In Tennessee

[Ricoh Aficio]

Bodily fluids

Spouses

Photographs

People really swap such things?

Who would've thunk it?

Interesting..... VERY interesting.

 

[Solivagant]

I've heard tale that they do...

In fact I've tried a thing or two myself.

 

[Ricoh Aficio]

I've heard tale that they do...

In fact I've tried a thing or two myself.

Do tell, girlfriend! ...

which two?

Comic Books or Baseball cards?

Surely not the Fluids, Spouses or Photographs.

 

[shannon_est]

Just checking in...

may be moving from middle back to east Tennessee soon. I miss home.

Anybody wanna adopt me?

 

[Ricoh Aficio]

may be moving from middle back to east Tennessee soon. I miss home.

Anybody wanna adopt me?

Hiya shannon!

I know what you mean about missing home. The Eastern end of the State is where my heart is too.

Maybe both of us can get adopted.

 

[NgaPlz]

If anyone is simi-close and willing to travel part way, I'm interested in some lovin'.

 

[Solivagant]

Do tell, girlfriend! ...

which two?

Comic Books or Baseball cards?

Surely not the Fluids, Spouses or Photographs.

Alas, I'm afraid 'twere the fluids, spouses, and photographs.

 

[Ricoh Aficio]

Alas, I'm afraid 'twere the fluids, spouses, and photographs.

Hmmmmmm... Definitely something for me to ponder over the weekend.

I am retiring for the evening, and hope to be fortunate enough to hear more about this swapping when I return.

See ya.

 

[Solivagant]

Hmmmmmm... Definitely something for me to ponder over the weekend.

I am retiring for the evening, and hope to be fortunate enough to hear more about this swapping when I return.

See ya.

Sleep well, with your early bedtime, and have a stellar tomorrow.

 

[peanutbutta]

Hello fellow Tennesseans

32/m In Middle Tennessee great to know that we are not alone in here.

 

[Solivagant]

Welcome peanutbutta. Nope, we're not alone but seems not too many of us are overly chatty online (at least not on the forums I suppose).

 

[Ricoh Aficio]

Hello to peanutbutta. Nice to make your aquaintance, Sir.

Hiya, Sol... Is it Monday already? As far as not being chatty - I'm trying to lose my shyness... can ya tell? I hope you had a good weekend.

 

[tn_runner]

Fellow Tennesseans

been reading thru the posts, and it appears we have an interesting range of people here in the great state of TN. i'm a 52 yr young male in chattanooga, and i'm glad that my feelings and desires are not alone...

joe

 

[Ricoh Aficio]

been reading thru the posts, and it appears we have an interesting range of people here in the great state of TN. i'm a 52 yr young male in chattanooga, and i'm glad that my feelings and desires are not alone...

joe

Hi, Joe. Nice to meet you. No, my friend, you are not alone. I had those same feelings too until recently.

We do seem to be putting together an interesting little ring of TN folks. Maybe some of the more experienced members of our Delegation (SOL are you listening? *HINT* *HINT*) can show us "Virgins" around suggest some other forums here at Lit where we can all get together.

 

[fn2b1]

Hi Peanutbutta and Joe! Yes, it seems that most of us Tennesseans are shy, but no worries - we are fun I'm sure!!

 

[Solivagant]

Many of the Lit regulars create their own threads in the Playground...for instance you find a UK Directory, a Colorado Directory, etc etc.

I suppose we could create one of our own, or just continue to post here. Often people don't mind so much posting information about themselves on one thread, that they won't feel comfortable having in their profile for some reason or another.

The wonderful thing about the forums, is that unlike some chat program where we all have to be online at the same time, we can leave messages to each other here. It's a slow way to get to know people, but not any more challenging than in real life.

And considering the nature of the material discussed at Lit, and the specifics of certain relationships that I'd like to form, it would be way more comfortable for me to know I'm actually interested in a person before discussing more private details. If all I wanted to do was cyber, I wouldn't necessarily seek out people in Tennessee now would I? And if I just wanted to exchange pics, I could start an ampic thread.

If this thread becomes more than just a 'personal' then I suppose the moderators move it to the Playground...I dunno. In order to keep track of the thread, we Tennesseans should subscribe to it (under Thread Tools-I recommend the 'no email' option in case at some point this thread gets busy )

I think I've been long-winded enough. Hope to get a few more 'regulars' on this thread, and make some interesting friends that are neighbors as opposed to an ocean away.

