In case you haven't realized...

[DarlingLover]

...97% or so of the people on the personals for this site are dudes or dudes pretending to be girls. The other 3% are girls who are bitter or upset because there are so many dudes that are PM'ing them.

Sounds like a clearly broken site to me

 

[smartpet]

where does that leave me...i don't fit in either category...

i am a happy slut/slave/pet and i enjoy the attention...i would think this also applies to cutebrat...

 

[Dosxx82256]

Then go away. No one is forcing you to stay here. Go find another site.

 

[Roughtrader]

Could you point me at the bdsm site that isnt? It would save an awful lot of effort.

 

[VioletFlame]

...97% or so of the people on the personals for this site are dudes or dudes pretending to be girls. The other 3% are girls who are bitter or upset because there are so many dudes that are PM'ing them.

Sounds like a clearly broken site to me

Hmmm, so does that make you a dude pretending to be a girl, or a girl who is bitter?

Violet-who-also-isn't-any-of-the-above

 

[StripperSlutWife]

...97% or so of the people on the personals for this site are dudes or dudes pretending to be girls. The other 3% are girls who are bitter or upset because there are so many dudes that are PM'ing them.

Sounds like a clearly broken site to me

Yeah. Clearly it is the site that's broken, and not your attitude.

 

[quicksylver69]

I'm a chick but in between the 2 you described. I like the attention but I get annoyed with PM's that are semi illiterate and basically 'you are hot I'm stroking my cock'. If someone is going to PM me and get a response I want to at least have a conversation first and lead up to anything happening. Also sometimes I'm just not in the mood orbit in a position to actually do anything.

 

[fwhobo]

It's very frustrating for me when I connect with someone online and then I begin to realize that the person on the other end is not a woman. It's pretty obvious during a chat session if they say something like "I just came" and then disappear. In my experience, a real woman would want to stay on and enjoy the afterglow.

On the other hand, I can imagine the kinds of cra@p you ladies have to put up with. I've experienced some of it "hey wanna cam?". And guys who won't leave you alone even when you've told them you are busy.

I always respond to a "hello" on IM. If I'm busy I say so. If they keep at me anyway they are gone.

I'm not one of those "ur hot, im strokin 4 u" kind of guys. I'm mature enough that I can take my time. I enjoy giving pleasure as much as receiving it. Often, I find myself giving even when I'm not in a position to get anything out of it myself.

Whew! I feel better now. Rant over...

Cheers all,

FW

PS - If any real ladies are interested in finding out more, feel free to PM me or add me on IM (in my profile).

 

[waterboy59]

I have found some great long term chat partners and friends on here. Yes, there are a lot of fakes but they are usually recognizable.

 

[JennyNo1]

...97% or so of the people on the personals for this site are dudes or dudes pretending to be girls. The other 3% are girls who are bitter or upset because there are so many dudes that are PM'ing them.

Sounds like a clearly broken site to me

Oh, and you're much better than that? A "straight guy in the mid-20s" whose profile pic is a hot girl and whose nick sounds like that of a woman?

 

[Lady_Fiona]

...97% or so of the people on the personals for this site are dudes or dudes pretending to be girls. The other 3% are girls who are bitter or upset because there are so many dudes that are PM'ing them.

Sounds like a clearly broken site to me

Simple answer...

WELCOME TO LIT.

 

[fwhobo]

Oh, and you're much better than that? A "straight guy in the mid-20s" whose profile pic is a hot girl and whose nick sounds like that of a woman?

Touche

 

[Skoti]

Literotica

I personally got sucked into the stories to start with. Then I decided to join up, because I had a lot of questions about pegging. I'm comfortable enough with it (behind a pseudonym, at least) that I don't really care about talking to someone about it, but honestly, after delving into some of the threads in the forums, my experience so far is a little less than satisfactory. I've gotten very few answers, gotten into at least one altercation (which is ok, it happens when you speak your mind and aren't awful worried about stepping on toes), but I still think, after reading some of the posts on different threads (and reading some of these amazingly good stories) that it's worth the time. I think a lot of the time, on places like this, you get a lot of people that approach it from the wrong angle. It seems to me to be able to find people to talk to, ask questions, develop normal online relationships with, but who might be more sexually open. Personally, that seems like a pretty good deal to me.

