How to stop the universe balancing itself....

[nyloose]

so anone have any ideas, this is the story this week has been the worst and yet the weirdest and best week, firstly my gf last friday asked me out, thought that everything was going ok, seeing as we havent been getting on lately everything went cool, saturday came along, she got all arsy with me again but in the end she blamed it on the time of the month so i didnt think anything of it..........jump to tuesday i receive a very large cheque of money out of the blue, this of course makes me very happy, so i decide to txt my gf just to say hi and hope all is good, she then brings up the subject of dumping me again, so once i was up now im back down, skip to thursday after a few drinks with a freind we happen to be sitting on the same table as a very important medai person which of course being in my career i take full advantage of.......and so there is the universe at the minute im as depressed as shit and yet ive had a very good week finacially and business wise, why oh why oh why is the shape of my chromosones, at the minute im drunk excuse the silly joke at the end

 

[cat28]

The ups and downs in life...

I know the feeling, nyloose...Had it yesterday, in fact...keep cool, drink a lot of water to help get over the hangover you're heading for, lol.
Life has a funny way of balancing itsself out. After a lot of bad things happen to you, you can do two things - overreact - it's what I usually do, or jut let it hurt a bit and look at the good things that are happening around you. Hang in there!

 

[nyloose]

oh cum on people im trying to get some meaning to this week dont just leave me hanging here like some tit head..........shhhhish

 

[nyloose]

Re: The ups and downs in life...

I know the feeling, nyloose...Had it yesterday, in fact...keep cool, drink a lot of water to help get over the hangover you're heading for, lol.
Life has a funny way of balancing itsself out. After a lot of bad things happen to you, you can do two things - overreact - it's what I usually do, or jut let it hurt a bit and look at the good things that are happening around you. Hang in there!

thanks cat nice to know someone out there is feeling the same way, sorry to hear though you are feeling the same way........i dont know what to do, i have i and am drinking at the mo lol, i dont know if i hate her or better off without her..........i know i luv her though

 

[Lynnezertorte]

I hate to say it....but I have to.....

No one said it would be easy......

Life is full of good and bad. If you didn't have bad times how would you ever know what good times felt like. Feel the pain of losing your girlfriend.....figure out what you might have done wrong (don't concentrate on her negatives), learn from it, dust yourself off and move on.

As much as it hurts now.....there will be another....and probably another.....and probably another.

Time heals all wounds. What ever you do......DON'T CALL HER WHEN YOU ARE DRUNK!!!!!

Hang in there.

 

[incognito989]

Time heals all wounds. What ever you do......DON'T CALL HER WHEN YOU ARE DRUNK!!!!!

This advise is doubleplus good

I've done so many completely insane or dumb things when drunk... well, I don't drink anymore because of it.

 

[SummerMorning]

Life doesn't balance out. Life doesn't do anything. It's all in your head...well, our heads if you want to bring intersubjectivity into the whole thing...

...I'd say don't worry too much.

Oh, and one thing - if your gf talks a lot about whether or not to end things --> very, very bad sign in my opinion and harbringer of not much good in short to mid term.

 

[Lynnezertorte]

This advise is doubleplus good

I've done so many completely insane or dumb things when drunk... well, I don't drink anymore because of it.

Haven't we all done that!!!! It always seems like a good idea at the time!

Now if I'm going through a bad time and I know I'm going out, I leave myself huge notes reminding me not to make THAT phone call. So far it has worked.

 

[cyberski]

Just be thankful you have some ups.....Some of us haven't had any since the beginning of this millennium....