I'm game...

[shanier]

recent stuff...hopin' ya don't mind.

 

[shanier]

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[shanier]

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[thorsteinveblen]

cameras are a good thing

I was looking at the new posts and found myself contemplating the mind of the photographer ... cameras are a good thing (really ... I love them, even if I suck with one by myself) but they do not have a second data stream of the thoughts and senses of the one peering through the viewfinder ... which is a silly and convoluted way of saying being there is better! but I wasn't and so thanks for sharing that which is sharable ... and speaking strictly as a boy, it is wonderful to see a cock being well and enthusiastically appreciated! peace

 

[shanier]

I'm not sure I look all that enthused, tho I did RATHER enjoy oral sex with this lovely young man.

 

[thorsteinveblen]

oral sex, whether giving or receiving, I find to be among the most enjoyable aspects of being alive

 

[shanier]

and here she drops a bomb.

I would rather give than receive anyday. I like to receive but it's WAY down on my list of sexual favorites...actually, it's my least favorite.



Yes, I know, I just need to find the right person and I'd enjoy it so much more, blah blah blah...

I've heard that 9 million or so times...one problem. It negates the fact that I know myself sexually. I knows what I likes.

Yes, this is an argument I'm having with myself.

 

[thorsteinveblen]

y'know I don't find it all that surprising ... each of us is wired differentyl, both mentally and physically ... yeah, some of the nerve endings and things are the same but in terms of what stimulates the pleasure centers humans are all over the lot

where it gets troublesome is when it doesn't get communicated ... I think one of the biggest reasons I like giving is that I am under the impression that the recipient is enjoying it ... I am wired in a way that doing whatever it is that allows a partner to enjoy what is happening - and hopefully enjoy it ALOT - is what I enjoy and what reinforces what I feel and so on

just a case of "not that ... but ... yes ... OHMYGOD ... THAT"

 

[shanier]

well, yes.

But from what I know, girls who would rather give than get head are sort of rare. Well, at least amongst the girls I know.

In my case, it feels great. I'm not one who can't communicate to a partner, that's for sure. It's just not the *best* feeling sexually. Feeling being a combined physical, mental, and emotional reaction, of course.

I'm wired, to borrow your term, in such a way that makes me absolutely crave serving another human, sexually. Socially, I'm so NOT submissive, but sexually, well...almost completely.

That makes it of the utmost that I please my partner. It's fulfulling in so many ways.

Which isn't to say that I don't like to get my 'rocks' off, too. I do. Oral just doesn't do that for me.

 

[thorsteinveblen]

we aren't wired all that differently ... not sure whether that would make us high voltage or a short circuit

 

[shanier]

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[thorsteinveblen]

one from a year ago...

high voltage ... no further question

 

[shanier]

you know what's funny? I really shouldn't, but I really DO like that picture.

By all rights, I should hate my body (I kind of do) and any expression of it, but for some reason I like that picture, even enough to put it here, though it did take a while and only a paltry 17 people have even looked.

I don't know why I felt the need to post this. Except to say, Am, I did it with you in mind.

If I can post this picture, finally coming clean, then you can do anything.

 

[shanier]

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[shanier]

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[shanier]

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[thorsteinveblen]

*ahem*

black and white photography is so underused ... color has its place, perhaps even its prominence, but b&w can create texture and surface unlike any other media

hands, architecture, trees, legs ... long slender geometry goes gray scale oh so very well

thanks for the posts

 

[shanier]

ah, they were silly, and I'm a lousy photographer, I just liked the pics for some weird reason.

thanks

 

[shanier]

my pics-hubris
my comments-no better than 70's porn drivel
my solution-DELETE!

 

[shanier]

I may revive my old thread, but before I do...I want to do the whole full disclosure thing. After all, full disclosure and total consent (except in cases of fantasy non-consent) are totally hot.

1. I am fat.
2. Really really fat.
3. I LIKE being fat.
4. In fact, I have a weight/fat gain related fetish.
5. I'm a Feedee.
6. Look it up.
7. I'm almost all belly.
8. I don't care if you don't like fat people; that's your right.
9. But I do.
10. I also, as I said, like being fat.
11. If you like fat women, you might like something I add.
12. If you don't, you probably won't. And that's totally okay.
13. But if you don't like fat women or what I post, please just leave rather than giving me a hard time.
14. Also, my health is my business. And fat =/= unhealthy anyway.
15. Deal?
16. Deal!

Here be my mug and one of my tattoos. And this is my mug and my bountiful belly. And this is me in undies after a shower.