Maybe that's just me though. If anyone would like, I enjoy talking, as you can tell by my garrulous posts, what few there've been so far. Probably best to warn, though, I'm not interested in a sexual vein, unless it's clinical, more or less, as I have a fiance. Definitely have a lot of questions though, so if you just feel like chatting and maybe answering some questions, drop me a line.

And yes, unfortunately, I DO fall into one of those categories. I'm a dude. Sorry to disappoint everyone.

 

[redheadedtxn]

What surprises me is everyone wants "online".

What the hell is the fun in that?

Makes me curious if all these "online" peeps have ever had it IRL...

 

[kinkypixie]

I'm a chick but in between the 2 you described. I like the attention but I get annoyed with PM's that are semi illiterate and basically 'you are hot I'm stroking my cock'. If someone is going to PM me and get a response I want to at least have a conversation first and lead up to anything happening. Also sometimes I'm just not in the mood orbit in a position to actually do anything.

I absolutely agree with this!

 

[kinkypixie]

I'm a chick but in between the 2 you described. I like the attention but I get annoyed with PM's that are semi illiterate and basically 'you are hot I'm stroking my cock'. If someone is going to PM me and get a response I want to at least have a conversation first and lead up to anything happening. Also sometimes I'm just not in the mood orbit in a position to actually do anything.

I absolutely agree with this!

 

[Cthulhu1138]

I have succumbed to the charms of someone who purported to be a sexy, slutty woman, but the more interaction that occurred, it was obvious that is was indeed another man.

I must commend the person, however; because to me, anyone who can pass a kind of "Turing Test" for whatever criteria there are is if nothing else, skilled.

 

[malstroem]

It's very frustrating for me when I connect with someone online and then I begin to realize that the person on the other end is not a woman. It's pretty obvious during a chat session if they say something like "I just came" and then disappear. In my experience, a real woman would want to stay on and enjoy the afterglow.

On the other hand, I can imagine the kinds of cra@p you ladies have to put up with. I've experienced some of it "hey wanna cam?". And guys who won't leave you alone even when you've told them you are busy.

I always respond to a "hello" on IM. If I'm busy I say so. If they keep at me anyway they are gone.

I'm not one of those "ur hot, im strokin 4 u" kind of guys. I'm mature enough that I can take my time. I enjoy giving pleasure as much as receiving it. Often, I find myself giving even when I'm not in a position to get anything out of it myself.

Whew! I feel better now. Rant over...

Cheers all,

FW

PS - If any real ladies are interested in finding out more, feel free to PM me or add me on IM (in my profile).

Just for the record, I've actually done the "I just came" and then left a few times myself - not my proudest moment admitting it, but it happens and it isn't just males who do it.

 

[Skoti]

Just for the record, I've actually done the "I just came" and then left a few times myself - not my proudest moment admitting it, but it happens and it isn't just males who do it.

Lol You made my day with this. I'm having some trouble evisioning a situation where a woman COULD do this...any time a woman has come before I did, they weren't heading for the door...since I kept on going.

 

[blndbkwrm]

Wow what a way to stir the pot and still have no one to talk to......

 

[malstroem]

Lol You made my day with this. I'm having some trouble evisioning a situation where a woman COULD do this...any time a woman has come before I did, they weren't heading for the door...since I kept on going.

It usually happens when it's like 2am over here and thus early evening in the US, then after an orgasm nothing can keep me awake and somehow a horny guy with all his blood in the little head just can't grasp the concept of timedifference.

 

[quicksylver69]

Rofl, that semi happened to me this morning. I woke up horny and was just chatting with someone, they knew I was masturbating, and then when I came I was like gotta get ready for work bye! We werent activiely cybering so I didnt really feel guilty

 

[mark197205]

I absolutely agree with this!

I absolutely agree with this!

You agree so much you said it twice!

 

[teacher561611]

what are you looking for

You never did say what you are looking for on lit.

 

[fwhobo]

Just for the record, I've actually done the "I just came" and then left a few times myself - not my proudest moment admitting it, but it happens and it isn't just males who do it.

I'm sure it happens with women too. I just think it's a clue to who is really on the other end. If it happens every time with the same person, I tend to conclude that it's really a male.

As for me, I will usually try to keep up the chat until my partner is satisfied even if I'm finished. But that's just me.