Interracial Doesn't Have to be Reductive

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Over the last few months, I've grown bored of my own fetishes and acquired a taste for interracial stories. I find that they're one of the most "honest" of the stories because I think they reveal what the author is thinking about others. By necessity, the author is really only able to speak from one perspective.

First, I actually appreciate interracial erotica authors' honesty in showing how their subconscious sees men or women of that other race. For those that are putting in the work to research and learn, I admire the boldness of writing about a race or culture other than their own.

To be honest, however, I think that the genre is really not being "used" the way it could be. There does not seem to be much growth in the genre. Compare the stuff written today in 2024 to the stuff written 10 or even 20 years ago. Change a few mentions of cell phones to smart phones, and you've got essentially the same story in the majority of cases. What is even funnier is that you can just swap out races sometimes and the "story" still works. At that point... what is even the point.

And I think there are two simple reasons for this. The first is the very basic "I don't want to offend anyone" fear. To that, all i can say is... don't be afraid. By existing, I'm sure you've offended someone. The fact that you care about others' perceptions already puts you above the portion of people that take a perverse pride in being assholes, so you being silent is just giving them control.

But, deeper than that, the majority of interracial stories don't show any actual aspect of racial background or character growth. They often reduce the "other" ethnicity to a 1-D stereotype, and the MC (usually white, though not always) makes no effort to actually learn about their partners as their own humans or see them as something other than a pleasure/humiliation/orgasm dispenser.

So, here some would say, "OK. But there's a primary running theme of race... so that's limiting." No, I disagree. The running theme of interracial doesn't have to be that white/black/asian/hispanic dudes have a smaller/bigger cock or more aggressive sexual appetite. The running theme is "differences." And between every two people, there are an infinite number of differences. And when those two people of different appearances and backgrounds come together and actually try to understand each other, you'd have conflict, misunderstandings, integration, compromise. These offer rich veins of both erotic and non-erotic material for writers to explore. To sum it up, you can have interracial erotica with a racial differences as a focus without making it reductive to the races of their characters.

There are definitely exceptions to this observation, and I really enjoy them. But I'm just talking about my observations of the macro-trends, not the exceptions.
 
I could agree with pretty much everything that you have said, but the readership in general for that category really just want the racial stereotypes.

My one interracial story focuses on the attraction of the two characters based not solely, but in large part on the exoticness of their foreign ethnicity. Despite the fact that it's incredibly steamy and has a smut ratio nearing 50 percent, It scores total shit. Probably because it doesn't feature a rippling black mandingo shoving his airplane sized meat into some jibbering porcelain doll who cums on sight of him long before they even start fucking while talking filthy and degrading to one another.

Interracial is hot. BBC is boring as fuck.
 
I could agree with pretty much everything that you have said, but the readership in general for that category really just want the racial stereotypes.

My one interracial story focuses on the attraction of the two characters based not solely, but in large part on the exoticness of their foreign ethnicity. Despite the fact that it's incredibly steamy and has a smut ratio nearing 50 percent, It scores total shit. Probably because it doesn't feature a rippling black mandingo shoving his airplane sized meat into some jibbering porcelain doll who cums on sight of him long before they even start fucking while talking filthy and degrading to one another.

Interracial is hot. BBC is boring as fuck.

Eh... fuck those guys. I'd rather have one interested reader than 100 disinterested ones.
 
My one interracial story focuses on the attraction of the two characters based not solely, but in large part on the exoticness of their foreign ethnicity. Despite the fact that it's incredibly steamy and has a smut ratio nearing 50 percent, It scores total shit. Probably because it doesn't feature a rippling black mandingo shoving his airplane sized meat into some jibbering porcelain doll who cums on sight of him long before they even start fucking while talking filthy and degrading to one another.

Wait, are you talking about "https://www.literotica.com/s/fucking-in-pastel"?

It is the only one in "interracial" as a category and has 4.21 right now. That seems more than fine to me! Definitely not shit.

Also, at least from what I've been reading so far, I really enjoy it!
 
I'm so glad I grew up in Europe. If you can cross a river and find yourself in a different country, with a different language and a different time zone, and two hours' drive will put you in an entirely different culture, there's nothing exotic about someone with a different skin colour.
 
