Intellect and Orgasm

[GiggLeGasm]

Just be aware that when you get divorced they are still your 1st cousin.

We're talking about great sex and you brought up marriage.. that's a really good sign!

 

[Loring2]

you sadistic bastard!

...i'm going to have buttock reduction surgery.

Oh please don't do that; how will I recognize you in the dark?

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

What makes sex with smart people so much better?

From the standpoint of pure Darwinian survival, it would make sense that maybe nature would select the smartest people to experience the best orgasms, to ensure many future couplings between the ones best suited to maintain the species.

Or that could be just a bunch of bull ...

 

[GiggLeGasm]

bull??

From the standpoint of pure Darwinian survival, it would make sense that maybe nature would select the smartest people to experience the best orgasms, to ensure many future couplings between the ones best suited to maintain the species.

Or that could be just a bunch of bull ...

hahaha.. of course it could be a bunch of bull.. this whole thread is a bunch of bull started for the sole purpose of discussing something I've frequently read. Using your comment, though, how do you explain the reports that a woman's sexuality peaks after her prime childbearing years?

 

[blunt_trauma]

hahaha.. of course it could be a bunch of bull.. this whole thread is a bunch of bull started for the sole purpose of discussing something I've frequently read. Using your comment, though, how do you explain the reports that a woman's sexuality peaks after her prime childbearing years?

to keep him killing mammoths for you & your kids until the kids are adults, instead of bugging off with the younger, blonder girl from the next cave.
the survival of the kidlets to adulthood passes on your horny older woman genes.

 

[vrosej10]

The 'blank out' is pretty much unique to the female orgasm. They even have studies and shit.

Ishmael

I saw that study. Women's minds go completely blank. Men's light up like christmas trees. I see a study once that suggested female orgasms were more intensely pleasurable than men's...i suppose that makes up for them being harder to come by *snerk*

 

[blunt_trauma]

I saw that study. Women's minds go completely blank. Men's light up like christmas trees. I see a study once that suggested female orgasms were more intensely pleasurable than men's...i suppose that makes up for them being harder to come by *snerk*

mine doesn't. tick tock tick tock.
often i find myself, mid-orgasm, thinking the fantasy could have been scripted better.
maybe that's why i'm so underwhelmed by the experience.

 

[vrosej10]

mine doesn't. tick tock tick tock.
often i find myself, mid-orgasm, thinking the fantasy could have been scripted better.
maybe that's why i'm so underwhelmed by the experience.

That maybe the reason. Maybe your brain isn't working quite right in this instance. The better the orgasm I am having, the blanker my mind goes. I had an unbelievable one the other night and couldn't think properly for hours afterwards I was so blissed out.

 

[blunt_trauma]

That maybe the reason. Maybe your brain isn't working quite right in this instance. The better the orgasm I am having, the blanker my mind goes. I had an unbelievable one the other night and couldn't think properly for hours afterwards I was so blissed out.

seriously???
i'm back posting on lit before the fingertips are dry!
and not the sexy threads either.

 

[HornyVikingMN]

If you want seduction before and witty banter after, an agile brain is a must. Any knuckle-dragging simpleton can fuck if properly trained and motivated.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

If you want seduction before and witty banter after, an agile brain is a must. Any knuckle-dragging simpleton can fuck if properly trained and motivated.

precisely why there's beer

 

[eyer]

precisely why there's beer

I thought beer (and lots of it)...

...is for turning a four-bagger into a 0255 doable.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

I thought beer (and lots of it)...

...is for turning a four-bagger into a 0255 doable.

Closing Time.. I hope you have found a friend

 

[Urguycliff]

Think Too Much

Education is experience. (that is why we go to school and why I never listen to college students on politics) I've known people with degress in basket weaving and ones who have not finished high school yet can build an engine from scrap. So who is the smarter? It's knowing what to do, learning as you go along and being able to understand and not be afraid to ask what your partner enjoys and do it for him or her. What you are asking is that people who you preceive to have a higher education are more experienced in love making. No. At the same time you jokingly admit someone who might have trouble blowing bubble gum and fucking at the same time may be better at sex. If that is what they enjoy and they learn how to give and get pleasure then yes.

