I'm curious about your cock

[poRidge_boy]

Hello all, I'm trans guy and oh boy the line between dick envy, curiosity and arousal is blurry. I've had sex with people with more conventional cocks than mine in the past but for various reasons have not gotten much hands-on experience. So I'm curious:

• how soft is soft? how hard is hard?
  • any good daily life analogs? what color of banana are we talking about?
  • I imagine when soft if you were to squeeze your dick you'd feel the urethra in the middle? or does it feel uniformly soft?
• I hear the balls move automatically to regulate temperature - can you feel them moving throughout the day? does it feel good?
• When you're getting off, what's more important - pressure on the shaft or friction on the head?
  • for me, it's pressure for sure: I was always into a good humping/frot but as my t-dick grew larger it got so much more intense to grind my cock on things and really put my body weight on it.
• Say you're getting ready to jerk off - are you hard before you start touching yourself? or do you start to touch yourself and then get hard?
  • from context, I assume most people grow out of random or accidental boners as they age. I know many adults still get half-hard or chubbed from visuals/sexy thoughts/etc without much stimulation. How hard can you get without anyone touching you?
• Pretty common to say in erotica that when someone hasn't come in awhile their balls get swollen or heavy - is this literal?
  • Similarly: saw a chart on reddit once where a guy was tracking how often he had wet dreams and everyone in the comments was like, oh boy, do you not jerk off? and the OP was like, nah, I prefer to have wet dreams. This implies to me that if you didn't fuck or jerk off for awhile your body would sooner or later just handle that for you and you'd cum in your sleep. Is that accurate? How long do you think you could go without cumming before you'd have a wet dream?

 

[chast12]

Hello all, I'm trans guy and oh boy the line between dick envy, curiosity and arousal is blurry. I've had sex with people with more conventional cocks than mine in the past but for various reasons have not gotten much hands-on experience. So I'm curious:

• how soft is soft? how hard is hard?
  • any good daily life analogs? what color of banana are we talking about?
  • I imagine when soft if you were to squeeze your dick you'd feel the urethra in the middle? or does it feel uniformly soft?

I can still feel the structure when soft. The urethra is not so much in the middle, more to the underside when looking down. I can't feel it directly, but I can feel its being stimulated if i touch there reasonably firmly.

• I hear the balls move automatically to regulate temperature - can you feel them moving throughout the day? does it feel good?

Yes they do, but it's not usually something I'm conscious of. If it's especially warm, I do notice that they're hanging low

• When you're getting off, what's more important - pressure on the shaft or friction on the head?
  • for me, it's pressure for sure: I was always into a good humping/frot but as my t-dick grew larger it got so much more intense to grind my cock on things and really put my body weight on it.
• Say you're getting ready to jerk off - are you hard before you start touching yourself? or do you start to touch yourself and then get hard?
  • from context, I assume most people grow out of random or accidental boners as they age. I know many adults still get half-hard or chubbed from visuals/sexy thoughts/etc without much stimulation. How hard can you get without anyone touching you?
• Pretty common to say in erotica that when someone hasn't come in awhile their balls get swollen or heavy - is this literal?
  • Similarly: saw a chart on reddit once where a guy was tracking how often he had wet dreams and everyone in the comments was like, oh boy, do you not jerk off? and the OP was like, nah, I prefer to have wet dreams. This implies to me that if you didn't fuck or jerk off for awhile your body would sooner or later just handle that for you and you'd cum in your sleep. Is that accurate? How long do you think you could go without cumming before you'd have a wet dream?

 

[liqueur]

Hello all, I'm trans guy and oh boy the line between dick envy, curiosity and arousal is blurry...

I love your curiosity and your questions. I'm bookmarking here to come back, because I don't have time right now...

 

[poRidge_boy]

Hello all, I'm trans guy and oh boy the line between dick envy, curiosity and arousal is blurry. I've had sex with people with more conventional cocks than mine in the past but for various reasons have not gotten much hands-on experience. So I'm curious:

how soft is soft? The erectile tissue contracts when all of the blood drains out during non-arousal, everyday activity.

how hard is hard? When the erectile tissue is full of blood, it can get quite hard and rigid.

any good daily life analogs? Perhaps a firm plastic covered in skin. The skin can slide and move a bit over the erect shaft. Especially the head, it can be spongy.

what color of banana are we talking about? Light color.

I imagine when soft if you were to squeeze your dick you'd feel the urethra in the middle? or does it feel uniformly soft? The urethra can be a bit spongy. You can pinch it to stop urine and semen flow, but it can cause discomfort to do so.

I hear the balls move automatically to regulate temperature - can you feel them moving throughout the day? does it feel good? I can feel them when I am cold. They retract into my abdomen to keep warm. Underwear dulls the sensation of having testicles. When I am naked and it is hot, I can feel them dangling around, crashing into my thighs.

