How to give the most pleasurable handjob

Coconut oil is the best lube in the world….never gets sticky or gummy.
Get some circular thumb action going on the underside as well, right under the lip of the head, rubbing that lip there as well kicks some surprising nerve endings into life.
Don’t be afraid to use some other tools in your arsenal… I personally love it when you touch my cockhead to your nipples, rub them all over your oh so soft breasts a bit….
 
I couldn’t agree more with this. I once had a very fun, unexpected (and slightly tipsy) conversation with a girl in a pub - she on a hen do, me on a stag do - where she asked this exact question. My answer was basically ‘take your time, take on relaxed authority, control and confidence’ - ultimately, the recipient is already very lucky to be being gratified like this, and if you can occupy their headspace, take charge and guide things, then they’re only going to feel more and more special. So whereas she was feeling pressure to ‘do it ok/well enough’, I was basically trying to get her to flip that thinking around - the more confident and in command you are, the more pleasurable they’ll find it, by and large.

Don’t get me wrong, there are physical elements that you want to get right, too :D But the mental side is so key as wewell to

I totaly agree. I appreciate hearing your observations and thoughts
 
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