I like sex...whats so bad?

[ChefChip]

good for you and you're racking up posts. I'm going to level with you, you like sex, that we know. where are you and would you like to talk to me more indepth if you catch my drift. Your handle on either AIM or Yahoo could lead us to realtime chat if you are interested, and you never know from there, I have met some great friends that I tlak to all the time. also, you should try the Private message feature. I will send you one and you can test it out by responding. OK?

BTW, my name is MIke, what's yours? and what is the origin of your Lit name?

 

[pocket73]

Chef...

I don't want to start something with you I just want to make a point about age and the differences there are.

One you can take this with a grain of salt but you will realize part of this later on in life.

With age comes experience, and with age comes understanding. Something you have yet to have. Yes there are some people that surpass the norm but the idea that age doesn't matter after 18 is somewhat naive. When you grow with each passing day, and each passing moment. Experiences change you, and get you to a new level of understanding of the human experience. While you may think you are ready for many things in life and yes many people do think they are. Look at children having children nowadays. How many girls did you know that had children in High school? Or that you have met now that are around your age? That changes every year because people think that they are ready at a young age to handle the life of an adult, a true adult. While you may have grown up past 18, at 19 I do not think you are ready for a relationship with someone pass 25, and I think 25 is pushing it as well.

Again not an attack just the life experiences that I have had that may help you out in your quest for knowledge, and life's experiences.

Bryan

 

[ChefChip]

Good call Bryan

I don't think I am looking for a relationship nessecary, just for some learning and stuff. I can say that altough I am young, I have been through a lot of experiences that I think have made me far wiser than my peers, but that's not saying much.

 

[spicecajun]

nevermind

 

[ChefChip]

well aware that I am ignoratn comparitively in worldy wisdome. I will also point out that one othe most important things in my life os the persuit of knowledge, on all things (see my quote) I would be interested in learning lots of things from you Spice. Mostly since this is Lit I would like to learn more about sex. but I would also like ot learn anything I can get my hands on. So please, do not hold my age against me but rather as an oppertunity to impart knowledge to a willing pupil.

 

[spicecajun]

nevermind

 

[ChefChip]

I'll be right here my cajun queen.

 

[spicecajun]

age be dammned...make me laugh....true wit.... and the key begins to turn the lock.....

 

[ChefChip]

glad to see you come around. So you wanna chat? try downloading AIM or other wise we can hang out here on lit, or would you call me?
Pm me if you are fealing a little extra friendly

 

[Schleicher]

Wow. I'm pretty new at the Literotica boards, and I'm happy to see that this is happening almost in real-time. Anyway, I have to also agree with the post about age being analagous with experience. There are always immature, bratty adults and there will always be kids whose maturity belies their numerical age, but it's a very convenient stereotype. Even if the individuals make something happen, they'll have to explain themselves to their respective peep groups.

I'm in a running club with mostly middle aged adults. I'm one of about three or four people below middle thirties, and it's easy to observe the differences in behavior when I'm with them versus being with people my own age. Having graduated college, I can really pick out 18 year-olds from those who've lived a bit more of life. I think 21 is a milestone, along with 25, etc. onwards for life.

I learn a lot from being with older people, but I wonder whether I contribute anything to them...

 

[spicecajun]

nevermind

 

[spicecajun]

nevermind

 

[jcrealm]

I'm not ashamed of my body. I like to fuck. I am far too good at it to simply let this treasure of a body go to waste. I share it and use it to the fullest. I won't always have the opportunity to do so. I no longer care if I bother someone with my kinks or desires. One way or another I will always have someone around that I can at least hook up with once in a while to fuck our brains out. It might not always be terribly romantic, but I'd rather save the romance for the one I love. I guess I have found it to be terribly satisfying to be so open and giving with my body and talents. I say if you like to fuck, display it proudly. Those who don't comprehend or respect your message need not listen anyways!

 

[ChefChip]

well Spice,

I have not had any sex so in that effect, I am the one looking for a teacher. BUt despite the distance between us, we can still chat and have a learning experience. you never know anyway things can develope, but only if the two parties agree. You mustn't worry about having sex with a 19 yearold, It's legal and at that age, I personally belive, that I can handle the emotional consequences.

 

[Victoria N. Lace]

Double Standards

Well, the way I view it is, there has always been a double standard when it comes to women and sex. Men want their wives to be pure and untouched, yet they secretly desire her to be a whore in his bed.