When you're getting off, what's more important - pressure on the shaft or friction on the head? Shaft. Any movement that simulates vaginal penetration works best for me.

Say you're getting ready to jerk off - are you hard before you start touching yourself? or do you start to touch yourself and then get hard? It depends. A bit of both.

from context, I assume most people grow out of random or accidental boners as they age. I know many adults still get half-hard or chubbed from visuals/sexy thoughts/etc without much stimulation. How hard can you get without anyone touching you? I personally get hands-free erections from eating / fingering pussy. I also get them throughout the night and early morning while sleeping. When I was a teen, I would get them at seemingly random times. For example while sitting in class.

Pretty common to say in erotica that when someone hasn't come in awhile their balls get swollen or heavy - is this literal? Not literal. There is a feeling of fullness when I have not ejaculated, but I would say it is more centered around the prostate gland.

Similarly: saw a chart on reddit once where a guy was tracking how often he had wet dreams and everyone in the comments was like, oh boy, do you not jerk off? When I don't ejaculate for several weeks, I have wet dreams. It was more frequent when I was in puberty. However, these days I cum often enough that I haven't had a wet dream in many years.

and the OP was like, nah, I prefer to have wet dreams. This implies to me that if you didn't fuck or jerk off for awhile your body would sooner or later just handle that for you and you'd cum in your sleep. Is that accurate? Yes, I think wet dreams are a natural way to keep the semen flowing and the system in good operating order.

How long do you think you could go without cumming before you'd have a wet dream? Difficult to say. I also don't want to find out. I don't want to go that long in-between ejaculations. I also don't like waking up with jizz all over the place.

Great questions. I have a bit of a “medical fetish” so I took the time to answer your questions.

Thank you, I really appreciate your detailed answers <3

 

[SWR101]

how soft is soft? how hard is hard?

• any good daily life analogs? what color of banana are we talking about?
• I imagine when soft if you were to squeeze your dick you'd feel the urethra in the middle? or does it feel uniformly soft?

For me, soft is very floppy and limp, easy to manipulate and move. Hard, however, is very stiff and mine tends to stick up at about a 66 degree angle, it can sometimes naturally come up close to my belly. Moving it more than about 15-20 degrees up or down can be challenging, so urinating while fully erect is pretty difficult for me. But each guy is different here.
That said. It does retain some lateral sponginess. So as previous posters have said u can pinch down hard enough to interrupt flow or urine or semen, but mine gets stiff enough I can’t feel the inner tube directly.

I hear the balls move automatically to regulate temperature - can you feel them moving throughout the day? does it feel good?

Yep, though underwear and pants mitigate this some. But cold does definitely make the balls and shaft retract, while excessive heat will cause them to drop as much as physiology allows. Sperm are relatively sensitive to temperature changes, but ironically not comfortable at internal body temp. Hence they live “outside” to better regulate temperatures.

When you're getting off, what's more important - pressure on the shaft or friction on the head?

For me it’s all head. Shaft is for edging and pleasure, head is super sensitive and creates the orgasm.

Say you're getting ready to jerk off - are you hard before you start touching yourself? or do you start to touch yourself and then get hard?

Depends on the mood and arousal state. Sometimes, especially as I’ve gotten older, I can orgasm from self pleasure and never get fully erect. But with my personal physiology I have to be at least semi firm to have enough length to really stroke.

Pretty common to say in erotica that when someone hasn't come in awhile their balls get swollen or heavy - is this literal?

it’s a euphemism, as the balls are externally visible and represent male virility (and have since ancient times). The testicles just store the sperm, the prostate stores the semen. That said, ejaculation removes both, so there is some validity to it.

Similarly: saw a chart on reddit once where a guy was tracking how often he had wet dreams and everyone in the comments was like, oh boy, do you not jerk off? and the OP was like, nah, I prefer to have wet dreams. This implies to me that if you didn't fuck or jerk off for awhile your body would sooner or later just handle that for you and you'd cum in your sleep. Is that accurate? How long do you think you could go without cumming before you'd have a wet dream?

the prostate can’t store infinite semen, but the the prostate (assuming no medical malfunctions) never stops producing it after puberty, so once it gets full, it has to release the pressure valve, so wet dreams. again, every guy is a little different, but the general rule is storage for about a month’s production. So after about a month with no release, the involuntary emission will occur.

Hope this helped!

 

[liqueur]

Sorry, I promised a response a while back and on I'm only getting to it now. Maybe by now you've had all the responses you want, but here goes, if you want more...

how soft is soft? how hard is hard?

Soft is limper than a wet warm noodle. Hard, when I was younger, was pretty much as hard as wood, except of course the slippery skin on top and the firm but spongy head. At 75, hard is quite variable and undependable.

any good daily life analogs? what color of banana are we talking about?

