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you better get on it. manu has an army of cocks in the back. grab 'em and get to work!
speak a little louder for grandma.
I'm considering leaving
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you better get on it. manu has an army of cocks in the back. grab 'em and get to work!
speak a little louder for grandma.
I'VE HEARD IT HAS MYSTICAL POWERS.
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Noor
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This is also why one shouldn't fry bacon nude.
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Maybe has to do with the danger that lurks, the stagnation, the stale air, the crumbs of what's left when good posters up and leave in a huff of frustration, no longer entertained by the "thick skin" culture. It's not fun or relaxing to demand you be on your guard all the freaking time, just to fulfill someone else's need for a punching bag. Posters leave and they die. The ones who seem most resilient lately are the ones who can't ever let go or be wrong. Aka, those are not the clever of fun ones to spar and wrestle with.
I see a thread like this, offer my two cents even though it feels a bit like this vulnerability will be something that needs a solution and outlook to be personally realized and found, an epiphany angelic needs to have in her own middle of the night musings. But maybe saying something will nudge that flap open, that feeling of "omg! I... I DON'T actually have to respond to everything anyone says to me, especially if it is damaging! I can go on like normal and let the losers weed themselves out loud and proud FOR me!" The hope is for fresh life, new blood, I think. That is why I post in them when I see them.
if not for our 'everyone gets a ribbon' society, we would still have people that could deal with a little rejection now and again.
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I don't understand how what I said has anything to do with what you said.
Sorry, I meant to quote just a section but I am on my phone and I got called away and didn't get the edit done.
Don't worry about it, I was just musing anyhow.
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Ok. ^^
Just for the record, I'm not saying we give everyone a gold star and warm welcome just for showing up. I thought you meant why so many people were responding to the thread, giving pointers or telling her "see ya later!" because I see more of that happening than the usual "omg! Shut the hell up and just go, whiny cunt!" type comments. I do not see the suggestions as reward for pitiful or weak behaviors or that passive-aggressive "somebody love me?" attitude. I see it as more "it's not the forum, it's what you said and how you said it; you don't have to hurt yourself or cause yourself heartache by wasting time on assholes; go ahead and leave but when you come back, try this instead" type of thing.
Because there is something just as equally not fun to be around and that's someone who seeks constant validation and leeches off of others' light because they have none of their own. Not saying that's this particular poster but just elaborating that I agree, we shouldn't encourage that in grown adults that we'd like to contribute to the board and get to know. Just making sure you know that.
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I read the GB for a good nine months before I got the gumption up to start posting.
I knew what to expect, and was prepared to field some flack and some shit. I put my thick skin on first.
Now, I didn't have that bad a time of it, overall. I think probably posting boob pics right up front sort of helped that aspect. But the other thing was, I knew my audience, so didn't start posting lame-o stuff right away, either.
I think if you are going to surf the Gee Bee, you need to read the board for a few weeks to get the lay of the land before you jump into posting. And you need to post for a bit before you start threads. Otherwise, you're instant snark fodder.
Just my take.
I knew what to expect, and was prepared to field some flack and some shit. I put my thick skin on first.
Now, I didn't have that bad a time of it, overall. I think probably posting boob pics right up front sort of helped that aspect. But the other thing was, I knew my audience, so didn't start posting lame-o stuff right away, either.
I think if you are going to surf the Gee Bee, you need to read the board for a few weeks to get the lay of the land before you jump into posting. And you need to post for a bit before you start threads. Otherwise, you're instant snark fodder.
Just my take.
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Girls have the option of posting pics of their boobs to absolve any wrong doing. Guys do not have that luxury.
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I read your "Hello fellow" thread and I don't know you but from that thread alone I can see some of the issues you're having. Sometimes, people use the anonymity of the internet to say whatever they want to get attention. Like that one poster you responded to who seemed to be giving you a bit of trouble. If that were my thread, he'd either 1. be on ignore or 2. not on ignore but I'd not respond to him anyway. Just from what he said, he's not what you're looking for but you responding to him the way you did(which, trust me he DOES NOT care) is seen by everyone else who clicks your thread and you come off a little vulnerable and a bit needy. You don't owe that poster jack shit just from the fact that he's not what you're looking for but especially because of the way he talked to you. But more of his kind will read what you wrote and there will be this impression of you as lonely and needing to explain and defend yourself and you will continuously be put in that position.
You don't have to leave. You just have to realize, some of these posters are not actually people; they are huge, human sized todgers, bashing excitedly against a keyboard and spurting precum all over their swollen veiny selves just when you grace them with a response. And you have complete control over how you're perceived. If you had to respond to him, something better would have been, "Ew, you're rude" or "Snooze ya lose, pal!" Nobody can see you and nobody has any preconceived notions about you only based on what you decide to post and open up about. Have fun with that, use it, own it. Good luck.
This is the best advice ^
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did you step back? stick around....
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NBC is covering the Beastie Boys, this morning.
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what? i thought they fucking quit when dude fucking died.
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So thats where they go.
I apologize for all the ones of mine that end up over there.
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There's no sign above Lit.'s threshold that says, "You must be nice to everyone upon entering".
Treat the rude people as you would in real life....ignore the rude people and go about your business.
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He had 66 posts. Let it go.
