Ladies, would you offer your husband to a friend in the following scenario?

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Ladies, would you offer your husband to a friend in the following scenario?

One of your best friends who has lived in London since college will be in the states on business for just a week. She’s an attractive 52 yr old workaholic who recently finalized a long, drawn out divorce. She plans to spend every night after work with you, except for one. She confides that on that night she’s going to find a guy on Tinder, or maybe at the hotel bar, to come to her hotel room to have sex. She tells you, without shame, that it's time for her two-year sex drought to end. She insists that she's too busy for a relationship these days. She says that she just needs to get laid and with her divorce now behind her, she waited for this business trip to do it to avoid any drama or attachments back home.

You’re terrified for your friend and you tell her so. A random guy she finds on an app or at a hotel bar could end up assaulting her, giving her an STD, or becoming obsessed and stalk her. But despite your concerns, your friend is determined to follow through. It's been too long since she's had sex and refuses to wait any longer. You tell her you know of another way, a much safer way, for her have a single night of sex, with a guy you know who is trustworthy, has no STD's and is very handsome. You offer her your husband.

Ladies, would you, out of concern for your best friends safety, offer her your husband for a few hours of sex?? As background, you and your husband have always been faithful and your marriage is strong. Oh, and you're pretty sure your husband will agree to it because… well… he’s a guy. (need I say more).

If yes, what rules might you impose on their hookup? Also, does the idea of instructing your husband to go to a hotel to sexually please another woman excite you in any way?
 
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C'mon, there must be a few women here at Lit willing to answer this.

Heck, if it was "Men, would you offer your wife to a friend...." it would probably be one of the hottest threads of the last few days :LOL:
 
I share my husband with a friend. None of us planned for it to happen but it did anyway. At first, it was a purely sexual FFM relationship but it now seems to be a deeper ongoing relationship that none of us want to label.

I've been married to my husband for 14 years and we're very happy together. The other woman is a long-term friend who divorced her husband a couple of years ago and hasn't been lucky with her attempts at dating. She's one of my oldest friends and our relationship only became sexual after she hinted that she was thinking about dating a woman.

We don't have any specific rules about sex but all of us are quite keen to keep our private lives private for a while at least so a certain amount of fibbing is involved when talking to family, neighbours etc.
 
I share my husband with a friend. None of us planned for it to happen but it did anyway. At first, it was a purely sexual FFM relationship but it now seems to be a deeper ongoing relationship that none of us want to label.

I've been married to my husband for 14 years and we're very happy together. The other woman is a long-term friend who divorced her husband a couple of years ago and hasn't been lucky with her attempts at dating. She's one of my oldest friends and our relationship only became sexual after she hinted that she was thinking about dating a woman.

We don't have any specific rules about sex but all of us are quite keen to keep our private lives private for a while at least so a certain amount of fibbing is involved when talking to family, neighbours etc.
Sounds like a win-win-win situation to me
 
I've been married to my husband for 14 years and we're very happy together. The other woman is a long-term friend who divorced her husband a couple of years ago and hasn't been lucky with her attempts at dating.
Very interesting! Thanks for sharing.

Does the idea of her being with your husband excite you in any way? Has this caused any stress or strain in your marriage?
 
From the time when she asked me what I thought about her accepting a date with another woman (it was one named woman) to her getting into our bed took about three months. Her admission that she was thinking about women changed the way we thought about each other and both of us were a bit scared of the possible consequences. My husband and I talked about her and fantasised about how good it would be but I was more worried about the possibility of losing her as a friend than excited. I’m sure that she was equally stressed because she’s quite timid and easily led.

She continued visiting us and as all three of us knew that it might happen, the temptation was probably too great to resist.

I love watching her with my husband and her watching him with me. The first few times we were all on our best behaviour but we've been doing this for a while now and there's never been any stress or jealousy.
 
Great question. If your friend shared that she had a toothache wouldn't you recommend a good dentist if you knew one? Why do we not care if our friends sexual needs are unmet, then?

I get it, so many women can not separate the two, but why not address all of your friends needs? If your man is rather good at something, why not share in your good fortune?

I know, I know, typical male thinking, but life is short why not share?
 
Great question. If your friend shared that she had a toothache wouldn't you recommend a good dentist if you knew one? Why do we not care if our friends sexual needs are unmet, then?

I get it, so many women can not separate the two, but why not address all of your friends needs? If your man is rather good at something, why not share in your good fortune?

I know, I know, typical male thinking, but life is short why not share?
That's not unlike my situation. My wife has been very generous to me and my intimate friend, who is her friend first.
 
What if your friend is so good your hubby wants that to be a more frequent thing? How about exploring uncharted territory? Hubby and friend. Hubby, friend and you too. I think it could be exhilarating for you, hubby and your friend also. Works well for us.

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