I'm curious about your cock

[poRidge_boy]

Hello all, I'm trans guy and oh boy the line between dick envy, curiosity and arousal is blurry. I've had sex with people with more conventional cocks than mine in the past but for various reasons have not gotten much hands-on experience. So I'm curious:

• how soft is soft? how hard is hard?
  • any good daily life analogs? what color of banana are we talking about?
  • I imagine when soft if you were to squeeze your dick you'd feel the urethra in the middle? or does it feel uniformly soft?
• I hear the balls move automatically to regulate temperature - can you feel them moving throughout the day? does it feel good?
• When you're getting off, what's more important - pressure on the shaft or friction on the head?
  • for me, it's pressure for sure: I was always into a good humping/frot but as my t-dick grew larger it got so much more intense to grind my cock on things and really put my body weight on it.
• Say you're getting ready to jerk off - are you hard before you start touching yourself? or do you start to touch yourself and then get hard?
  • from context, I assume most people grow out of random or accidental boners as they age. I know many adults still get half-hard or chubbed from visuals/sexy thoughts/etc without much stimulation. How hard can you get without anyone touching you?
• Pretty common to say in erotica that when someone hasn't come in awhile their balls get swollen or heavy - is this literal?
  • Similarly: saw a chart on reddit once where a guy was tracking how often he had wet dreams and everyone in the comments was like, oh boy, do you not jerk off? and the OP was like, nah, I prefer to have wet dreams. This implies to me that if you didn't fuck or jerk off for awhile your body would sooner or later just handle that for you and you'd cum in your sleep. Is that accurate? How long do you think you could go without cumming before you'd have a wet dream?

 

[chast12]

Hello all, I'm trans guy and oh boy the line between dick envy, curiosity and arousal is blurry. I've had sex with people with more conventional cocks than mine in the past but for various reasons have not gotten much hands-on experience. So I'm curious:

• how soft is soft? how hard is hard?
  • any good daily life analogs? what color of banana are we talking about?
  • I imagine when soft if you were to squeeze your dick you'd feel the urethra in the middle? or does it feel uniformly soft?

I can still feel the structure when soft. The urethra is not so much in the middle, more to the underside when looking down. I can't feel it directly, but I can feel its being stimulated if i touch there reasonably firmly.

• I hear the balls move automatically to regulate temperature - can you feel them moving throughout the day? does it feel good?

Yes they do, but it's not usually something I'm conscious of. If it's especially warm, I do notice that they're hanging low

• When you're getting off, what's more important - pressure on the shaft or friction on the head?
  • for me, it's pressure for sure: I was always into a good humping/frot but as my t-dick grew larger it got so much more intense to grind my cock on things and really put my body weight on it.
• Say you're getting ready to jerk off - are you hard before you start touching yourself? or do you start to touch yourself and then get hard?
  • from context, I assume most people grow out of random or accidental boners as they age. I know many adults still get half-hard or chubbed from visuals/sexy thoughts/etc without much stimulation. How hard can you get without anyone touching you?
• Pretty common to say in erotica that when someone hasn't come in awhile their balls get swollen or heavy - is this literal?
  • Similarly: saw a chart on reddit once where a guy was tracking how often he had wet dreams and everyone in the comments was like, oh boy, do you not jerk off? and the OP was like, nah, I prefer to have wet dreams. This implies to me that if you didn't fuck or jerk off for awhile your body would sooner or later just handle that for you and you'd cum in your sleep. Is that accurate? How long do you think you could go without cumming before you'd have a wet dream?