Is it a Prerequisite for men...

Gee..People don't like me very much when I'm an asshole.

I'll just remain a bitch.
 
Are YOU talking about Me, Sparky???

I am a recovering asshole. Been there, done that, bigtime. Decided to make a change. And you???

blue
 
The simple truth is that Men and Women do not speak the same language. Connotatively of course. When we say something, we expect men to read into it like we would. Men don't do that, they take everything we say at face value, or less if possible. Don't expect any great emotional epiphanies from a man, they aren't wired that way, and if they are, then you may as well call him girlfriend. They do have moments where they appear to behave "womanlike" with what they say, but that only means one of two things, one, they want to get laid, or two they like you alot and still want to get laid. Men are easy to understand and easy to make happy. They want a comfortable place to come home to, they want to be fed, and they want sex. Not necessarily in that order.

Don't expect your man to act like another woman would, because he is a man. Expect him to act like a man would. He may seem like an insensitive clod, but he most likely didn't mean anything by it, probably thought he was doing a good thing. It's funny, men never confuse women with men. Women always confuse men with women. We think men should act and think the way we do.

Of course, you decided to hook up with KidRock1 and he isn't exactly intelligent.
 
No Blue, as usual.....

I am refering to "me" as the asshole I would never call anyone else any asshole - least not much.

As for sexual preferences - you do remember I can read minds, read people via this here beige beast. I know you.

But, your cloak is my cloak to uphold.
 
As se it, Sparky is one of the more==

enlightened men on this BB. He is also very "playful" and bright. That;s a very potent combo. Trust me, I know.

blue
 
I agree with KM...

Why is it women want us to read their mind to figure out what they mean, not just take what they said at face value, instead we have to try and figure it out, and then guess what response they want.

Jeez.. I prefer my women to be just like I want my life to go.


Easy.

:)
 
Men are born with an insensitive clod. This can easily be cut off during childhood. The boy doesn't feel a thing (it's an insensitive clod, remember!). This simple and pain-free procedure will stop him suffering from hideous infections and will prevent the build up of smegma mountains should he be unnable to get hold of a bar of soap.
 
Yes indeed, Myst. Another interesting fact: if a boy hasn't had his clod cut by the time he hits puberty he's 23% more likely to suffer from hairy nostrils by the time he reaches his 62nd birthday, according to a recent World Health Organisation report.
 
If that's the case SexyThang...then why do women seem to love these men that behave like assholes?..Men with some sensitivity are left out...obviousley these idiots must be attractive to the vast majority of women.Men with sensitivity are automatically percieved to be weak or gay..therefore being "unmanly".It's a double standard...actions speak louder than words you know.
 
Some of us... have managed to be nice, and sensitive, and still decisive and masculine. Yes! It is possible! At least I think so :) Or maybe I am full of myself. But, none of my old girlfriends ever had any complaints... of my being insensitive, or not manly enough. :)
 
what crystalhunting said..

take, for instance, me.. i'm not really insensitive, i just act that way so people leave me alone.. i'm really somewhat of an empath, which is why i rather hate most other guys.. like on Valentine's Day, i figured i'd bring some candy to school and give it out to all the girls just to be nice, but everybody thought i was doing it just to get "something"...
 
brikol.....

brikol said:
Some of us... have managed to be nice, and sensitive, and still decisive and masculine. Yes! It is possible! At least I think so :) Or maybe I am full of myself. But, none of my old girlfriends ever had any complaints... of my being insensitive, or not manly enough. :)
Then what DID they complain about?:)
 
It's genetic.

As was posted prior..men and women are inherently different when it comes to emotions.

BUT..I will say, most of the time my guy is bang on, it's those moments in between, just when I think I've finally made progress..that I end up shaking my head and going "why"?

LOL..
 
Insensitivity is in the eye of the beholder. Its not our fault if the beholder is occasionally an over-sensitive woman.

(Didn't read this thread so I apologise for any repetition)
 
DAMN!!!

KillerMuffin said:
The simple truth is that Men and Women do not speak the same language. Connotatively of course. When we say something, we expect men to read into it like we would. Men don't do that, they take everything we say at face value, or less if possible. Don't expect any great emotional epiphanies from a man, they aren't wired that way, and if they are, then you may as well call him girlfriend. They do have moments where they appear to behave "womanlike" with what they say, but that only means one of two things, one, they want to get laid, or two they like you alot and still want to get laid. Men are easy to understand and easy to make happy. They want a comfortable place to come home to, they want to be fed, and they want sex. Not necessarily in that order.

Don't expect your man to act like another woman would, because he is a man. Expect him to act like a man would. He may seem like an insensitive clod, but he most likely didn't mean anything by it, probably thought he was doing a good thing. It's funny, men never confuse women with men. Women always confuse men with women. We think men should act and think the way we do.

Of course, you decided to hook up with KidRock1 and he isn't exactly intelligent.

I LOVE YOU KM!!! So simple yet so eloquent. Understanding men is not rocket science, and being at least slightly attuned to the needs of your (female)partner does not require huge effort.

For the women out there burdened with a guy who is too dense or too lazy to meet your needs "trade up" don't try and "repair" him. Or simply.... stop being a fucking whiner;)
 
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