What are some fantasies you have that play out in your head but you arent sure if you would really want them to come true? Anything you'd put the brakes on if it actually manifested or that you think would be hot but would damage your arrangement with your SO?
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TheGraveMistress
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I always thought it would be cool to have a three-way with two other men. I don't think I would put the brakes on that experience, but you never know. I'm single right now, so nothing to worry about.
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More from a hangout and just chilling and you get hit on by two guys that take you back to their room or is it a craving that you would want to actually push to make happen if you found yourself close to that situation? Like hanging out with friends, everyone else goes to bed and you are just alone with two guys because no one else is there?
briancamdudetenger2018
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in my head i guess lol
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My husband and I, staring down into a fantasy that is threatening to become real. He loves handjobs and certain types of hands. I have always felt mine were too plain, too practical to truly satisfy him. To cope, we spun a story where I watch him be pleasured by a woman with "perfect" hands. (Raven from Raven's Lair) It was safe when it was just words in the dark, a way to transmute my insecurity into arousal.
But then we met her. A woman from my gym. He saw her hands, and the safety valve blew off. We aren't just whispering "what if" anymore; we are planning the invitation. And I am terrified. In the fantasy, the humiliation is hot; in reality, I fear it will just be heartbreaking. I worry that once he feels her touch, he will realize mine was never enough. If I were brave, I would stop this now. I suspect we are about to open a door that can never be closed again.
But then we met her. A woman from my gym. He saw her hands, and the safety valve blew off. We aren't just whispering "what if" anymore; we are planning the invitation. And I am terrified. In the fantasy, the humiliation is hot; in reality, I fear it will just be heartbreaking. I worry that once he feels her touch, he will realize mine was never enough. If I were brave, I would stop this now. I suspect we are about to open a door that can never be closed again.
Travler99921
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I fantasize watching my wife having sex with a other man. The fantasy really excites me, but I doubt I would like it in reality.
Does she know about it? If so, you could always ask her permission and drop her pic into one of those AI deepfake image makers and get the thrill without the potential breakup. If you still like it and want to move on it then maybe it would get her going to see it too?
Let me be the first to volunteer my services.
Sounds like you need to call a timeout. Tell your husband fantasies are one thing, real life is something else. And if he can't respect that, remind him that divorce is both painful and expensive.
TheGraveMistress
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Let's get you signed up, now I just need another dude, and we are goldenLet me be the first to volunteer my services.
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The thought of being watched while I have sex really excites me, but I don't see that ever happening in real life...
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The wife and I have fulfilled nearly all of our fantasies. There are a few, however, that I mentioned that were met with a hard "no." One of these is a gangbang for her. I had no set number of guys in mind, just whatever number she was comfortable with enjoying. Turns out her number is one. She wasn't even interested in an MFM threesome, never mind more than that. She made it clear it was not anything that was worth discussing, despite the fact that we had done FFM threesomes and swapped with dozens of couples. One dick at a time is her limit.
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I get that, there'd be too many arrest warrants being served.
Ssbbw4u1974
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Ahhh, yes..I have very vivid and sexy fantasies that 
is mine IRL...
I'm getting excited and tingly thinking about it...
is mine IRL...I'm getting excited and tingly thinking about it...
MrMikelobe1952
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I have read a lot of your fantasies.
I think they are classic examples of the typs of fantasies that are great for turning you on as fantasies
but would probably be horrible IRL
misstrust
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Same
Sad isnt it... wasting away
misstrust
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After being divorced 13 yrs and learning that dating isn't really an option for me .... It truly does
Smoothshavendad
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Why not an option???
