I lost my viriginity
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Purple Haze
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Enough about Frankie Baby, please.
R Nitelight
Her Rock
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Purple Haze
Say, you don't think she's talking about Frank Perdue?
That stallion!
Say, you don't think she's talking about Frank Perdue?
That stallion!
Cheyenne
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Going back to high school days from long ago the word that I'd have used to describe you from my vocabulary then would be "conceited." I'm not familiar with all the current lingo but I think in today's terms someone would look at you and say "she thinks she's 'all that'." There is nothing wrong with being proud as long as people don't think all you want to do is brag. I know you've already said you don't care what other people think of you. I don't believe that, we all care to some extent.
Here's my suggestions, and note that I'm posting under my "real" name, not hiding behind an anonymous shell. Not meant to slam you, just to help you fit into Lit society quicker. To play better with others on this board, try toning it down just a bit. It's okay to mention Frank, others here mention their hubbies and wives all the time. Just not always in terms that sound like you're describing Zeus himself and not in just about every post. And tell us something about him when you do post about him, about what he thinks or what he does. We'll get to know him through you that way, just like we all know about Studmuffin from Killermuffin's posts.
Also, people here are kind and complimentary if you give them the chance. I still say you seem to want people to tell you you are beautiful. Nothing wrong with that, either, unless you talk about your beauty in every post. That's where my "conceited" comment comes from. I'm guessing in RL you have lots of conversations that never once mention how beautiful you are, what great shape you are in even if you're older, etc. Have those same conversations here at Lit.
Try posting your pics to the amateur section at Lit, too. You won't have to worry about making them "G" rated like you do at your website, and you'll get lots of feedback from people who check out your pics there. Most of it will be positive, I think. If people take the time to send you feedback, it is usually to compliment you. Or to beg for more pics.
Just my opinion, and it may be worth the same 2 cents as everyone else's.
Here's my suggestions, and note that I'm posting under my "real" name, not hiding behind an anonymous shell. Not meant to slam you, just to help you fit into Lit society quicker. To play better with others on this board, try toning it down just a bit. It's okay to mention Frank, others here mention their hubbies and wives all the time. Just not always in terms that sound like you're describing Zeus himself and not in just about every post. And tell us something about him when you do post about him, about what he thinks or what he does. We'll get to know him through you that way, just like we all know about Studmuffin from Killermuffin's posts.
Also, people here are kind and complimentary if you give them the chance. I still say you seem to want people to tell you you are beautiful. Nothing wrong with that, either, unless you talk about your beauty in every post. That's where my "conceited" comment comes from. I'm guessing in RL you have lots of conversations that never once mention how beautiful you are, what great shape you are in even if you're older, etc. Have those same conversations here at Lit.
Try posting your pics to the amateur section at Lit, too. You won't have to worry about making them "G" rated like you do at your website, and you'll get lots of feedback from people who check out your pics there. Most of it will be positive, I think. If people take the time to send you feedback, it is usually to compliment you. Or to beg for more pics.
Just my opinion, and it may be worth the same 2 cents as everyone else's.
Latina
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Forgot that even though this site is about love and sex and beauty, it is also about being human.
OK, the human side of us:
I am age 50, I have worked in the electronics industry since the early 1970s, mostly as a wafer-fab technician but in ofice-administrative positions the last two years. I have an associate degree from a junior college and am trained and certified in Microsoft software applications.
I grew up with four sisters and a brother and my parents in a one-room cabin, when Silicon Valley was mostly orchards and Mexican-American families like ours mostly worked in the orchards or if lucky (like my dad) worked in a cannery. When the area began to change from agriculture to ectronics, most of my family retrained in electronics and started a new career in mid-life. My dad stuck with the eries until there were no more, and by then he was old enough to retire.
I moved out at 21 and married at 26.
By the time we decided we wanted children, my first husband had a chronic illness, so we chose to adopt, and that son is now age 13. He has some learning disabilities (two DIFFERENT conditions) so after struggling in public schools, he is now in a special school that is helping him through all of his challenges. He is very athletic, and his academic skills are improving, so there is hope of him becoming a well-rounded adult.
My first husband developed a kidney problem very young.
His brother donated a kidney, but after 20 years, the
disease started attacking that kidney, too, and his whole body slowly shut down over a 3-year-period, ending in coma and death.
Second husband is 45, started writing for publication when he was 12, started his own newsletter at 14, got his first professional writing job at 18, and writes computer manuals for a living. He grew up with two brothers in middle-class comfort in a 4-bedroom suburban home. He owns and restored an antique car. He adopted his younger brother's daughter, and he and his parents raised her, she will soon be 18 and has already graduated high-school and started on what she hope will lead to a career in management.
We live in the heart of California's famed Silicon Valley, in a nice middle-class 3-bedroom home, not a palace but a good home in a safe, clean neighborhood. We drive a luxury car, not to impress anyone, but because it has the smoothest, least-jarring ride in our price range, fewer jolts to these aging bones of ours as we travel the torn-up,
pothole-filled uneven pavements of California's highways and byways.
Politically, we are both fairly liberal. Not radically so, but definitely a little to the left of middle-of-the-road.
We find that those like us who have a healthy attitude toward sex (as Literoticans seem to) tend to be more liberal in general (but remember that ALL generalizations are lies, INCLUDING this one).
-- Latina
OK, the human side of us:
I am age 50, I have worked in the electronics industry since the early 1970s, mostly as a wafer-fab technician but in ofice-administrative positions the last two years. I have an associate degree from a junior college and am trained and certified in Microsoft software applications.
I grew up with four sisters and a brother and my parents in a one-room cabin, when Silicon Valley was mostly orchards and Mexican-American families like ours mostly worked in the orchards or if lucky (like my dad) worked in a cannery. When the area began to change from agriculture to ectronics, most of my family retrained in electronics and started a new career in mid-life. My dad stuck with the eries until there were no more, and by then he was old enough to retire.
I moved out at 21 and married at 26.
By the time we decided we wanted children, my first husband had a chronic illness, so we chose to adopt, and that son is now age 13. He has some learning disabilities (two DIFFERENT conditions) so after struggling in public schools, he is now in a special school that is helping him through all of his challenges. He is very athletic, and his academic skills are improving, so there is hope of him becoming a well-rounded adult.
My first husband developed a kidney problem very young.
His brother donated a kidney, but after 20 years, the
disease started attacking that kidney, too, and his whole body slowly shut down over a 3-year-period, ending in coma and death.
Second husband is 45, started writing for publication when he was 12, started his own newsletter at 14, got his first professional writing job at 18, and writes computer manuals for a living. He grew up with two brothers in middle-class comfort in a 4-bedroom suburban home. He owns and restored an antique car. He adopted his younger brother's daughter, and he and his parents raised her, she will soon be 18 and has already graduated high-school and started on what she hope will lead to a career in management.
We live in the heart of California's famed Silicon Valley, in a nice middle-class 3-bedroom home, not a palace but a good home in a safe, clean neighborhood. We drive a luxury car, not to impress anyone, but because it has the smoothest, least-jarring ride in our price range, fewer jolts to these aging bones of ours as we travel the torn-up,
pothole-filled uneven pavements of California's highways and byways.
Politically, we are both fairly liberal. Not radically so, but definitely a little to the left of middle-of-the-road.
We find that those like us who have a healthy attitude toward sex (as Literoticans seem to) tend to be more liberal in general (but remember that ALL generalizations are lies, INCLUDING this one).
-- Latina
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