How to have a threesome fantasy without a 3rd

[VlP]

My wife and I have always been open about our fantasies and maintain an exciting and very active sex life. We both are aroused by the fantasy of a threesome, both with a male and female. I'm not certain that we are ready to actually experience another person yet, but the fantasy still lives on with both of us.
I would like to act out a MFM fantasy with my wife without actually having another male present. I've thought of several ideas and would like your input.
Here are my ideas so far:
* Have her bound and blindfolded, and have a pre-maid audio recording from another man where we are engaged in a conversation of what we are about to do to her. This way she hears me with another man, giving her the realism that there is actually someone else there.
The problem with this scenario is the physical touching and trying to create the realism. Unless I had a dummy with a dildo she could suck while I'm licking her, I can't seem to come up with any realistic ideas.

Another idea, which we've both discussed and like, is to have her on a video-chat session with another man, both telling each other what to do and I sit back and watch.

Again, I need your help. If anyone has any helpful ideas, or any successful situations, please let me know.

Thanks..

 

[Mister_Wikk]

Video chat could be a good solution. Maybe even grab a dildo for her and have another fella watch with his audio on (and yours as well) so you can hear him and he can hear you.

 

[VlP]

Video chat could be a good solution. Maybe even grab a dildo for her and have another fella watch with his audio on (and yours as well) so you can hear him and he can hear you.

Yes, audio would be very nice. Maybe have him directing her with the dildo as if it was his cock. Thank you for responding.

 

[Mister_Wikk]

No problem.

There was another post here about a guy being asked to watch as his friends have sex. If you know someone sex-positive and can tolerate a voyeur, perhaps that can be option too. 'Long as everyone knows the bounds and rules and abide by them.

 

[subwannabe]

I think if you want realism you have to do realism so I approve of the video chat thing. If it ain't gonna be real you will know, unless you can really make her believe someone else is there and it is good enough that she actually does believe it, which doesn't sound like your first solution.

 

[kato675]

If you think you are not ready, it can be very very dangerous...

I think you should be sure first.

 

[JRaven]

The thing about the video...
The other guy could watch your wife sucking you off or you going down on her. He could even watch the two of you screwing.

He's there, but of course, there is no contact.

Jenny

 

[VlP]

Thanks for all the responses. I agree with all of you. I think the video chat would be the most intense, realistic approach. Now to find a good chat and partner, which is exciting in itself.