Is there a Litster you WISH had a crush on you?

There is one.
I think she does, if she doesn't, shes a Damn fine actress.
 
I don't know. The way people disappear without warning I'm not sure it would be worth it.
 
Am I the only one that finds crushes a little inconsequential?
As I understand it, feelings of ‘crushing’ are a sign of attraction and desiring another. And we all like to know that we may be attractive and desirable to someone, so why not tell them? It could lead to something special. At the very least, you’ve made someone’s day by telling them and if it’s not reciprocated then you can let the crush go and find someone more deserving.

I guess I just don’t understand having a crush and doing nothing with it. :eek: :rolleyes:
 
Am I the only one that finds crushes a little inconsequential?
As I understand it, feelings of ‘crushing’ are a sign of attraction and desiring another. And we all like to know that we may be attractive and desirable to someone, so why not tell them? It could lead to something special. At the very least, you’ve made someone’s day by telling them and if it’s not reciprocated then you can let the crush go and find someone more deserving.

I guess I just don’t understand having a crush and doing nothing with it. :eek: :rolleyes:


Fear of rejection?
 
Fear of rejection?

Fair point. I can definitely understand that. It’s a big fear of mine. But I suppose I’ve come to fear wasting my time and my heart more. I’d rather the initial sting of rejection than harbour feelings for someone who I may be viewing through crush rose-tinted goggles or who will never feel the same in return.
 
Fair point. I can definitely understand that. It’s a big fear of mine. But I suppose I’ve come to fear wasting my time and my heart more. I’d rather the initial sting of rejection than harbour feelings for someone who I may be viewing through crush rose-tinted goggles or who will never feel the same in return.

I try to get rejected once a week by you. :kiss:
 
There are a few Litsters whom I'd dream of borrowing for a while for some fun and games with Tinglebliss and me. Sadly, even if that were a shared pasion, geography appears to be a show-stopper.
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