer half the night and had to wait to get into the bathroom. By the time I got I in the bathroom I really, really had to go. I closed the door and stood by the toilet pissing away when walked two girls. I thought they would be embarrassed and leave. Instead, they came over, one on each side and started washing their hands in my stream of pee and laughing.

That is the closest I have ever come to WS but I have to say, that was hot as hell.
 
Speaking for myself, it's taboo, it's an incredibly arousing act of submission, it's being open and receptive to receiving a part of him, it feels good splashing on my tits...and mess isn't an issue, it's what the tub and shower are for :)

I like this. The submission.
Also being seen peeing is appealing because of the exhibitionist issue.
 
I like this. The submission.
Also being seen peeing is appealing because of the exhibitionist issue.

You hit the nail on the head with the "exhibitionist" part. I think that's what I was sort of getting at with my "voyeurisn" comments. One hot little video I saw once was of this woman in what appeared to be some European city. It was in a park with people sitting on park benches. This woman came into the scene and just lifted her skirt, squatted and started peeing on the sidewalk. At the same time, some "tourists" stopped with cameras to snap pictures. Exhibitionist to the max. Voyeurist to the max.
 
Well, I've sometimes enjoyed activities that didn't appeal to me for their own sake, just because my partner was so excited about them. It's nice to be able to get somebody worked up, it can be fun to have a carrot on a stick to dangle in front of him, and it's gratifying to give him the satisfaction in the end.
 
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