Trl_Runner
Virgin
- Joined
- Aug 29, 2025
- Posts
- 8
I’m a 43 y/o man, bald, bearded, physically fit, former military. Married but separated and open marriage before we split up. I’ve been and around kink since I was in college and I think I lot of people do things backwards. They post their fetishes like a resume and then see if there is a partner that matches. Then are surprised when the dynamic dies once the new relationship energy wears off.
I want to get to know you as a woman and discover what’s between your ears before getting to know what’s between your legs.
Then we get into the freaky stuff as a way to give each other more pleasure rather than taking pleasure from each other to scratch an itch. The hook-up vibe is a turn off. I’m an old guard / romantic like that. Any power dynamic comes from trust and caring about each as people.
We will get along if:
1. You have an inappropriate sense of humor.
2. You think going to a gun range is an excellent date idea.
3. You agree that men and women are different and we each bring something special and unique to the table.
Depending on where you are, maybe this is online, maybe IRL. We will just play the ball as it lies.
I want to get to know you as a woman and discover what’s between your ears before getting to know what’s between your legs.
Then we get into the freaky stuff as a way to give each other more pleasure rather than taking pleasure from each other to scratch an itch. The hook-up vibe is a turn off. I’m an old guard / romantic like that. Any power dynamic comes from trust and caring about each as people.
We will get along if:
1. You have an inappropriate sense of humor.
2. You think going to a gun range is an excellent date idea.
3. You agree that men and women are different and we each bring something special and unique to the table.
Depending on where you are, maybe this is online, maybe IRL. We will just play the ball as it lies.