interracial sex

I think it is the way that I treat them like an equal. I was raised by my grandmother to believe that there is good and bad in all races. I didnt play games with them either or use lines on them. They appreciated that and also i am a nice guy too. I dont have time for games and i tell them thatl Most white women want to play games with you and they dont like it when you wont play. that is to say not all white women are like that but the majority of the ones i dated and eventually married played games with me and I dont go for that. I am not in the process of a divorce.

Because of the games and the lack of sex.
 
I agree with everyone on this thread, sex with diffrent races isn't bad at all, I had been single for 7 years (mostly due to the fact I'm in the military) and I just started a relationship with a wonderful black woman who is my world. If not for her and her smile, her laughter, her love and countless other reasons I would still be alone and believing I was meant to be that way. The only downfall is we live so far apart, but I am willing to keep our relationship alive long-distance if need be, until I can hold her in my arms again. The only other problem is this....I'm too thick for her, we tried both anal and vaginal sex but both ways hurt her too much, we used ky jelly but that didn't help, if anyone has had this issue before and knows how to rectify it please let me know because she was as disappointed in it as I was.

Other than that I hope everyone finds happiness with whomever they are supposed to no matter the race, sex or religion!!
 
What is your maximum circumference, dude?

I don't want to cast aspersions, but don't let's forget that
the normal human female can accommodate a baby's head. Of course, there is a lot of pain involved in that, but most penes aren't anywhere near the circumference of a baby's head.

I am right over 5" in circumference myself, but I have only rarely hurt anyone (one girl who was 5'1" and only sometimes). My asian girlfriend wasn't too tight, but she was 5'7" after all (I'm 6'3"). Some say that makes her Chinese royalty.

Anyway, the human vagina is very flexible; with enough arousal, which might be the key, the vagina can comfortably accomodate quite a large penis. Make sure that she is not nervous about performance - that can cause this sort of problem.
Also, consider the possibility of vaginismus, but keep in mind that that phenomenon is quite a bit more rare than people seem to think
 
I wish I could get some interracial encounters :\

I'd love to have sex with anyone who wasn't white like I am... just a fantasy yet, unfortunately. Hopefully someday!
 
back home...

I'm glad to be back home from my business trip and now I can catch up on all the great stories that I missed.

Some of you may have misunderstood where I was coming from... I've had sex with men of all races, but I've always enjoyed my encounters with white men significantly more than any other race. And for some strange reason, they seem to REALLY get into it (the eroticism of the contrast) and that makes it that much hotter for both of us. My white boyfriends have always treated me much better too, but I wouldn't rule out anyone as long as the chemistry was there.
 
true as long as their is chemistry is their that should be the only thing important at that.... and the fact that you two are happy screw what everyone else thinks....
 
Re: back home...

brainy_brownsug said:
I'm glad to be back home from my business trip and now I can catch up on all the great stories that I missed.

Some of you may have misunderstood where I was coming from... I've had sex with men of all races, but I've always enjoyed my encounters with white men significantly more than any other race. And for some strange reason, they seem to REALLY get into it (the eroticism of the contrast) and that makes it that much hotter for both of us. My white boyfriends have always treated me much better too, but I wouldn't rule out anyone as long as the chemistry was there.

very well put brownsug :)
 
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The devils teardrop said:
It is not the reason why and I should have not put it in my comments. I just like women of color. It not always the contrast but rather the way that i have been treated by them. Alot better than some women of my own race. NOthing personal just fact.

i gave this some more thought and i have to say i understand where you are coming from - and perhaps my initial comment was out of line

just as most of us are attracted to certain physical attributes such as a certain height, a certain weight, a certain color hair, i realize some people would be attracted to someone of a different race - and while these may be our preferences, they don't preclude us from becoming involved in a relationship with someone who doesn't
"fit the bill"
 
I'm black, and I have found that white women are better lovers. No offense intended, but where sensuality and gentleness is concerned, to say nothing of being able to open up to a mate, there is no question in my mind here who is superior.

And when I tell a white woman I don't want to hear gangsta rap playing while I'm having sex (or at any other time), she tends to emphatically agree!
 
LovingTongue said:
I'm black, and I have found that white women are better lovers. No offense intended, but where sensuality and gentleness is concerned, to say nothing of being able to open up to a mate, there is no question in my mind here who is superior.
do you think being more sensual and gentle
is an innate ability or something that is learned?
 
LovingTongue said:
.... there is no question in my mind here who is superior...

you have really put yourself out there on the limb
with that statement :eek:

prepared for a tongue-lashing??? and i don't mean
of a "sensual and gentle" nature :D
 
princess4u said:
you have really put yourself out there on the limb
with that statement :eek:

prepared for a tongue-lashing??? and i don't mean
of a "sensual and gentle" nature :D

Well if some black women can say white men are better, and come away without a tongue lashing, I figure I could be honest about how I feel. I'm not saying black women are the scum of the earth. They just do not want what I want or can offer.
 
And if the "who is superior" part is offensive then I will retract it. I ain't here to intentionally step on toes or pick on anyone
 
LovingTongue said:
Well if some black women can say white men are better, and come away without a tongue lashing, I figure I could be honest about how I feel. I'm not saying black women are the scum of the earth. They just do not want what I want or can offer.

no argument from me - i understand perfectly :rose:
 
MMMMmm, white ausie girl here and I think the start of this thread said it all. There is something about the contrast......with me, it's the thought of black hands on my 'white' skin........


:kiss:
 
well far be it for me to step on anyone's right to express their opinion.....

I had a comment for LovingTongue, but some things just need not be said.

Just to clarify....I don't listen to gangsta rap (or any other rap for that matter) while I'm having sex or any other time. And if you can actually hear the music in the background while you're having sex, you're probably bored. I'm usually to busy to notice anything else.

Just 2 cents from a sexy black woman. ;)
 
I agree with you. I am into the sounds of the act especially her sounds. I like to hear here cumming it turns me on immensely and it makes my climax even better.

I dont like a whole lot of music with my sex just something subtle that makes the mood. Rap is not it.
 
brainy_brownsug said:
well far be it for me to step on anyone's right to express their opinion.....

I had a comment for LovingTongue, but some things just need not be said.

Hmmm.. I didn't intend to make ya angry. I have much the same reasons for desiring IR relationships as you. :)

And yeah I agree, if the music is noticeable, the sex is probably boring... :eek:
 
I've only had sex with one black man - and that was on a beach in Jamaica at night, so the skin tone thing never came into play. I just thought he was an interesting person, good looking, and the chemistry was right. Never thought considered his race other than to note that he was black. (Although my roommate, who was with me on the trip and is a black woman, thought I had finally "arrived" or some such thing.)

My current partner is Hispanic (as in Mexican), and I find him to be incredibly sexy. I'd not considered the skin tone thing until one night when he was caressing me from behind, his hands on my stomach, in front of the mirror in his bedroom. Only then did I notice the difference between the brown of his hands against my white skin. And yes, it did heighten the eroticism for me, but not to the point where I would seek that out if I should find myself looking for another partner. I like being with him more for who he is and how he treats me and how he makes me feel about myself.

The only glitch to our relationship is my mother. I'm over 40, so there isn't anything she can say or do, but I know her attitude and I wish it wasn't there. It would make things much more comfortable, though, if she could open up a bit.
 
Dead on

Brainy

You hit the nail right on the head for me... I dated a lovely black girl about 10 years ago (I am white). I never got over the lovely color of her skin... and the fact that ours looked so fantastic together because of the contrast.

-SG
 
You are on the money...

I am a white male and feel the same way you do. Enjoy watching black men and white women also. It is hot hot hot!!!
 
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