Is the biggest cock the top?

[Escierto]

I’m a switch, but I confess that the first thing I want to do when I see a man with a big cock, especially a black man, is get down on my knees and start servicing him. It’s like that cock has me hypnotised. It tells me what to do and I have no resistance. I know who’s the master and who’s the slave.

That's exactly how I am with my girl. When she pulls that thing out, I am completely under her power. I just want it.

 

[DickandDoof]

That's exactly how I am with my girl. When she pulls that thing out, I am completely under her power. I just want it.

Yeah, it’s amazing how we think that we have a hold on a cock, but in reality it has a hold on us.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I’m a switch, but I confess that the first thing I want to do when I see a man with a big cock, especially a black man, is get down on my knees and start servicing him. It’s like that cock has me hypnotised. It tells me what to do and I have no resistance. I know who’s the master and who’s the slave.

Absolutely, when I see a huge fat cock, black or white, I want to get on my knees and service it and beg him / her if she's a trans girl to own me fully. It's like there's a switch in our brains which tell us to worship these beautiful specimens, swallow those huge cocks like we're starving, lick their balls slowly and gently and kiss them all over to get all their cum out, and even eat their arseholes like starving little kittens until they moan and shoot their loads on us.

Yeah, it’s amazing how we think that we have a hold on a cock, but in reality it has a hold on us.

I suppose like cocks have a hold on us, we have a hold on them too — like on our own cocks if allowed while we suck them dry.

 

[Escierto]

Yeah, it’s amazing how we think that we have a hold on a cock, but in reality it has a hold on us.

That's the truth.

 

[drobert44]

Oh my God that's awesome

I sucked it, but not in my ass.

 

[cdstefi]

My girlfriend has told me more than once that the person with the biggest cock is entitled to be the top. Of course she would think so since she has a big cock.

Does her argument have any merit? Is there a psychological advantage to having a big cock that makes someone want to top the person with the smaller cock? Or does the person with the smaller cock acquiesce at the sight of a bigger cock and bend over meekly for their fucking?

When I see her cock I automatically want to bend over or open my mouth but maybe that's just me. Or is it the size? Is there such a thing as Big Dick Energy?

I feel fairly sure that relationship energy has nothing to do with dick size and everything to do with the individual personalities.

 

[Escierto]

I feel fairly sure that relationship energy has nothing to do with dick size and everything to do with the individual personalities.

I think you are right.

 

[Samantha47]

I think you are right.

In my case the biggest cock won out

 

[bobb64]

In my case the biggest cock won out

i've had a lot of smaller cocks.

 

[Escierto]

In my case the biggest cock won out

lol, in my case too but even if she had a small cock, I think she would still want to be the fucker.

 

[LillyLightfoot]

My girlfriend has told me more than once that the person with the biggest cock is entitled to be the top. Of course she would think so since she has a big cock.

Does her argument have any merit? Is there a psychological advantage to having a big cock that makes someone want to top the person with the smaller cock? Or does the person with the smaller cock acquiesce at the sight of a bigger cock and bend over meekly for their fucking?

When I see her cock I automatically want to bend over or open my mouth but maybe that's just me. Or is it the size? Is there such a thing as Big Dick Energy?

I think it depends on the guy. For some guys, size is everything, but there are a lot of big cocks subs or bottoms.

 

[SPARTAN047]

I think you are right.

I kind of agree!

 

[SPARTAN047]

lol, in my case too but even if she had a small cock, I think she would still want to be the fucker.

Yes, even small cock energy might be a thing.

I think it depends on the guy. For some guys, size is everything, but there are a lot of big cocks subs or bottoms.

I'm with you. I've bent over for cocks smaller than mine.

I don't see how they can fuck better. I can't and most small cock guys can't, but neither can big cock guys. They usually fumble around like most small cock guys and shove it in. It really hurts.

It's similar to women who can't deep throat or give the worst hand jobs.

 

[justdarrin]

I have yet to encounter a situation where we looked at each other, compared cock size and decided who was top and who was bottom. I am often "the bigger one" (don't get overly excited!) and most often the bottom.
Perhaps the overall physical size of a person determines? Just a question.

 

[Escierto]

I have yet to encounter a situation where we looked at each other, compared cock size and decided who was top and who was bottom. I am often "the bigger one" (don't get overly excited!) and most often the bottom.
Perhaps the overall physical size of a person determines? Just a question.

I agree with those who said it was a question of energy or dominance. My girlfriend is small compared to me, 5'6" 110 pounds but she loves putting it in the ass of her big guy (me) 6'2" 210 pounds. She asserts herself lol

 

[SPARTAN047]

I agree with those who said it was a question of energy or dominance. My girlfriend is small compared to me, 5'6" 110 pounds but she loves putting it in the ass of her big guy (me) 6'2" 210 pounds. She asserts herself lol

And everyone like that doesn't have a bigger cock, she does happen to though.

 

[P0peye]

My best friend Larry was younger and shorter than me but his cock was HUGE! Much bigger than my inadequate penis. That's why I became his personal cocksucker and the reason for my life long obsession with being roughly throat fucked.

 

[LillyLightfoot]

I agree with those who said it was a question of energy or dominance. My girlfriend is small compared to me, 5'6" 110 pounds but she loves putting it in the ass of her big guy (me) 6'2" 210 pounds. She asserts herself lol

Has she indicated that you being taller and heavier is part of her motivation to sexually dominate you? Does it turn her on that her dick is bigger than yours?

 

[Escierto]

Has she indicated that you being taller and heavier is part of her motivation to sexually dominate you? Does it turn her on that her dick is bigger than yours?

Of course on both counts. She likes to squeeze my nipples or put her hand on my neck (gently) while she fucks.

She LOVES that her cock is bigger. Actually I love it too.

 

[SuperSissy]

Mine was a decent size, about 7 to 7 1/4 or so in my prime (news flash for you young-uns, as you get older you don't get as hard so your cock effectively shrinks), and I've been with men as small as around five inches. Didn't matter, I've was always their submissive bottom.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Pretty much always the same for me! I was asked to fuck some guys themselves but I believe they enjoyed my asshole and wanted to give me a chance to fuck them to reciprocate. I appreciated it.

 

[irishblade]

I’ve never been with a man but I 100% feel that I would be the bottom regardless if my cock was (somehow by the grace of God) bigger.

 

[SPARTAN047]

It's nearly always a matter of attitude and preference as opposed to cock size, though the stereotype has some merit.

 

[BlueChamisa]

I am truly vers. I get off when I have a chance to be the bottom, especially because my cock is usually bigger.

 

[Achingluv]

My present male fantasy is a fair bit shorter and lighter than I am (not to mention younger), but on the very unlikely chance I'd ever be able to be with him, I really hope his dick is smaller than mine (I'm above average, but not in possession of a monster). Something about being able to suckle his (hopefully slightly undersized) cock and then put it in my ass really turns me on. I'd be happy to fuck him, but I'd really love to get on my hands and knees and spread my cheeks for him, and then feel that smaller cock slide into my hole. Or sink onto him from above. Or...