Improving My Technique

[dominatrix69]

Would love 'How To' tips on improving my cock sucking. Any tips would be greatly appreciated, pictures encouraged

~Kitty

 

[dominatrix96]

Kitty if I do say so myself your cock sucking is great but improvement is always a good thing....

 

[SweetErika]

The Blank Manual sticky is always a great place to start.

There are also a bunch of ideas in the How To story section of the main site. You can find them, and many other threads, by googling things like:

site:literotica.com cocksuck*

site:literotica.com blowjobs

site:literotica.com improv* blow jobs

site:literotica.com blowjob tips

Google usually works better for searching Lit stories and forums than the native search functions.

It would also help if you gave people an idea of what you do now, so they don't spend time telling you what you already know. And pictures are more of a Playground or General Board thing.

 

[dominatrix69]

well what I do now is pretty much just what I have read here, I guess I am just looking at different things to try.

Mostly just taking my tongue around the head of the cock, and sucking on the shaft and moving my lips tightly around the cock and working my head up and down... Also working on getting the deep throating technique down.

Always looking for new avenues and things to try. Its a sexploration after all

 

[Mr.G]

In a word ...

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=98657

 

[thebarber69]

Hmmm, where should I start, I think on my part of enjoyment in receiving is letting her do the total cock and balls, not just a little sucking or licking, I mean, caress, touch it, lightly stroke it, fondel the balls, then with just the tip of the tongue, trace it, from the sensitive underside of the head down to the ball sack, just with the tip of the tongue, trace them. The big thing with driving a guy (myself included) is taking your time. I wish I could remember that name for the spot right below the ball sack to the anis. That spot with light carresses, and touches there will bring a pot to boil, I know that spot when touched as he is cuming, will also heighten it. Some guys just want a quick suck job, that's not enjoyment, heck, you and he got to let it take time, and hopefully he will repay the time you take on doing his favorite, and let you have a good orgasm, or better yet, when in doubt do 69.

Hope this little bit of insight might help, the thred of milking in the threads in lit, if you take that info, and do it right, he will be leaking quite a bit, and the orgasm that follows, well, lets just say, it's dynomite! So, that's my little bit of info, there is lots of things that can be done for enjoyment, as well as some things if you wish to torment a guy that can be done.

I had to re read your last post, well, that shure would get my attention going.

 

[Lookingforideas]

my boyfriend likes it when i twist my hand around his cock while i am sucking it or alternate my mouth and rubbing my palm in circles around the head, that always drives him crazy!!!

 

[ChainedRebel]

One of the first things that springs to my mind is taint play. Have him pull his knees back and feel under/behind his balls. You should feel a thick "ridge" that seems to run from his nuts and disappear near his ass. That's more or less his inner-cock. The cock shaft continues down and into the body. This area inside the body, much like the external shaft, has a lot of nerves. But given their location and such, they require a little more stimulation and present a different, perhaps "deeper" sensation.

Try putting your fingers and thumb on each side of the inner-cock and stroking it while your mouth works it's magic. Experiment and play around, fast, slow, different pressures etc. until you find what seems to work for him. Be careful if you have long/sharp nails.

This is very nice just before and during orgasm. Lovely experience. And using the pads of your fingers to lightly strum or thump the taint is nice too. As is putting pressure, not too much now, just behind the balls when he is cumming. The restriction can make for a very intense orgasm.

 

[dominatrix69]

Try putting your fingers and thumb on each side of the inner-cock and stroking it while your mouth works it's magic. Experiment and play around, fast, slow, different pressures etc. until you find what seems to work for him. Be careful if you have long/sharp nails.

This is the kind of advice I need It worked rather well and needless to say it was a good move

Thanks
~Kitty

 

[Virgin Man]

This was e-mailed to me today

This was e-mailed to me today. Unfortunately, I can not get the diagrams to reporduce here. I've provided the link to the Yahoo Group for those who are interested


http://groups. yahoo.com/ group/OralAnyone 55/

Blowjobs aren't just for men's pleasure. That's right, many women say the feeling of control it gives them combined with the oral stimulation is a turn-on in its own right. Read on for tips and techniques to make a blowjob an ultimately satisfying experience for all involved. The Anatomy
Know what you're getting into:
Glans: The head of the penis
Frenulum: The underside of the glans; ** the most sensitive part **
Shaft: The length of the penis
Perineum: The area between the anus and the testicles
Testicles: Where sperm is made and stored for ejaculation.