If I have to suborn one race to another, I will gladly never submit to the Interracial category. One might also note that I already have several stories mixing characters' races in Group Sex, Incest, and Fanfic. :)
 
I'm so glad I grew up in Europe. If you can cross a river and find yourself in a different country, with a different language and a different time zone, and two hours' drive will put you in an entirely different culture, there's nothing exotic about someone with a different skin colour.
There is nothing exotic about that in the US either. I think that category is just a relic of the country's, well, storied past when it comes to racial relations.
 
But, deeper than that, the majority of interracial stories don't show any actual aspect of racial background or character growth. They often reduce the "other" ethnicity to a 1-D stereotype, and the MC (usually white, though not always) makes no effort to actually learn about their partners as their own humans or see them as something other than a pleasure/humiliation/orgasm dispenser.

Yeah, like others have said here, that's basically what the IR category is about. There are plenty of good small-i interracial stories on this site, but mostly not in IR because that's become the home for reductive Big Black Cock fantasy.
 
I'm so glad I grew up in Europe. If you can cross a river and find yourself in a different country, with a different language and a different time zone, and two hours' drive will put you in an entirely different culture, there's nothing exotic about someone with a different skin colour.

Not to you but for many it is. Just like I can say that incest is not the least bit erotic to me, yet for many it is. I'm not going to say that it's not erotic, period, just because I'm not into it personally.
 
I wrote a story with a white woman and a British Bangladeshi guy who have an interesting encounter (he's gay, mistakes her for a man in dim light). Laurel put it in Fetish and it scored well. But over time people have clearly found it via the Interracial tag, and that audience have not appreciated it.

So recently when I wrote a story where two older white guys end up getting two younger black/mixed guys back together (and fucking them), I didn't bother adding the Interracial tag because I suspected a gay orgy would go down like a cup of cold sick with that audience. And the story was more about age differences than race alone, because that's the reality in London.

It's a bit like LW - people who can put their relevant stories elsewhere, do.
 
I'm so glad I grew up in Europe. If you can cross a river and find yourself in a different country, with a different language and a different time zone, and two hours' drive will put you in an entirely different culture, there's nothing exotic about someone with a different skin colour.
Yeah, Europe has never cared about the color of people's skin!
 
I haven't read much in the IR category, but I've been intrigued about writing there. I have a few ideas for historical stories - a white odalisque in a multi racial harem with an Arabic or Persian sultan type. Antebellum stuff perhaps between a master and his slave mistress, or master's daughter/wife and an enslaved man. European woman going native with indigenous Americans or Australians or Africans. That kind of thing. Seems like it could fit the category but as others have said in practice the category is mainly BBC. Then again I tend to think authors should make categories the way we want them to be by posting the kinds of stories we want to see in them.

If not IR, I guess these kind of historical stories might just go in EC or Group or LS, depending. A Period Piece category might be nice.
 
Over the last few months, I've grown bored of my own fetishes and acquired a taste for interracial stories. I find that they're one of the most "honest" of the stories because I think they reveal what the author is thinking about others. By necessity, the author is really only able to speak from one perspective.

First, I actually appreciate interracial erotica authors' honesty in showing how their subconscious sees men or women of that other race. For those that are putting in the work to research and learn, I admire the boldness of writing about a race or culture other than their own.

To be honest, however, I think that the genre is really not being "used" the way it could be. There does not seem to be much growth in the genre. Compare the stuff written today in 2024 to the stuff written 10 or even 20 years ago. Change a few mentions of cell phones to smart phones, and you've got essentially the same story in the majority of cases. What is even funnier is that you can just swap out races sometimes and the "story" still works. At that point... what is even the point.

And I think there are two simple reasons for this. The first is the very basic "I don't want to offend anyone" fear. To that, all i can say is... don't be afraid. By existing, I'm sure you've offended someone. The fact that you care about others' perceptions already puts you above the portion of people that take a perverse pride in being assholes, so you being silent is just giving them control.

But, deeper than that, the majority of interracial stories don't show any actual aspect of racial background or character growth. They often reduce the "other" ethnicity to a 1-D stereotype, and the MC (usually white, though not always) makes no effort to actually learn about their partners as their own humans or see them as something other than a pleasure/humiliation/orgasm dispenser.

