How would you feel?

[jeepster610]

I posted this in another forum where it didn't really belong, so I am re-posting it here on the general board.

Suppose you and your wife of 35 years always had a fantasy of watching her being with another man, and finally after much discussion and planning, it happened. You just watched her sucking another man's cock, and she was really getting into it, and he just finished cumming in her mouth. How do you think you would REALLY feel after it was all said and done? Just asking for a friend...

 

[kevinj3636]

Amazed. Turned on. Very much so

 

[PhoenixRyzing]

I posted this in another forum where it didn't really belong, so I am re-posting it here on the general board.

Suppose you and your wife of 35 years always had a fantasy of watching her being with another man, and finally after much discussion and planning, it happened. You just watched her sucking another man's cock, and she was really getting into it, and he just finished cumming in her mouth. How do you think you would REALLY feel after it was all said and done? Just asking for a friend...

I didn't watch her, but we opened our marriage a couple of years ago and my wife sucked another guy's cock and told me about it. I was simultaneously turned on and jealous. I definitely jacked off thinking about it. The funny thing is, neither of us has done much of anything with anyone else since then, but just knowing we can feels very freeing. Now, this was never a particular fantasy for either of us; I would imagine if it was, there would have been less ambiguity and more unconflicted arousal.

 

[jeepster610]

I didn't watch her, but we opened our marriage a couple of years ago and my wife sucked another guy's cock and told me about it. I was simultaneously turned on and jealous. I definitely jacked off thinking about it. The funny thing is, neither of us has done much of anything with anyone else since then, but just knowing we can feels very freeing. Now, this was never a particular fantasy for either of us; I would imagine if it was, there would have been less ambiguity and more unconflicted arousal.

Reply When she sucked this guy off, were you aware that she was going to do this, ie: pre arraigned, or did she do this on her own, and decided to tell you about it after the fact?

 

[PhoenixRyzing]

Reply When she sucked this guy off, were you aware that she was going to do this, ie: pre arraigned, or did she do this on her own, and decided to tell you about it after the fact?

I knew that she was attracted to him, would probably see him, and that she wanted something to happen with him.

 

[Dearelliot]

I used to think that women had a mental circuit breaker sort of switch, that required them to "Really like any guy they fucked or sucked" otherwise they'd feel like a whore (in their own mind) and that worried me about my wife and another man. The theory is I don't mind the act but I do mind that she likes him.

 

[Handydan]

I posted this in another forum where it didn't really belong, so I am re-posting it here on the general board.

Suppose you and your wife of 35 years always had a fantasy of watching her being with another man, and finally after much discussion and planning, it happened. You just watched her sucking another man's cock, and she was really getting into it, and he just finished cumming in her mouth. How do you think you would REALLY feel after it was all said and done? Just asking for a friend...

Been there done it. I was so turned on watching her be sexual with another guy.

 

[Sgts19]

I used to think that women had a mental circuit breaker sort of switch, that required them to "Really like any guy they fucked or sucked" otherwise they'd feel like a whore (in their own mind) and that worried me about my wife and another man. The theory is I don't mind the act but I do mind that she likes him.

They sometimes get horny like us

 

[PhoenixRyzing]

I used to think that women had a mental circuit breaker sort of switch, that required them to "Really like any guy they fucked or sucked" otherwise they'd feel like a whore (in their own mind) and that worried me about my wife and another man. The theory is I don't mind the act but I do mind that she likes him.

I used to think that women had a mental circuit breaker sort of switch, that required them to "Really like any guy they fucked or sucked" otherwise they'd feel like a whore (in their own mind) and that worried me about my wife and another man. The theory is I don't mind the act but I do mind that she likes him.

I think that's just some are socialized. Plenty of women seem totally capable of fucking without emotional involvement.

 

[Dearelliot]

I wonder... a woman I know 30 years younger than I She is 60 says women have changed They don't feel the whore guilt. BTW I use the word whore for my point I don't feel women who have sex for free or for money are in any way less than perfect.

 

[Dearelliot]

That your husband is a cuck is interesting...I wonder what his prefers are..Watching you? or Hearing you tell? Eating you out after? Being fed from a condom? Would you be willing to share. Or being made by you or any woman to kneel and suck

 

[LoveOlderLove]

I'm younger, havnt had any experience like if but if you have been together that long and both go into it 100% wanting to do it then do it. If you don't like it just stop. You have been together for 35 years. Don't think a dick of two will end that

 

[jeepster610]

That your husband is a cuck is interesting...I wonder what his prefers are..Watching you? or Hearing you tell? Eating you out after? Being fed from a condom? Would you be willing to share. Or being made by you or any woman to kneel and suck

He says (remember, in my original post I was just asking for a friend) that after 35 years of marriage their sex life has grown stale, and he would like to see how she sexually responds to another man, compared how she responds to him during the very few times that they engage in sex . He has no desire to join in. Besides the fact that he feels it would be a real turn-on watching her suck another man to completion, he is hoping that this might turn around her attitude towards having sex with him. But he is really concerned that this whole thing may backfire.

