How to tell

You can't, except by the way he acts in the bedroom maybe (but that still isn't definite).
 
Well if you want to get more into the mental aspect, sometimes you can tell by the way they talk about sex and such, but no there are no physical ways to determine if someone's a virgin or not.
 
ask him to talk about his first time. and if it seems to vague or unrealistic keep questioning him. be specific. guys remember every little detail of the first time. u may trip him up. is there some guy u like that u want o know if he is a virgin or not?
 
cuteDanny21 said:
ask him to talk about his first time. and if it seems to vague or unrealistic keep questioning him. be specific. guys remember every little detail of the first time. u may trip him up. is there some guy u like that u want o know if he is a virgin or not?

He was an ex. I did sleep with him and he said before that he wasn't a virgin, whilst i thought that he was!
 
babes20 said:
He was an ex. I did sleep with him and he said before that he wasn't a virgin, whilst i thought that he was!

Why did you think he was?
 
i'd ask him he'd prolly tell you the truth unless he wants to hide it... not sure if he'd really care now that he's an ex.
 
cuteDanny21 said:
guys remember every little detail of the first time.
not necessarily. some people have trouble remembering things no matter how much they enjoyed it and how much they'd like to think it's something they'd never forget. I was 36 my first time. 36? 37? hell.... I remember the date (dec. 6) but even just a few years later I'm not clear what year it happened.
 
mrtnmoon said:
not necessarily. some people have trouble remembering things no matter how much they enjoyed it and how much they'd like to think it's something they'd never forget. I was 36 my first time. 36? 37? hell.... I remember the date (dec. 6) but even just a few years later I'm not clear what year it happened.

wow, u lost it at 36? any reason u waited so long?
 
If he misses the hole, that would be a good clue.

Or if he can't put on a condom right.
 
brioche said:
If he misses the hole, that would be a good clue.

I tend to think actually, no, thats not a good clue.

Unless you're vagina is a foot-wide there might occasionally be angle problems.
 
bisexplicit said:
Unless you're vagina is a foot-wide there might occasionally be angle problems.
Well, not that I'm bragging or anything. . . :D
 
cuteDanny21 said:
wow, u lost it at 36? any reason u waited so long?
Eilan said:
High standards, perhaps?
well... I wish I could say it was by choice or that I have incredibly high standards or something, but it'd be a lie. the sad truth is that I was fat and very, very shy when I was growing up. I worked up the nerve to ask a couple girls out in my late teens/early 20's, had some bad/embarrassing experiences, then pretty much gave up and turned even more to food.

I'm still kind of a big guy but a few years ago I lost a huge amount of weight from what my highest was. I'm also still kinda shy (especially in real life) but not nearly as bad as I used to be. so, I finally managed to get my cherry popped and I have more sex probably than I ever thought I would (but not nearly as much as I want ;)).
 
mrtnmoon said:
well... I wish I could say it was by choice or that I have incredibly high standards or something, but it'd be a lie. the sad truth is that I was fat and very, very shy when I was growing up. I worked up the nerve to ask a couple girls out in my late teens/early 20's, had some bad/embarrassing experiences, then pretty much gave up and turned even more to food.
Ya know, you don't have to justify yourself.

I'm still kind of a big guy but a few years ago I lost a huge amount of weight from what my highest was. I'm also still kinda shy (especially in real life) but not nearly as bad as I used to be. so, I finally managed to get my cherry popped and I have more sex probably than I ever thought I would (but not nearly as much as I want ;)).
Good for you! :rose:
 
Eilan said:
Ya know, you don't have to justify yourself.
oh, I know. I was just answering a question. I just tend to give a little TMI sometimes..lol.
 
I gotta ask..

If he's your EX why would you care? Let it go..Forget about him, he's an EX..
 
Probably the t-shirt he's wearing that says "My name's Fred and I'm a virgin".
 
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