Hard when younger was much harder than a green banana. difficult to compare because of the difference in skin.

I imagine when soft if you were to squeeze your dick you'd feel the urethra in the middle? or does it feel uniformly soft?

Urethra at center of the underside. It's fairly soft, but a different texture.

I hear the balls move automatically to regulate temperature - can you feel them moving throughout the day? does it feel good?

The only time I can feel this is when I'm cold and they start straining against my ball ring. Before I started wearing a ring, nothing.

When you're getting off, what's more important - pressure on the shaft or friction on the head?

That's one of the odder changes I've seen with age. When I was younger, pressure was by far more important— specifically, pressure at the base/underside of the shaft. I never cared that much about the head. Now, getting off is a rarer event, and almost always requires friction on the head.

Say you're getting ready to jerk off - are you hard before you start touching yourself? or do you start to touch yourself and then get hard?

Again, age. When I was younger, as I'm guessing you are, I was hard before I'd even think about stroking it. Often hard before thoughts of arousal began. In other words, the physical sensation of a spontaneous erection was enough to trigger arousal in itself. Now, sadly, arousal is purely a thing of the mind, and it takes a lot of physical stimulation after the mental arousal to actually get hard.

from context, I assume most people grow out of random or accidental boners as they age. I know many adults still get half-hard or chubbed from visuals/sexy thoughts/etc without much stimulation. How hard can you get without anyone touching you?

As a young man, hard as wood.
Middle years, pretty much that hard with mental stimulation.
Now — see above

Pretty common to say in erotica that when someone hasn't come in awhile their balls get swollen or heavy - is this literal?

No, it's myth. Semen is stored in the prostate, not the testes.

Similarly: saw a chart on reddit once where a guy was tracking how often he had wet dreams ... This implies to me that if you didn't fuck or jerk off for awhile your body would sooner or later just handle that for you and you'd cum in your sleep. Is that accurate?

Yes. I prefer not to go into specifics, but I know this as fact, from experience.

How long do you think you could go without cumming before you'd have a wet dream?

3–4 days, when I was in my 30s

 

[SexualCuriosity66]

Hello all, I'm trans guy and oh boy the line between dick envy, curiosity and arousal is blurry. I've had sex with people with more conventional cocks than mine in the past but for various reasons have not gotten much hands-on experience. So I'm curious:

• how soft is soft? how hard is hard?
  • any good daily life analogs? what color of banana are we talking about?
  • I imagine when soft if you were to squeeze your dick you'd feel the urethra in the middle? or does it feel uniformly soft?
• I hear the balls move automatically to regulate temperature - can you feel them moving throughout the day? does it feel good?
• When you're getting off, what's more important - pressure on the shaft or friction on the head?
  • for me, it's pressure for sure: I was always into a good humping/frot but as my t-dick grew larger it got so much more intense to grind my cock on things and really put my body weight on it.
• Say you're getting ready to jerk off - are you hard before you start touching yourself? or do you start to touch yourself and then get hard?
  • from context, I assume most people grow out of random or accidental boners as they age. I know many adults still get half-hard or chubbed from visuals/sexy thoughts/etc without much stimulation. How hard can you get without anyone touching you?
• Pretty common to say in erotica that when someone hasn't come in awhile their balls get swollen or heavy - is this literal?
  • Similarly: saw a chart on reddit once where a guy was tracking how often he had wet dreams and everyone in the comments was like, oh boy, do you not jerk off? and the OP was like, nah, I prefer to have wet dreams. This implies to me that if you didn't fuck or jerk off for awhile your body would sooner or later just handle that for you and you'd cum in your sleep. Is that accurate? How long do you think you could go without cumming before you'd have a wet dream?

Soft is definitely soft. Bendable, twistable and floppy. They don’t call it a limo noodle for nothing Hard on the other hand can vary. I can be hard enough for penetration but still be able to slightly bend it. But when fully hard there is no bending. I’ve touched my own so much I sometimes don’t think about how it feels. But when it is completely hard there is little give with a squeeze but yet the skin is still soft to the touch and the head is still more softish than actually hard. More like a water balloon. Firm but squishy.

Balls do move on their own but I rarely notice.

Getting off - it used to be all about the shaft. I would grip and stroke, generally no lube. It was an added plus when my hand would hit my public area sending waves of pleasure to my balls. I would never even touch the head of my cock during masturbation and cum hard. Now, maybe because of age or maybe density decreases after masturbating so much, now I do both. I stroke and squeeze the shaft lighter than before. This gets me hard but if I want to cum I encircle the head with my thumb and forefinger and will quickly just work the edge of my head this way and it will make me explode in a short time.

I will say if I don’t cum for a while I do get a heavy feeling in my balls. But after cumming and I relax they seem to hang a little extra and actually look bigger.