 

[Dearelliot]

He says (remember, in my original post I was just asking for a friend) that after 35 years of marriage their sex life has grown stale, and he would like to see how she sexually responds to another man, compared how she responds to him during the very few times that they engage in sex . He has no desire to join in. Besides the fact that he feels it would be a real turn-on watching her suck another man to completion, he is hoping that this might turn around her attitude towards having sex with him. But he is really concerned that this whole thing may backfire.

Sorry, I think I read one post and answered another...I've done that a few times.

 

[Bisexguy70]

I would never know because my wife NEVER sucks cock, not even mine! However Id feel great being on the recieving end of another mans wife sucking my dick and enjoying my full load of cum

 

[Audiflex]

I posted this in another forum where it didn't really belong, so I am re-posting it here on the general board.

Suppose you and your wife of 35 years always had a fantasy of watching her being with another man, and finally after much discussion and planning, it happened. You just watched her sucking another man's cock, and she was really getting into it, and he just finished cumming in her mouth. How do you think you would REALLY feel after it was all said and done? Just asking for a friend...

That’s definitely a situation where fantasy and reality can feel very different. Some people find it exhilarating, others might struggle with unexpected emotions after the fact. No real way to know for sure until it happens, but it’s always good to be honest with yourself (and your partner) about how you’re feeling.

 

[Audiflex]

I would never know because my wife NEVER sucks cock, not even mine! However Id feel great being on the recieving end of another mans wife sucking my dick and enjoying my full load of cum

How do you survive?

 

[NCWSLvr]

So, this has happened to me. We have been married for 25 years. We would talk/play/fantasize about her fucking other men (being use, threesome, gangbangs). Last year my wife said she wanted to be more submissive. I told her I would be her Master, slut train her, and share her for real. And that is exactly what happened. I brought her to gloryholes, had her fuck anonymous men at the adult theater, get a regular guy we meet every few months at a hotel, and I plan on more.

Its been incredible for both of us. I now pretty much just think of her while I jerk off now. I have my own slut/pornstar.

 

[Britva415]

he is really concerned that this whole thing may backfire

Let’s start with this:

Suppose you and your wife of 35 years always had a fantasy of watching her being with another man

Is that even true? Or is it his fantasy?

If she doesn’t have this fantasy then it will backfire. Even if she does, it might. Fantasies aren’t always what someone wants to really do.

But there’s a way to play this out with low stakes. This couple could roleplay her picking up another man, they could pretend he’s a stranger. If they like pretending she’s with another man, then maybe they’ll both be interested in taking other steps. But starting here should be a nice low-stakes way to explore the fantasy.

It pushes the “husband-gets-to-watch” button, too.

 

[wouldloveto]

Truthfully I have no idea. I have indulged in this fantasy, and in my fantasy it turns me on and I join in and it as a very exciting and sexy as hell culminating with many satisfying orgasms.

IRL, I might puke and be disgusted, but we will likely never know, so I will stick with the fantasy.

 

[zoso682001]

While i didn't think it would ever happen it did . I couldn't believe how hard it made my dick . It's an unbelievable sight to see . It may not be for everybody , jealousy and all , but it worked for me...Big Time !

 

[KinkStevens]

I posted this in another forum where it didn't really belong, so I am re-posting it here on the general board.

Suppose you and your wife of 35 years always had a fantasy of watching her being with another man, and finally after much discussion and planning, it happened. You just watched her sucking another man's cock, and she was really getting into it, and he just finished cumming in her mouth. How do you think you would REALLY feel after it was all said and done? Just asking for a friend...

Jealous, exhilarated, conflicted. I’d love it

 

[KinkStevens]

Depending on your ideology of marriage, you may feel like you agreed to violate what is considered sacred, but tell that tp your hard dick!

 

[SexyAruna]

I posted this in another forum where it didn't really belong, so I am re-posting it here on the general board.

Suppose you and your wife of 35 years always had a fantasy of watching her being with another man, and finally after much discussion and planning, it happened. You just watched her sucking another man's cock, and she was really getting into it, and he just finished cumming in her mouth. How do you think you would REALLY feel after it was all said and done? Just asking for a friend...

I think most men would be rock hard watching their wives or girlfriends take another man. A stronger, more dominant man who is more well endowed. It’s just human nature.

From a woman’s perspective, it’s exhilarating! The pleasure of humiliating and dominating combined with the natural tendency to submit.