Basic Up & Down
Position yourself comfortably:
Start by teasing his penis - kiss, breathe lightly, whisper, tickle.
Switch to sucking. Create a vacuum by pursing your lips, then using them to surround his penis.
Thrust your mouth down over his penis while you suck.
Use your saliva as a lubricant.
Stroke with your hands while sucking.
Twist your hand as you move up and down on the shaft. Switch hands occasionally for variation.

Beyond Sucking
Licking & nibbling is quite stimulating:
Run your tongue around the glans, then focus on the frenulum.
Flick your tongue back and forth and all around as you're sucking.
Lick the bottom of the shaft while using your hand to fondle the glans, and vice versa.

All-Around Focus
There's more to the penis than meets the eye:
Take his balls gently into your mouth and suck.
Run your tongue along his perineum.
Lick his anus and see if he likes it.
Rub his balls gently as you suck the shaft.

Spit or Swallow
It's your decision:
Some like to take come into their mouth, some like to watch it shoot. Both can be very sexy.
If you choose to take it in your mouth, you can swallow or keep a cloth or napkin nearby to spit into.


10 Advanced Tips
Take a deep breath before you take his penis into your mouth to relax your throat muscles. This is to prevent gagging if you think his penis is going to touch the back of your throat.
Use your hand around the base of his penis to control how deep he goes into your mouth.
Try swallowing when his penis reaches the back of your throat. It kind of tickles.
You can start a blowjob when your partner's penis is flaccid and stimulate him to erection.
Pubic hairs in your mouth are normal. Just stop for a minute to take them out & then keep going.
Use a finger in your partner's anus to massage his prostate.
Pop an ice cube in your mouth or a mint for extra stimulation.
Run your hands over his inner thighs as your mouth moves on his shaft.
Keep your teeth away from his penis, or very, very lightly rub them against him while sucking.
Not all men come during oral sex. Don't worry if he doesn't - his orgasm is his responsibility, not yours.

 

[LadyMistress]

Well, I was going to reply, but I think the email that Virgin_Man got covered the entire thing, so I say just follow that.

 

[sinistersam88]

This was e-mailed to me today. Unfortunately, I can not get the diagrams to reporduce here. I've provided the link to the Yahoo Group for those who are interested


http://groups. yahoo.com/ group/OralAnyone 55/

Blowjobs aren't just for men's pleasure. That's right, many women say the feeling of control it gives them combined with the oral stimulation is a turn-on in its own right. Read on for tips and techniques to make a blowjob an ultimately satisfying experience for all involved. The Anatomy
Know what you're getting into:
Glans: The head of the penis
Frenulum: The underside of the glans; ** the most sensitive part **
Shaft: The length of the penis
Perineum: The area between the anus and the testicles
Testicles: Where sperm is made and stored for ejaculation.

Basic Up & Down
Position yourself comfortably:
Start by teasing his penis - kiss, breathe lightly, whisper, tickle.
Switch to sucking. Create a vacuum by pursing your lips, then using them to surround his penis.
Thrust your mouth down over his penis while you suck.
Use your saliva as a lubricant.
Stroke with your hands while sucking.
Twist your hand as you move up and down on the shaft. Switch hands occasionally for variation.

Beyond Sucking
Licking & nibbling is quite stimulating:
Run your tongue around the glans, then focus on the frenulum.
Flick your tongue back and forth and all around as you're sucking.
Lick the bottom of the shaft while using your hand to fondle the glans, and vice versa.

All-Around Focus
There's more to the penis than meets the eye:
Take his balls gently into your mouth and suck.
Run your tongue along his perineum.
Lick his anus and see if he likes it.
Rub his balls gently as you suck the shaft.

Spit or Swallow
It's your decision:
Some like to take come into their mouth, some like to watch it shoot. Both can be very sexy.
If you choose to take it in your mouth, you can swallow or keep a cloth or napkin nearby to spit into.