I typically start soft. If I’m looking at pictures I might be have hard. I like to start slow with very light touches. Going too hard for too long knocked down my sensitivity. I’m finding I get harder better now if I start slow and gently. Almost teasing myself so I have to feel the slightest of touches.

 

[Natekins]

Hello all, I'm trans guy and oh boy the line between dick envy, curiosity and arousal is blurry. I've had sex with people with more conventional cocks than mine in the past but for various reasons have not gotten much hands-on experience. So I'm curious:

• how soft is soft? how hard is hard?
  • any good daily life analogs? what color of banana are we talking about?
  • I imagine when soft if you were to squeeze your dick you'd feel the urethra in the middle? or does it feel uniformly soft?
• I hear the balls move automatically to regulate temperature - can you feel them moving throughout the day? does it feel good?
• When you're getting off, what's more important - pressure on the shaft or friction on the head?
  • for me, it's pressure for sure: I was always into a good humping/frot but as my t-dick grew larger it got so much more intense to grind my cock on things and really put my body weight on it.
• Say you're getting ready to jerk off - are you hard before you start touching yourself? or do you start to touch yourself and then get hard?
  • from context, I assume most people grow out of random or accidental boners as they age. I know many adults still get half-hard or chubbed from visuals/sexy thoughts/etc without much stimulation. How hard can you get without anyone touching you?
• Pretty common to say in erotica that when someone hasn't come in awhile their balls get swollen or heavy - is this literal?
  • Similarly: saw a chart on reddit once where a guy was tracking how often he had wet dreams and everyone in the comments was like, oh boy, do you not jerk off? and the OP was like, nah, I prefer to have wet dreams. This implies to me that if you didn't fuck or jerk off for awhile your body would sooner or later just handle that for you and you'd cum in your sleep. Is that accurate? How long do you think you could go without cumming before you'd have a wet dream?

Thank you for asking! Here's my response:

1. There are two types of men (sorta): Grow-ers and show-ers. This is how much a penis will grow when erect vs when flaccid. I'm a grower, so when at rest my cock is small (2-3") and quite soft and floppy. It dangles down and is quite pliable. You can still feel the different textures when it's soft, though.
2. When it's hard it can vary in specific rigidity depending on how turned on I am (and, to an extent, how long it's been since I ejaculated). When it's hard it's very hard and not very spongy at all. It's also the longest, most girth, and most prominent head. When it's regular hard it's somewhat pliable, somewhat spongy, like a strong flexed stomach.
3. For my part, my penis is slightly darker than my normal skin. So a light brown. I'm circumcised, and the rim of the head is a purplish color. You also have variations on veininess. I'm probably medium veiny, but they're dark blue-purple and add additional texture, especially when erect.
4. Yes, balls respond based on temperature. It's rare you can feel them moving, but you can definitely notice a difference. Whether it's cold winter and everything shrinks into a little round ball (cock included) or a hot summer's day where you have to be careful how you sit down, lest you sit on your balls.
5. Pressure on the shaft, specifically the urethra close to the base, is what gets me going. Some of that could be due to being circumcised. But it also probably depends on the guy. Kind of like how some women are clit-centered and some are vagina-centered.
6. I can get rock hard without touching myself. Hell, I'm hard writing this. I'm very responsive to non-contact stimulus.
7. As others have said, heavy balls is a metaphor. That said, especially after edging or a long time not ejaculating there's definitely a lot of pressure. That could be translated as "heavy" or "swollen". And in those cases it's almost painful when I finally do cum (and I can do so many times in a row). I haven't had a wet dream in years (decades?), but when it has been awhile since I've cum my precum is a lot heavier, even to the point of soaking myself.

Hopefully that's enlightening! I really enjoyed writing that, too.

 

[Kharn6978]

6 inch in length. 5.5 inches around. Definitely a grower

 

[jchtlit]

Enjoy reading all the replies, my answers generally agree with everything written here.

 

[liqueur]

Looks like the OP is a one-hit wonder. Now he's here, now he's gone.

 

[1960curious]

6 inch in length. 5.5 inches around. Definitely a grower

Same here, we are a match

 

[Sounding22]

I saw a gorgeous trans today with a massive cock and oh I wanted it.
Bet her boyfriend wouldn’t share. I know I wouldn’t lol

 

[BillyWalrus]

I saw a gorgeous trans today with a massive cock and oh I wanted it.
Bet her boyfriend wouldn’t share. I know I wouldn’t lol

Did you really? My trans gf has a big one and she is beautiful. It's natural that a lot of guys are attracted to her.

 

[Sounding22]

Did you really? My trans gf has a big one and she is beautiful. It's natural that a lot of guys are attracted to her.

I couldn’t believe how hot she was and that HuGe bulge, just started sweating. mmm

 

[BillyWalrus]

I couldn’t believe how hot she was and that HuGe bulge, just started sweating. mmm

Believe me, I know the feeling.