how to give a blowjob?

[max06m]

how do u give a high quality blowjob

 

[SweetErika]

Ask for tips and feedback from your partner. Or, if you're the receiver, tell your partner what you like and give her/him plenty of direction and positive feedback.

You should also be able to find some tips and things to try in the second post of The Blank Manual sticky.

 

[CWatson]

You should also learn to punctuate. Attention to detail, and patience with tedium, is a good quality for the Internet, for everyday life, and for blowjobs.

 

[Berwyn]

Wow, CWatson. I love the Hiaku!

 

[Nataliefun41]

Watch a few porn flicks and try to emulate what you see. Eye contact and enthusiasm are very key I've found. A few well spoken words like" do you like watching me suck your cock?" seem to get good results.

 

[StrayKat]

The "high quality" part made me giggle.

 

[Eilan]

how do u give a high quality blowjob

First, I make sure I get a ring. . .

Never mind--that's what I do for teh buttsex.

 

[sexliz]

Just enjoy doing it.I have found if I enjoy it then they enjoy it.

 

[kinkycaveman]

I like feeling teeth when I get one.
Most guys don't. Keep that in mind.

 

[Dreamliner]

Situational dependent, there is no right or wrong way......just sense what you partner wants..listen to them....touch them....feed fomr the responses be they verbal or movement.

 

[insert____here]

tee hee...high quality... bwaahaahaa...i'm not laughing at you, really.

most guys will just be glad you're down there...

relax, look them in the eye, try not to gag, and i cannot stress using your hands enough, even just to stoke his leg or something.

other than that, it's all about the individual and the mood.

 

[tinawill77]

I definitely agree with everyone else who says it's situational and depends on the person you're giving the blow job to and what he likes, but generally I have found that guys like it when I look up and swirl my tongue around the head of the cock before sucking on it.

 

[StrayKat]

i cannot stress using your hands enough, even just to stoke his leg or something.

I just love giving bj without using my hands at all

 

[Neon_Ultra]

NO TEETH (unless he asks for it)
This is a golden rule. No teeth. No teeth. If he has a pained expression on his face, it's likely not that you're so good he's gonna cum, it's that you're doing it wrong. Also, don't suck too hard, it should be pleasurable not tormenting.


Hereafter advice given is a tad subjective and possibly open to dispute...


Learn how to deep-throat, but don't become so good at it you forget how to choke and splutter. Doing this, with spit and precum bubbling up around your mouth and your face turning red-to-purple and *pretending* you can't breathe and *encouraging* him to fuck your face.... these are all good. Have pigtails too so he's got handlebars. Wear lots of of mascara so it will run down your face. It's a good look.

 

[Adakgirl]

In order to give a high quality blow job, one should start with a high quality cock. Methods should vary. I am old school, blow jobs are for sucking cock...not giving a hand job with a little mouth and tongue thrown in. My hands are busy other places on his body.

One way I might do it is, on my knees, one hand on the cheek of his ass, the other lifting up his ball sack in my palm as I look up into his face. Then I slide my wet warm tongue between his ass and balls and start licking all along that area...then licking his scrotum and sucking one nut at a time into my mouth rolling them around, sucking and kissing.

At this point I may or may not... start fingering his asshole, probing and playing as I enjoy the scent and feel of his balls on my face and in my mouth. Then I lick slowly up and down all sides of his shaft, flicking my tongue under the head..all round...wetting the cock well....glancing up at him occasionally with a lustful hungry look on my face. I usually make pleasurable sounds as I go about this.

By now, if he hasn't already grabbed my hair in both hands and shoved his cock down my throat. I take just the head slowly into my lips, suck lips only...then take more and more of his cock into my mouth, until I am sucking as much of it as I can, then things accelerate, suck harder, faster...then slow down, slide it out of my mouth completely...look up at him, might kiss his stomach, thighs, go back to his balls then take his cock back in my mouth again....repeating this stop/start tease several times, while ass grabbing, hands on his thighs squeezing...sucking, drooling, gagging....

and well...nature takes over from there. I don't take my mouth off his cock (unless he tells me he wants to come on my face, tits, wherever) until he has shot his complete load down my throat and I have swallowed it all...I like to feel his orgasm subside inside my mouth...

I don't know if you'd call that high quality or not...I do know this, I have ever given nor do I even think I know how to give a low quality or a medium quality blow job.

That's just one way. There are so many different ways I can answer this question.

 

[tonightsthenigh]

how do u give a high quality blowjob

Giving a blowjob is an adventure, not a chore, but a pleasurable thing for both the giver and receiver.

All men might be created equal, but all men like their monkey handled in a different way. Don’t assume you know what he likes – experiment, talk or follow his leads.

Don’t think your mouth has to do it all by itself, use your hands for assistance and variation.

Be sure to pay attention to the whole penis, not just the head. Swirl your tongue around the head while pumping him with your hand.

For many men, hummers are a visual experience – make sure he can watch. A strategically placed mirror can be a huge turn-on for him.

If your jaw gets a little tired, don’t be afraid to hop on him and ride him for a few minutes, before going back down to finish the job. I guarantee the thought of you tasting your sweet love juices on his favorite tool will add to his excitement.

Spit, swallow or point and shoot? Always swallow with a smile : o ), but that’s me speaking, I am a man. Andrea always loved to swallow, but the choice is yours – at the very least, try it you might like it.

I have never seen a survey on the topic, but I would guess that most men don’t care all that much what you do with his love juices. I can think of one girl in particular that always used the “point and shoot” technique. She would remove her lips just seconds before I climaxed and stroked me until I had a puddle of cum on my stomach. Good stuff.

 

[SexylittleJJ]

No teeth and ENTHUSIASM!!!

Change things up so it doesn't get monotonous....don't ignore the jewels...

Suction, eye contact...again enthusiasm and pay attention to the signals your man is giving you