As for my mind there are times when it is quite full and when something new goes in something old must fall out. But I do keep a file cabinet in the back of my mind labeled Woopee that I make sure I keep all my experiences, all my nasty dreams of what I want to do.

The thing about sex pushing all other thoughts from your mind is just a fact of nature. Sexual drive is survival in animals and we humans are just as much an animal as any other. When you are raviishing and devouring the sexual mate (hopefully not like a black willow spider) all your energy and thoughts are in receiving your climax. That is why we sometimes get so wild and have sex with someone we know we shouldn't, but can't control ourselves.

But one problem always happens with humans that doesn't happen with other animals. We DO THINK TOO MUCH. We want a person, want to fuck the hell out of them, but society or our own fear keeps us from admitting it to them and asking if they feel the same way. Men now adays have to fear if they cross a line women will yell sexual misbehavior and we could end up in jail. There never will be real equality between the sexes. Society will always someway give one more rights, including sexual, over the other.

But the answer is yes all other thoughts disappear when you are at the highest sexual point and you and your lover are cumming no matter what your education in other fields. That is why you feel the way you do. The person is driving you hot and wild knowing what turns on every fiber in your body either from their experiece in love making or their experience with you as their lover.

 

[Urguycliff]

Duh

Then again I still believe the world is flat so what the hell do I know?

 

[good4u2]

is there beer here?

 

[Lia Monde]

What makes sex with smart people so much better? I have my own theory, but I'm curious about what other people have to share.

Here is my bit..

Sometimes a brain is so full of thought that a person can barely find a moment of mental stillness. Personally, I can only think of one time when my brain is still..

and it's not while I'm sleeping.

At the very height of orgasm the entire mind becomes free of trackable thought. It's as if time has been suspended and the entire body can balance on a single breath. That one note.. cried out with a surge of emotion.. is more powerful than anything else..

because it is the only thing that can free that mind...

What do you think.. What is it about smart people?
Does intellect even matter? Maybe you think it's better with the local bubblegum queen who doesn't argue too much and likes to make you happy. I don't know.
What is it that makes it so good?

In my experience, smarts/intellect is a net positive to enhancing sex. Not necessarily 'school smarts' or 'degree intellect', but "life smarts" and wisdom. Usually manifests as broad curiosity and open-mindedness about people, places, activities, life, etc.

Such smart/interesting people can make the entire multi-dimensional sexual experience so much better than the quick bubblegum shag. Someone who can attract your mind through stimulating discussion or enthusiasm is the best form of foreplay. The energized twinkle in their eye from their interest in learning about what life has to offer and seriously thinking about living can be not only attractive, but contagious.

Such wisdom also translates into someone who has paid attention to what stimulates them and others and they can deliberately and effectively apply that knowledge to make great sex. An interested/curious individual often is willing to seek more information through willingly asking what you enjoy and immediately experimenting with that input. Likewise, they are typically confident enough to communicate what works for them. And, when your partner is having greater sexual joy, it usually rebounds to increase your own enjoyment.

Of course, such 'intellectuals' are usually smart enough not to waste their time with the arrogant, ignorant, abusive or cro-magnons. Which can lead those types to demean them as haughty, elitist, etc. when they are just trying to avoid being bored by the shallow.

So I do find this type of smart sexual partner appealing. In my self-interest of trying to have great sex, I seek them out. I don't claim to be an intellectual, but I strive to give as good as I get to make the interaction, relationship and sex as fun, interesting and entertaining for them, as they do for me.

I'll concur that at the moment of climax, when there is the blissful blackout stage, 'smarts' are the last thing on my empty, soaring mind. However, when I return to the real world, there is additional pleasure to be derived with someone who cares about and is interested in more in this world than just those moments of copulation.

 

[BiTodd]

In my experience, smarts/intellect is a net positive to enhancing sex. Not necessarily 'school smarts' or 'degree intellect', but "life smarts" and wisdom. Usually manifests as broad curiosity and open-mindedness about people, places, activities, life, etc.

Such smart/interesting people can make the entire multi-dimensional sexual experience so much better than the quick bubblegum shag. Someone who can attract your mind through stimulating discussion or enthusiasm is the best form of foreplay. The energized twinkle in their eye from their interest in learning about what life has to offer and seriously thinking about living can be not only attractive, but contagious.

