Humiliation?

[Boat1]

I don't see humiliation as bad or unpleasant. I see it as a form of Adult teasing play. In some cases being made to cum before you want to can be humiliating. The orgasm is pleasurable but the fact that it was out of my control, can make it humiliating. And the more pleasurable the orgasm the more humiliating it can be.
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It's all about perspective and you seem to have a good one.

It's odd, that many things I do, I'd find humiliating if I was doing them for myself, but doing the same things for my Wife/Domme's pleasure and satisfaction, I find them erotic and gratifying.

 

[dow7]

i just told a gay friend that i wanted her to do me w/ a strap on. i'm embarrassed,

 

[Purple_Fronds]

I know humiliation is unpleasant and bad but its something that arouses me, its something about myself my personality that i find to stop, being humiliated makes me embarrassed yes but gives me a massive sexual trill at same time,i hate it but want it same time

I don’t see why it’s bad, if it’s done with care. In my opinion it’s not much different than impact play, just more difficult to pull off, as it’s relatively easy to determine if the person is responding to pain but not being hurt or damaged. It’s much harder to ensure the humiliation stays in the arousal zone while ensuring when over they don’t internalize it. If being humiliated gets you hot and afterwards with the right care you feel great, then you should just enjoy this part of yourself.

 

[Lost_Writer01]

Humiliation can be powerful if designed and delivered well. Too many people rush to 100 too quickly. If you take the time to understand someone with this kink, their drivers and their desires, there’s very few things more powerful than being in someone’s mind and humiliating them in just the right ways.

 

[dow7]

I haven’t heard from the lesbian-I knew I’d gone too far. She said if I went too far and said something inappropriate she'd be womanly and say something, instead i havent heard from her so i take that as a no and this is after telling me about her not wearing panties and she hasn’t worn hose since she had hair. i asked if she used a strap on and she said yes and i said id like her to use one on me. crickets. deep sigh. it's funny that she doesnt wear panties cos i wanted to smell hers!

 

[pollock0]

Humiliation can be powerful if designed and delivered well. Too many people rush to 100 too quickly. If you take the time to understand someone with this kink, their drivers and their desires, there’s very few things more powerful than being in someone’s mind and humiliating them in just the right ways.

this 100x. A lot of people seem to think that humiliation is easy and just requires you calling a submissive names, but it infinitely more subtle and difficult. I find that it requires patience because you must know the sub to know what their pressure points are and (as was mentioned above) not cause harm that is above their tolerance level. Personally I also find that the more subtle forms of humiliation are often much more gratifying.

 

[nutoseen]

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

it has been about a week since i did this. i had done it before but it fell off my humiliation list. now its coming back. ...over the past decade when i am at a gym and i see a couple (M/F) working out together and i have had chance to interact with them and be on a friendly basis i try and change in men's locker room and exhibit my tiny penis while male of the couple is in locker room. it is very hot to see the look in the womans eyes or look on her face next time i see them in gym if he has shared this with her. now she knows i have tiny dick. not always but a lot of the time she will look at me different. some women with a smile that wasnt there before. some steal glances of my crotch. some find time to talk to me alone in a feel bad for me way a la poor little guy kind of manner.

I don't go for superintense make-me-cry humiliation, but I prefer it peppered throughout my day-to-day interactions with him. And I'm not sure I'd call it a fetish as it doesn't get me off sexually, but it does feel oh so right.

 

[artgorden]

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[dreamer109]

Doesn't seem to be very popular, that makes me feel like I'm odd for liking it.

I don’t find it or you odd at all. Mwm here and I love it when she does. Which is no very often unfortunately

 

[AprilTwenties]

Looking back, I guess there's some sort of thrill out of it. More embarrassment, boo, to be honest.

I'm very submissive and I lead the life of a streetwalker. Happily so. But, back in the day, when I was starting this life of vice my owner made me go to the chemist each and every day, all tarted up in my night-time hooking clothes, and buy enough rubbers for my shift! I'd do, like, 13-14 punters a night, so that was a lot to buy!

Very embarrassing. Very humiliating. There'd be, every so often, a queue...so I'd get looked up and down...very degrading.

Afterwards? When I got out with my purchases? Quite a release.

My owner loved it.

A x

 

[humiliatemepiggy]

I love this thread, humiliating tasks and being told of to talk about fantasies - humiliation really evolves over time

 

[wifes_fag]

When I was 18 I got to sucking an older guys cock. He made me shave my cock and legs. I was wearing short cutoffs a lot. I never did have much hair in my legs but up close you could tell they were smooth. That was a little humiliating. Then he was fucking me. He made me wear panties. Then he would get girls shorts and I would have to wear them. I would change and have them on when I got there and left. While I was with him I had to wear them. Most were denim and I didn't mind them so bad. They had a short inseam and were hemmed. No matter someone I knew was going to see me in them. That was ultra embarrassing. I just told them I couldn't stand those long knee knockers shorts. It didn't seem to bother them. One did ask me if I was shaving my legs. I had to swallow and say yes I didn't want hairy legs. I don't know what they thought but I have a pretty good idea. He got me a pair of what I would call running shorts. Elastic waist and loose legs. No matter how I sat someone was going to probably see my blue or red panties

 

[Goldenfinger]

 

[play6430]

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

you are definitely not alone, it wasn't until the last 10 years that I have known about my cravings for this, It is hard for me to orgasm just during sex. but if I am verbally or physically degraded or humiliated, I can cum so intense and hard.