So, here some would say, "OK. But there's a primary running theme of race... so that's limiting." No, I disagree. The running theme of interracial doesn't have to be that white/black/asian/hispanic dudes have a smaller/bigger cock or more aggressive sexual appetite. The running theme is "differences." And between every two people, there are an infinite number of differences. And when those two people of different appearances and backgrounds come together and actually try to understand each other, you'd have conflict, misunderstandings, integration, compromise. These offer rich veins of both erotic and non-erotic material for writers to explore. To sum it up, you can have interracial erotica with a racial differences as a focus without making it reductive to the races of their characters.

There are definitely exceptions to this observation, and I really enjoy them. But I'm just talking about my observations of the macro-trends, not the exceptions.
I am going to offend you. Apology first.
There is only one race on this planet, and that is the human race.
There are of course ethnicity's, but we are one and the same race....
I personally wish there was no interracial genre, because dehumanising a person. Judging them by there ethnicity is wrong, and demeaning. By adding a shock value to having sex with somebody from another ethnicity means you actually see them of a lesser value. Otherwise, why would there be any taboo, or shock factor...
Just my thoughts.

Cagivagurl
 
I am going to offend you. Apology first.
There is only one race on this planet, and that is the human race.
There are of course ethnicity's, but we are one and the same race....
I personally wish there was no interracial genre, because dehumanising a person. Judging them by there ethnicity is wrong, and demeaning. By adding a shock value to having sex with somebody from another ethnicity means you actually see them of a lesser value. Otherwise, why would there be any taboo, or shock factor...
Just my thoughts.

Cagivagurl

What physical characteristics do you find attractive in a person?
 
I am going to offend you. Apology first.
There is only one race on this planet, and that is the human race.
There are of course ethnicity's, but we are one and the same race....
I personally wish there was no interracial genre, because dehumanising a person. Judging them by there ethnicity is wrong, and demeaning. By adding a shock value to having sex with somebody from another ethnicity means you actually see them of a lesser value. Otherwise, why would there be any taboo, or shock factor...
Just my thoughts.

Cagivagurl

I'm not offended. I think you have a beautiful dream. In an ideal world you'd be right, one's skin color or particular configuration of body parts wouldn't matter.

Buuuuut we don't live in that world, and it's not just one ethnicity/race that sees it that way... groups that are the victims in one country or at one time can suddenly become the oppressors in another. Maybe one day this will not be the case. I'm not holding my breath for that one though.
 
Eyes are one of the features mentioned most prominently in "exotica" tropes.
 
What is it about the eyes that matters? What is it about eyes that attracts you?
eyes....
They are the windows to our dreams. The portals that transport attraction. Eyes cannot lie...
To gaze into the eyes of one so sweet. To see their souls reflected in their light.
Eyes exude attraction, and when you connect with another human being through merely a glance. It is beautiful.
It doesn't matter their colour, blue, grey, almond.
I love connecting with somebody. Across a room, an office, a street. You catch a glimpse of them, their head tilts a little when they catch you staring. Your eyes connect, a stare, inquisitive. You look away embarrased, as do they. But then, you try again, but your actions are mirrored and again you lock eyes.
An expectation builds... Desire burns, flames lick at the edges.
This is true attraction....
The eyes.... You cannot escape

Cagivagurl
 
Eyes are so often our first contact with another person.
We see them before we talk to them.
We can learn a lot from the eyes.
Are they telling the truth? Can they hold our gaze? Are they embarrassed, guilty, attracted.

Cagivagurl
 
I'm not offended. I think you have a beautiful dream. In an ideal world you'd be right, one's skin color or particular configuration of body parts wouldn't matter.

Buuuuut we don't live in that world, and it's not just one ethnicity/race that sees it that way... groups that are the victims in one country or at one time can suddenly become the oppressors in another. Maybe one day this will not be the case. I'm not holding my breath for that one though.
You are right, and I'm glad I didn't offend.
The world is full of different cultures, ethnicities, differences in religion, beliefs, customs.
It disturbs me to see those be how we judge somebody.
Should it be a shock that I had sex, or was attracted to another person from a different ethnicity? It shouldn't be, they are nothing more than another person.
If it is seen as a shock, it's because the other person is seen as being of a higher, or lower value.
In my perfect world, we are all the same.
That's the way I like to see it.

Cagivagurl
 
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