10 Advanced Tips
Take a deep breath before you take his penis into your mouth to relax your throat muscles. This is to prevent gagging if you think his penis is going to touch the back of your throat.
Use your hand around the base of his penis to control how deep he goes into your mouth.
Try swallowing when his penis reaches the back of your throat. It kind of tickles.
You can start a blowjob when your partner's penis is flaccid and stimulate him to erection.
Pubic hairs in your mouth are normal. Just stop for a minute to take them out & then keep going.
Use a finger in your partner's anus to massage his prostate.
Pop an ice cube in your mouth or a mint for extra stimulation.
Run your hands over his inner thighs as your mouth moves on his shaft.
Keep your teeth away from his penis, or very, very lightly rub them against him while sucking.
Not all men come during oral sex. Don't worry if he doesn't - his orgasm is his responsibility, not yours.

Thanks for the detailed info VIRGIN MAN

 

[ChainedRebel]

This is the kind of advice I need It worked rather well and needless to say it was a good move

Thanks
~Kitty

Pleased to be of service. And pleased it produced rewards.

I can go into more things but it is all about what the two of you want to engage in. Anal stimulation for example. It can make for an intense physical and emotional experience but I'm not sure it's what you're after. Adjustable cock rings, clothespins, oh my mind can wander...

As for actual techinique, never forget the under side of the cock, all around the area where the glands come together. Huge bundle of nerves in this area. Kissing, licking, nibbling (or biting) and generally stimulating this area is almost guaranteed to drive a man crazy. I say area because it really is the area, thought fairly small, it encompasses from the penile opening, down over the glands and and a bit of the shaft.

One very nice technique is when he is very well primed and in need of release, turn your head sideways to his cock. Works best if beside him. Then grip his shaft low, squeeze tight and hold it. This traps the blood in the cock making it just that much more sensitive. Then wet your lips well, purse them and rub them back and forth fast over this ultra-sensitive area. Right when he's going to cum, relax your grip on his shaft. Wonderful way to cum!

He'll be putty in your hands.

 

[dominatrix69]

"Use a finger in your partner's anus to massage his prostate. "




Hmm...
Would like some more information on the Prostate. I read that you can stimulate it from the outside as well as inside. Any suggestions or maneavors?
Kitty

 

[ChainedRebel]

"Use a finger in your partner's anus to massage his prostate. "




Hmm...
Would like some more information on the Prostate. I read that you can stimulate it from the outside as well as inside. Any suggestions or maneavors?
Kitty

I know of no way to massage the prostate from the outside. It is a gland inside the rectum. I know there is talk out there about external stimulation but that is all it really is, external. True prostate stimulation recquires penetration. That said, a lone finger will suffice, an intrusion most all can handle with some generous lube, a little relaxation, and an open mind.

I can assure this, if you're able to get your finger in there, and feel the prostate and work it porperly, combined with a good dose of teasing and cock stimulation, he will NOT be sorry he allowed you such access!

I've found the real key to prostate massage is time and build up. It isn't an instant, touch-it and cum sprays everywhere kind of thing. It is a deep, almost dull and achy, sensation, that alone is quite pleasurable for sure but is more often an accompanimant to direct cock stimulation. Without a doubt I enjoy long bouts of anal/prostate stimulation with little or no cock involvement but the two go well together.

That help any?

 

[massage45678]

The perineum

The area behind his balls and before his ass. If you massage around there you'll be indirectly stimulating his prostate.

I know of no way to massage the prostate from the outside. It is a gland inside the rectum. I know there is talk out there about external stimulation but that is all it really is, external. True prostate stimulation recquires penetration. That said, a lone finger will suffice, an intrusion most all can handle with some generous lube, a little relaxation, and an open mind.

I can assure this, if you're able to get your finger in there, and feel the prostate and work it porperly, combined with a good dose of teasing and cock stimulation, he will NOT be sorry he allowed you such access!

I've found the real key to prostate massage is time and build up. It isn't an instant, touch-it and cum sprays everywhere kind of thing. It is a deep, almost dull and achy, sensation, that alone is quite pleasurable for sure but is more often an accompanimant to direct cock stimulation. Without a doubt I enjoy long bouts of anal/prostate stimulation with little or no cock involvement but the two go well together.

That help any?

 

[sexwhiledrving]

Tie his hands down. Then tease him mercilessly. Blow on his cock, lick his cock, grab his cock, and then when you feel he is close pull away and make him beg!

 

[artsmom]

Tie his hands down. Then tease him mercilessly. Blow on his cock, lick his cock, grab his cock, and then when you feel he is close pull away and make him beg!

We certainly do think alike...

 

[dominatrix69]

Ooh goodness, way to make me horny
Good suggestions, like always I can't wait to try them..