Not all men or women think like that, but some still do. We are sexual beings, male and female. I have come to believe that it really isn't natural to live your life out with just one partner. Women shouldn't be labled just because they love sex and have had more than a couple of partners. As long as we are comfortable with ourselves, and can look in the mirror every morning then I say, be happy!

One last thing. I have also come to the point that in many cases it really doesn't matter what someone else thinks. I used to let that bother me and run my life for me. Not anymore. The freedom I now feel and have because I finally stood up and said this is who I am, like or leave it. I've been much much more happy.

just my thoughts
Victoria

 

[Backyard sweaty]

it really doesn't matter what someone else thinks. I used to let that bother me and r

Good for you Victoria and well said.

 

[ChefChip]

that being said, where has my cajun queen? I miss her wit. Wit on lit, what a concept.

 

[Victoria N. Lace]

*grin*

Thank you Backyard...

It's amazing what a little change in attitude and thinking can do for ya. I'm pretty proud of myself for learning to stand up for "me" and letting it roll off my back.

Victoria

 

[ChefChip]

you go girl. Fight for your right to party.

 

[John Roberts]

I like sex. seems though that fight as I may the label of slut, which call me that or dont, no one gets that women need and love sex. I finally understand blue balls...cuz i have had blue pussy.

Hello Spice Cajun, sex is a deeper level of intimacy, the ultimate bonding that is powerful between two lovers....
I know for me that is when I feel the closest bond to my lady...
Slut you are not....just a person of greater need for intimacy....
and of course the hot passionate whoopee sex is absolutely wonderful too!

JR

 

[bknight2602]

I like sex. seems though that fight as I may the label of slut, which call me that or dont, no one gets that women need and love sex. I finally understand blue balls...cuz i have had blue pussy.

I don't think that the number of guys that you have had sex with makes you a slut. The only way the label might apply, concerns how you feel about yourself, not what peopple think about you. If you like sex then get what you want, when you want it.

 

[pocket73]

I thought about something

I am putting out another disclaimer on this today...

When thought about in certain cases the word "slut" can be applied, but not in any case I have seen here. My only "slut" perception is if someone male or female goes after married individuals only and seduces them into a new relationship. Now the fault is generally blamed on the person in the marriage for straying but, the man or woman that helped out has some responsibility as well. Especially if that person knew from the start that the other was married. Long term relationships also fall into this category but are harder to distinguish without a ring.

That being said that is the only area in which the word "slut" comes to mind.

By the way cajun what was the "sp" for.

Boy I am just quotation marks everywhere.

Much love to everyone and I hope that your day is bright and shiny with many orgasms!

 

[earthandme]

I can't help but comment here...

Women who enjoy sex? The age old question that has been discussed many times in my life thru high school, college, and after, at work, bars with friends or strangers...

You know...this is what I have to say:

If you are a woman, enjoy sex, have sex often then, you are a slut.

Let me explain: I believe the word slut can be defined as a woman who has sex often and enjoys it immensely.

Now, I believe what needs to be thought of here is not the actions, not the word, but how we view all of it.

To me, slut, in a philosophical manner, is neither good nor bad...it just "is". We call an orange orange because it is orange. Well, it is orange. It's definition is neither good nor bad. It just "is".

I also would like to point out that the word "slut" has less and less negative conatation as I get older, at least that is what I have noticed. Someone in high school may say it and mean something derrogatory, while someone my age may say it meaning "come here you wanton vixen".

Think about who calls you a slut. For instance, a woman calls you a slut. It would seem to be that word was pushed upon you by someone who might be jeolous. A man may say it and be jeolous as well because he believes you sleep around but none has come his way.

I believe the word "slut" is just that: "a woman whohas sex often and enjoys it immensely". Which philosophically has no ionic emotional charge. To me, personally though, being male, I enjoy a female who enjoys sex. I like sluts, not for my own personal yearnings but for "our" personal yearnings. It is more fun that way for both.

So, the next time someone calls you a slut, turn around confidently with a beaming smile and twinkling eyes and proudly procalim "yes I am".

 

[spicecajun]

nevermind

 

[earthandme]

nothing wrong with the high powered, revved up, piston firing, moaning, gyrating, screaming machine called "woman"

nothing at all...