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I agree, I think will can be developed just like a muscle.I think it's the same basic concept. Small goals. I set three months as my marker only because that's usually the time it takes for a behaviour to become a habit. And I also encourage smaller goals within that, eg: "Go to the gym 3 days per week, no matter what."
But yes, the fatal flaw most people make when they set fitness goals is that they don't set small, incremental, achievable goals...with deadlines. The big picture becomes really overwhelming, especially after a hard day at the gym or a grueling run, etc, and giving up becomes the easiest and most psychologically satisfying option.
Staying fit shouldn't be a chore, it should be fun, something to look forward to.
Internal motivation is a skill that can be worked on and perfected like any other skill.
I promise it won't involve cooking this time.
I'm out the door for my run. How about you Yanks? Gonna pound some pavement today????
Yes, today is a running day. I'll head out later on when I get some other things finished.
Enjoy.
You can do it!
Stop thinking long term! Think three months. Just promise to keep up your routine for three months, that's all. And that's hardly a long term commitment.
You CAN do it!!! We're all cheering for you.![]()
Well, most of us are cheering for you. I'm too out of breath from my own return to exercise to actually cheer out loud.
But I'm pulling for you. My secret so far: commit to one week at a time and keep that promise to myself.

I think it's the same basic concept. Small goals. I set three months as my marker only because that's usually the time it takes for a behaviour to become a habit. And I also encourage smaller goals within that, eg: "Go to the gym 3 days per week, no matter what."
But yes, the fatal flaw most people make when they set fitness goals is that they don't set small, incremental, achievable goals...with deadlines. The big picture becomes really overwhelming, especially after a hard day at the gym or a grueling run, etc, and giving up becomes the easiest and most psychologically satisfying option.
Staying fit shouldn't be a chore, it should be fun, something to look forward to.
Internal motivation is a skill that can be worked on and perfected like any other skill.
Am now officially halfway from the couch to the 5K.

I can't get myself back together in regards to exercise and nutrition. It seems impossible.

I can't get myself back together in regards to exercise and nutrition. It seems impossible.
I can't get myself back together in regards to exercise and nutrition. It seems impossible.
You'll get your groove back, just give it time and be kind to yourself!
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Yeah, I'm with you. It's been almost a month since my gallbladder was removed and I just can't get it back together. I'm still having problems I shouldn't have. My post-op is on Tuesday and I plan on asking him if random vomiting and digestive upset is a lasting aftereffect. And I do mean random, not related to fat in my diet. If not, I have something else wrong with me.Normal doc has ordered ultrasound and blood tests to check my organs.
Just do it, one step at a time. Split it up, make a chart, keep your plan with you.

Longest run yet today: 20 minutes. This finishes the fifth of nine weeks in the C25K program and it's starting to feel like I'll be having fun on my runs from here on. In fact, I found myself pushing during the last quarter of the run to reach a certain distance. Had a big smile when I blew past that distance with 30 seconds to spare. The plan now is to enter a 5K race the first weekend in December, which will give me a couple weeks beyond the end of the C25K to further build my endurance.
Now, I'm not moving very fast yet. In fact, this afternoon as I was in the middle of my run I heard two older women ask who might have left a corpse upright in the middle of the jogging path.![]()









Thanks. There's nothing that I crave any more and this makes me want to stop eating. There is no way I could go back to where I was eating a bit every 2-3 hours. It would be GI anarchy. I just keep telling myself "This too shall pass" and taking the ginger Gravol. At least it's not interfering too much with my teaching.
I'm actually contamplating fasting from solid foods until I feel hungry and seeing if that sort of resets things.
I'm sure you'll do it, hon. Just focus on the next week. Try to make it a good one. And then the week after. Or if that is too much for now, just try to follow it all for three days. And then another three. Eventually you can work up to a week or two. I know you can.
So I have decided against lifting outrageously heavy shit in favor of doing lots of reps with my own body weight. I hope that will end the total deflation effect I've been feeling. It was just too much for my lifestyle I think.
So I have decided against lifting outrageously heavy shit in favor of doing lots of reps with my own body weight. I hope that will end the total deflation effect I've been feeling. It was just too much for my lifestyle I think.
There is nothing wrong with this. If you swing a hammer at a nail several hours a day you're going to get good arms and good endorphins.
There is nothing wrong with this. If you swing a hammer at a nail several hours a day you're going to get good arms and good endorphins.