 

[ridemybeard69]

you are definitely not alone, it wasn't until the last 10 years that I have known about my cravings for this, It is hard for me to orgasm just during sex. but if I am verbally or physically degraded or humiliated, I can cum so intense and hard.

I love this!

 

[Angiewantsmore]

Hubby regained his mojo - he had a hidden chronic infection - and, following his recovery, he decided to try to make up for our 'lost years.' One of the things he uses to keep me aroused is gentle humiliation, so no closing the bathroom door ever, having to stay naked in the morning until he tells me I may dress, going out wearing a dress, footwear, now it's getting colder a coat, maybe stay-ups or leggings with nothing on underneath, never sitting cross legged, sucking and licking my vibrator clean after I have used it to shaft myself. Little things to keep reminding me how enjoyable sex can be, to keep me hoping that tonight will be one of the nights when he will allow me to come, because of course, he decides that as well and it works all too well.

 

[wifes_fag]

When I was about 18 i had an older "daddy". He made me shave my cock and legs. He made me wear panties and sometimes a bra. He got me girls shorts and loved to take me out and show me off. He had my ears pierced. Of course every now and then we would run into someone I knew. That was the most humiliating because then they knew what I was doing.

 

[NancyPan]

Hubby regained his mojo - he had a hidden chronic infection - and, following his recovery, he decided to try to make up for our 'lost years.' One of the things he uses to keep me aroused is gentle humiliation, so no closing the bathroom door ever, having to stay naked in the morning until he tells me I may dress, going out wearing a dress, footwear, now it's getting colder a coat, maybe stay-ups or leggings with nothing on underneath, never sitting cross legged, sucking and licking my vibrator clean after I have used it to shaft myself. Little things to keep reminding me how enjoyable sex can be, to keep me hoping that tonight will be one of the nights when he will allow me to come, because of course, he decides that as well and it works all too well.

I am a male sub, and I believe in Female Supremacy, so it is, in a way, hard for me to read about you being treated like this. HOWEVER, I understand that it is consensual, and if, like me, you enjoy serving and being humiliated, then I totally get how the things you describe would be arousing for both of you. I would enjoy many of them myself.

I particularly like things that your husband can require for you when you are out of the house together that others might not notice, but are clear signs of your submission, like your wearing dresses and not being allowed to cross your legs “like a lady” when you sit. When we go shopping, I am never to walk ahead of Her, and always carry any packages and sometimes Her purse. I especially love it when She brings me into stores like Soma or Women’s clothing stores and has me stand patiently while She looks through racks of clothing. (Sometimes I have had to confess to Her after such trips that I had an erection while standing in a shop.)

 

[lowcollar]

I can honestly say that I didn't realize how much I loved being humiliated by my Mistress until a good 12 years ago. The thought of me sucking her strapon while she slaps my face and calls me a useless hole is so good. Or, when she makes me beg to be pegged or fisted and won't give it to me unless I beg enough for her. Being written on in lipstick and having my face spit in .....all of it is so good.

 

[Supplyanddemand]

My slave Sarah is very driven by humiliation. Not necessarily, pain and punishment but more situations. It's a difficult thing to express verbally, maybe it's a connection? I know what sultuaions will arouse her and humiliate her. It's fun thinking them up and she enjoys the anticipation of being put in such situations.

 

[pussyhammer2021]

you are definitely not alone, it wasn't until the last 10 years that I have known about my cravings for this, It is hard for me to orgasm just during sex. but if I am verbally or physically degraded or humiliated, I can cum so intense and hard.

The more u say, the sexier u are becoming

 

[play6430]

The more u say, the sexier u are becoming

Glad you think so sir.

 

[Elle4u2use2]

Name calling makes my pussy so wet

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

Name calling makes my pussy so wet

Just think about all the men on Lit who know what a slut you are.

 

[RoanMtn]

I don't see humiliation as bad or unpleasant.

What some people might see as humiliation, I wouldn't. For example, in my fantasies I'm a sissy cuckold, and I suck my wife's lover's cock to get him ready for her. After he finishes, I suck his cock clean, as well as my wife's pussy. I don't find any of that humiliating as I would enjoy it. Or, if my wife only allows me wear a chastity cage while at home, even if we had visitors, I wouldn't find that humiliating either.

I also have a very small penis. If I was teased about it or what not I wouldn't find that humiliating as I like my little cock just the way it is.