For me it has always been a huge turn on. Granted not ready to earn the mommy title quite yet so I am on birth control but happy to play the game and say the words when in the throws of passions. It can also be a lot of fun to not always tell the man I am with about being on BC and see how they react when the topic of breeding comes up.Complicated subject because it's a consequential thing!
But I put it to you: Guys and girls. It's not (usually) something you find out turns your partner on in the beginning but with time often follows trust and trust begats candor.
You're probably barebacking if your partner harbors a special desire to at least mention this during sex (I can tell you, condoms felt a little like rejection--like it was unfortunate that I "had" to do that--you can't imagine what reading posts from girls who swoon at the thought of taking semen does to me!), so what happens when (s)he abandons caution and starts talking (gasping, grunting, etc., depends on whether it's the girl or the guy) about the "p' word (and it ain't "pussy") during the act?
Bucket of cold water? More readily-flammable material thrown on the fire? "I've never had to deal with this before" confusion?
I'll confess: Since I was [REDACTED], "oops" and "OMG, no!" have been turn-ons for me. As I aged, "yes, do it" replaced female reluctance/fear and as a result, sex got better!
And I've been fortunate (skilled?): I've "read the room" when I was the first to bring it up: I never got the "get the fuck out of my bed" reaction that I feared since that redacted age.
Maybe every girl was receptive (in every sense)--while I doubt it, the mere possibility it was true kinda haunts me. But the ones who, safely ensconced behind the best contraceptives science has ever created for human females, "went there" are the girls I think about when I jerk off.
Long post. Comments (especially from girls, who are terribly outnumbered here, as they are whenever it is necessary to confess that, yeah, I feel something in my mind and between my legs when I think about this stuff--noti really a problem with Lit females!) are not only welcomed, they are urged.