Such wisdom also translates into someone who has paid attention to what stimulates them and others and they can deliberately and effectively apply that knowledge to make great sex. An interested/curious individual often is willing to seek more information through willingly asking what you enjoy and immediately experimenting with that input. Likewise, they are typically confident enough to communicate what works for them. And, when your partner is having greater sexual joy, it usually rebounds to increase your own enjoyment.

Of course, such 'intellectuals' are usually smart enough not to waste their time with the arrogant, ignorant, abusive or cro-magnons. Which can lead those types to demean them as haughty, elitist, etc. when they are just trying to avoid being bored by the shallow.

So I do find this type of smart sexual partner appealing. In my self-interest of trying to have great sex, I seek them out. I don't claim to be an intellectual, but I strive to give as good as I get to make the interaction, relationship and sex as fun, interesting and entertaining for them, as they do for me.

I'll concur that at the moment of climax, when there is the blissful blackout stage, 'smarts' are the last thing on my empty, soaring mind. However, when I return to the real world, there is additional pleasure to be derived with someone who cares about and is interested in more in this world than just those moments of copulation.

what she said .....

 

[1sickbastard]

What makes sex with smart people so much better? I have my own theory, but I'm curious about what other people have to share.

Here is my bit..

Sometimes a brain is so full of thought that a person can barely find a moment of mental stillness. Personally, I can only think of one time when my brain is still..

and it's not while I'm sleeping.

At the very height of orgasm the entire mind becomes free of trackable thought. It's as if time has been suspended and the entire body can balance on a single breath. That one note.. cried out with a surge of emotion.. is more powerful than anything else..

because it is the only thing that can free that mind...

What do you think.. What is it about smart people?
Does intellect even matter? Maybe you think it's better with the local bubblegum queen who doesn't argue too much and likes to make you happy. I don't know.
What is it that makes it so good?

I'll venture it's imagination and creativity that are important, as well as a certain amount of empathy. The first two are components of intellect, but being really fucking smart doesn't necessarily make one a really good at fucking.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

Such smart/interesting people can make the entire multi-dimensional sexual experience so much better than the quick bubblegum shag.

BubbleGumShag would be a great screen name

 

[zipman]

Apparently.

Funny how you did that while making fun of someone else's intellect.

 

[SSG2point0]

but I DO want conversation... and right before he's about to fill me.. I want to look him in the eye and pose a question just so I can watch him struggle between the intellect and the primitive response growing within.. and then I want to whisper permission and beg for his release..

But I DO want the conversation

Ok I know I'm late to the party but THAT IS @#$^&#%$ HOT!!!!! Dayum...

 

[Labe_Lover]

Afterplay

I'm just out of a dull, dead relationship and have managed to successfully survive the Great Pussy Drought of 2011-12. I live in a college town in a southern state and suddenly find myself being hit on by women in their 20s. The problem with that is that after we get out of bed we have absolutely nothing to talk about or in common, except that we both enjoyed the sex. To me, the intellect is more important to the AFTERPLAY than the foreplay or the act itself. There's nothing wrong with firm tits, tight pussys, and an ass you could bounce a silver dollar off of, but I'd rather be with a reasonably attractive middle aged woman than a drop dead gorgeous coed whose favorite color is "clear" anyday.

 

[SeymourBush]

I'm just out of a dull, dead relationship and have managed to successfully survive the Great Pussy Drought of 2011-12. I live in a college town in a southern state and suddenly find myself being hit on by women in their 20s. The problem with that is that after we get out of bed we have absolutely nothing to talk about or in common, except that we both enjoyed the sex. To me, the intellect is more important to the AFTERPLAY than the foreplay or the act itself. There's nothing wrong with firm tits, tight pussys, and an ass you could bounce a silver dollar off of, but I'd rather be with a reasonably attractive middle aged woman than a drop dead gorgeous coed whose favorite color is "clear" anyday.

You're 50, telling us that you're getting firm 20 year old's and COMPLAINING about it.

Sounds like basic bragging to me. But then again I think I would be too.

 

[Labe_Lover]

Yep

You would be amazed at how many girls in a college town get tired of cafeteria and dorm food, don't get enough money from home, and enjoy the company of an older guy who will wine and dine them and take them places. They call us sugar daddies.