I'm middle aged and starving for human touch.

[Lolita30]

It's been years since I've had a hug or a partner. I yearn for it, to feel that intimacy again. Sometimes I wonder if that ship has sailed for me. I don't want to spend the rest of my life wondering what it's like to be with a man who wants or desires me. Maybe never.

 

[DaddyLovesKitten]

It's been years since I've had a hug or a partner. I yearn for it, to feel that intimacy again. Sometimes I wonder if that ship has sailed for me. I don't want to spend the rest of my life wondering what it's like to be with a man who wants or desires me. Maybe never.

I am 42, male, separated.

May I contact you? It's been 8 years for me.

 

[Lolita30]

Okay. I'm african american, if that's a deal breaker.

 

[beachlights44]

Lolita, I’m a firm believer in it’s never too late. Try to keep a positive outlook, put yourself out there and don’t lose faith.

Good luck,

 

[SirSparky]

It's been years since I've had a hug or a partner. I yearn for it, to feel that intimacy again. Sometimes I wonder if that ship has sailed for me. I don't want to spend the rest of my life wondering what it's like to be with a man who wants or desires me. Maybe never.

I know exactly how you feel. I came out of a very long marriage. Been together since 15 and separated at 48. I never would have thought i woukd find that intimacy with another person. Heading towards 50, who would want me. I had only ever had one serious relationship.

6 years later I am now 3 years in to a new relationship. Someone who desires me and wants me for me, not what I can provide.

Don't lose faith. Someone is out there for you just waiting to be found.

 

[SirSparky]

@Lolita30 you are welcome to DM if you would like to chat anytime.

 

[MountainMan406]

@Lolita30 happy to chat

 

[Stargatefan78]

It's been years since I've had a hug or a partner. I yearn for it, to feel that intimacy again. Sometimes I wonder if that ship has sailed for me. I don't want to spend the rest of my life wondering what it's like to be with a man who wants or desires me. Maybe never.

I would love to hug you and do more.

 

[Dave88ITA]

It's been years since I've had a hug or a partner. I yearn for it, to feel that intimacy again. Sometimes I wonder if that ship has sailed for me. I don't want to spend the rest of my life wondering what it's like to be with a man who wants or desires me. Maybe never.

A big hug to you!!!

 

[DaddyLovesKitten]

Okay. I'm african american, if that's a deal breaker.

Not at all.

 

[DaddyLovesKitten]

No one should feel like it is too late.

I imagine if I end up 80 years old and pudgy, yeah my dating options will be limited mostly to folks like me, but.

I will absolutely date them. I need the cuddles.

 

[Buckonlyme]

It's been years since I've had a hug or a partner. I yearn for it, to feel that intimacy again. Sometimes I wonder if that ship has sailed for me. I don't want to spend the rest of my life wondering what it's like to be with a man who wants or desires me. Maybe never.

Never say that

 

[Lolita30]

Never say that

Well, that's what it feels like, unfortunately.

 

[hawi13]

Well, that's what it feels like, unfortunately.

Stay positive Miss L, sending positive vibes that something good comes your way!

 

[Buckonlyme]

It's been years since I've had a hug or a partner. I yearn for it, to feel that intimacy again. Sometimes I wonder if that ship has sailed for me. I don't want to spend the rest of my life wondering what it's like to be with a man who wants or desires me. Maybe never.

 

[Buckonlyme]

May I respectfully request a photograph?

 

[Lolita30]

May I respectfully request a photograph?

i didn't ask for a photo, sir; thanks for sharing but I am not looking for a date.

 

[Ddave1010]

May I respectfully request a photograph?

I dont feel thats even the right forum you are asking in, also not to her.
Better read what she wrote above.

 

[Buckonlyme]

i didn't ask for a photo, sir; thanks for sharing but I am not looking for a date.

Please forgive me.

 

[Lolita30]

I dont feel thats even the right forum you are asking in, also not to her.
Better read what she wrote above.

Thank you, Dave.

 

[saintcero]

It's been years since I've had a hug or a partner. I yearn for it, to feel that intimacy again. Sometimes I wonder if that ship has sailed for me. I don't want to spend the rest of my life wondering what it's like to be with a man who wants or desires me. Maybe never.

I hope you find someone but if depression is part of your life I hope you get some help with that first. Live in the moment.

 

[CD_Chelsey]

It seems like you're feeling down, but you need to pick yourself up, self confidence will help a lot.

Also, African American woman are hot!

 

[ImagelessMoney53]

I would give you that hug if I could...like jumper cables for the heart

 

[MRmakeumelty]

Hugs to you miss. I truly hope you find what you ache for. Feeling unwanted and undesired is a terrible emotional pain. My heart goes out to you. Never give up. What helps me is working on myself. Physically and mentally. I use the feeling of being unwanted and undesired as fuel to motivate me. View it as "their loss" and that someday you will be seen by those worthy of what you have to offer.

 

[CD_Chelsey]

I had a similar feeling as a teenager, but then I found someone and suddenly I was getting hit on, and a few people had asked me to break up for them.