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[Primalex]

So you are limiting your search to single women?

No, I don't join sites that do not at all reflect my interests or personality just for the off-chance of finding a match. I don't intend to be the sex fantasy of a cuckold.

 

[ecstaticsub]

No, I don't join sites that do not at all reflect my interests or personality just for the off-chance of finding a match. I don't intend to be the sex fantasy of a cuckold.

Your choice. You may be surprised what you may find.

Good luck

 

[rida]

Yeah, I understand this. But when they start with "Hey, I want to learn all about BDSM" and then go poof - I don't get it. Should I assume they were actually lieing? But there can't be that many women out there who want to marry me....can there?

Not everybody is wired for poly or open relationships. Or not even for sharing in a casual/not committed way.

Yeah, although somehow it's weird. When you are married, it means, someone is out there who trusts you, who knows you in real life, who is able to have a relationship etc. - and all this makes you less trustworthy than a single guy who might be a serial killer.

That is true, if they believed that your wife really knows and she is ok. Now going back to the point above, if the other woman is not wired for poly or open relationships, she will not believe that your wife is really ok. Hence the fact that you are married, instead of being a sign that someone in r/l consider you trustworthy turns into a sign that you are a lying cheater scumbag.

What was your phone number?

Between a Domly Hubby, a Sadist PYL and my 'nilla dates my carnet is kind of full. I'll add you on the waiting list thou

No, I don't join sites that do not at all reflect my interests or personality just for the off-chance of finding a match. I don't intend to be the sex fantasy of a cuckold.

Not all wifesharer are cuckold.
Hubby has a wifesharing bone that he likes to get tickled, but there is no cuckold in him at all. For that, he send me out on vanilla dates.
As for my relationship with the Sadist, trust me, that is not fodder for his wifesharing fantasy.

 

[Primalex]

Not everybody is wired for poly or open relationships. Or not even for sharing in a casual/not committed way.

Yeah, so what? They didn't start with:"Hey, I want a relationship.", they start with "Hey, I want to learn about BDSM." .. I didn't want to fuck the teachers at my school either, yet I learned from them...

Not all wifesharer are cuckold.

I was expecting this debate....

 

[Primalex]

You may be surprised what you may find.

I doubt that anything out there can surprise me.

 

[Homburg]

Yeah, so what? They didn't start with:"Hey, I want a relationship.", they start with "Hey, I want to learn about BDSM." .. I didn't want to fuck the teachers at my school either, yet I learned from them...

This is one reason why I'm iffy on mentor/mentee relationships. Seems to me that one side or the other always has ulterior motives. Still, I've done it, and a couple of times it has worked as intended.

 

[rida]

Yeah, so what? They didn't start with:"Hey, I want a relationship.", they start with "Hey, I want to learn about BDSM." .. I didn't want to fuck the teachers at my school either, yet I learned from them...

This is one reason why I'm iffy on mentor/mentee relationships. Seems to me that one side or the other always has ulterior motives. Still, I've done it, and a couple of times it has worked as intended.

What Homburg-sama said.

If they were talking as if they were just looking for a mentor and bailed because you are married, either they were lying or their definition of "mentor" was not the same as yours. (Especially if they were new to the whole idea, perhaps what they had in mind was more of a scenario where they DO get to fuck their teacher)

I was expecting this debate....

No debate. It is just that the two are not necessarily overlapping. At least with my definition and in my experience. (wifesharer do not have necessarily humiliation fantasy that seems to be the basic of cuckolding)

 

[00Syd]

This is one reason why I'm iffy on mentor/mentee relationships. Seems to me that one side or the other always has ulterior motives. Still, I've done it, and a couple of times it has worked as intended.

The only semi-mentor/mentee relationship I was ever in ended with me feeling completely taken advantage of. It turned out that I had only been a conquest all along.

 

[Homburg]

The only semi-mentor/mentee relationship I was ever in ended with me feeling completely taken advantage of. It turned out that I had only been a conquest all along.

*nod* This seems to be a consistent theme of the ones I've heard about from various friends/associates.

 

[Primalex]

The only semi-mentor/mentee relationship I was ever in ended with me feeling completely taken advantage of.

*nod* This seems to be a consistent theme of the ones I've heard about from various friends/associates.

Of course this is what Daniel would have said about Mr. Miyagi, too.

 

[Homburg]

Of course this is what Daniel would have said about Mr. Miyagi, too.

Daniel-san and Miyagi-sensei had a little something on the down low? I see the movie with different eyes now...