 

[tn_runner]

In Tennessee...continues

I have to agree -- if i was looking for cyber, i would not be here (well, ONLY, anyway...) but i think alot of us seek friendship, companionship, acceptance -- for i believe, humbly i add, that many of us feel we desire erotic, sensual attributes of ourselves, and others that may not be understood or accepted by others, our partners, etc. i feel here -- with my new found friends, i can be candid, open concerning my desires, thoughts, ideas.

so, with all that said -- thank you guys for being here and listening and accepting one another. look forward to getting to know one another so much better and at a deeper, more senusal level....

joe

 

[Solivagant]

It is sometimes easier to be more candid, or even discuss concepts or desires that you feel your partner or real life friends might find shocking or distasteful, but your online friends can share without any fear of rejection or repraisal.

Not too often I can discuss with my sister or my next door neighbor, the fact that I heartily enjoy MFM threesomes, or that my husband and I share this fantasy of a FMF. It's just not a subject that comes up in everyday conversation, unless of course your posting with like-minded individuals at an erotica site.

 

[tn_runner]

thank you for replying and sharing. its interesting that during intense love-making my g-f and i share many fantasies, BUT she has no desire to fulfill those fantasies. she has fantasies of swinging with another couple or having multiple men watch her have sex, or even me having sex with another man. and unbeknownist to her -- i have bi-sexual for many years. but SHHHHHHHHHhhhh!! she doesn't know.

i also have a desire to explore my exhibitionist side. i attended a naturalist gathering once, and so enjoyed the openness and being free without the bonds of clothes -> .

ok...so much for my rambling...

 

[Solivagant]

My husband doesn't have bi tendencies, and his most enduring fantasy is to experience the FMF. We've had couples sex and MFM, but never an occasion where it is just me and one other woman focusing all our attentions on his pleasure. I'd like to experience this with him as well, but it's just not polite to ask a lady, "Would you care to fuck my husband with me?"

 

[tn_runner]

well, now -- i'm sure there would be some erotic female friend that would so enjoy being apart of that -- and actually have the same fantasy. its just that we are ALL so uptight, unable to express our fantasies, dreams, desires -- that so many just go unfilled...

i guess the fear of rejection and/or embarassment is a very strong embankment!!

 

[Solivagant]

I'm thinking it might be. I don't fear the rejection so much as I fear an unnecessary attachment or vulnerability. With couples or groups everyone has their own spouse, their own emotional support in the matter. With the MFMs the men were friends of ours, unattached and capable of separating sexual frolicks from long-term commitment.

Any women that we've met either don't want me present (actually, they don't even want me to know...they desire the forbidden lustful feeling of seducing a married man into cheating on his wife ) or they want some kind of relationship other than a kinky-friends-having-fun one.

 

[tn_runner]

you have have "hit-the-proverbial-nail-on-the-head" -- the perception of sex between men and women. men can so very easily have sex -- even with absolute strangers -- just to "get off", while women (well, a large majority, anyway) have an extreme difficulty in divorcing sex, intimacy, feelings, etc. i have heard -- i have no direct experience to relate to -- that swinging couples have difficulty with the female "members" not being able to fully separate the sex act from the "feelings"....

somedays, i vacillate between admiration and disappointment for both sexes...

 

[Solivagant]

LOL My husband and I are opposites in that respect. I can easily dissociate the sex act from the emotions. I don't feel driven to just to 'get off', but if he wanted someone that I didn't necessarily have an attraction for, I could easily play along and enjoy the experience just for the pleasure of the sex act.

We're not 'swingers' in the sense that we often participate in the lifestyle. In nine years of relationship, we've had three encounters. If my hubby doesn't feel some sort of connection with his partner then he doesn't enjoy the experience.

 

[tn_runner]

--> you and i are ALOT alike. yes, attraction makes the sex act so much better, but i have had plenty of sex with women AND men, that i didn't have as much attraction as i wanted. but, you know -- the outcum was still the same!! a fantasy that my g-f and i talk about during our love-making is watching her have wonderful, sensual sex!! that would be such a turn-on for me!!

whew....need to slow down here....