Is there anything i do?

[lucky_rocks]

Ok. I have to admit i have a lot and i mean a lot of hair on my body
Heaps on my legs
Little on my arm
Lots on my chest
Lots on my ass to pubes
Little on my back

What do i do to stop it? I am certainly rich enough to laser it. My gf doesn't like it at all when we are havin sex. I can't be stuffed shavin every few days. We men have to shave every day. What do i do, if there is anything?

 

[SweetErika]

Why, specifically, doesn't she like it when you're having sex? Does it cause some kind of physical problem, or she just doesn't like the look/feel of it?

You could wax the areas that are really a problem (for example, I'd get rid of back or shoulder/thick upper arm hair, but that's just my preference).

Other areas could be trimmed some, and you could trim close, shave, or use a depilatory on smaller regions (e.g. genital/anal) to suit your liking.

Personally, I don't see a problem with leg, forearm, ass, or chest hair because I expect many men to have hair in those places. Excellent hygiene and grooming are requirements for everyone of course (really hairy guys might spend a bit more time on it since hair can trap sweat and trimming and such is helpful sometimes), so as long as my partners do that, I'm happy.

I'd never ask a partner to spend a ton of time, effort, money or pain to get rid of their hair; when I love someone, things like hair are inconsequential. I've been with really hairy, super smooth guys, and everything in between, and appreciate them all. In addition, I wouldn't like it if they expressed similar feelings about a characteristic of my body -- in fact, I'd probably tell them to take a hike and go find someone who had what they wanted.

So, maybe another solution is to exchange your girlfriend for someone who absolutely adores your body hair -- there are certainly plenty of women who love hairy guys and/or will love yours simply because it's attached to YOU -- and just groom it (or not) to your own preferences!

 

[emap]

Talk to your doctor and see what he recommends, he or she will either tell you the options and hand you some information pamphlets, or will direct you to see an expert that he or she knows.

 

[Eilan]

So, maybe another solution is to exchange your girlfriend for someone who absolutely adores your body hair -- there are certainly plenty of women who love hairy guys and/or will love yours simply because it's attached to YOU -- and just groom it (or not) to your own preferences!

This is what I was going to say.

My husband's a hairy guy, and before I met him, there was a time when I would have though it was gross. Not so anymore.

 

[KINDGIRL]

ITA with SweetErika - tell your gf to get over it.

 

[Lurnk]

I agree with three of the above posts. Groom it, keep it nice and neat--if she still doesn't like it, drop her. There are plenty of us who adore hair.

Hair is manly, hair is good.



Lurnk.

 

[SweetErika]

I agree with three of the above posts. Groom it, keep it nice and neat--if she still doesn't like it, drop her. There are plenty of us who adore hair.

Hair is manly, hair is good.



Lurnk.

*Sniffles* Does that mean my hubby, with his essentially hairless torso, isn't manly?

 

[midwestyankee]

Sorry, Friday afternoon made me do it.

Hair

She asks me why
I'm just a hairy guy
I'm hairy noon and night
Hair that's a fright
I'm hairy high and low
Don't ask me why
Don't know
It's not for lack of break
Like the Grateful Dead
Darling

Gimme head with hair
Long beautiful hair
Shining, gleaming,
Streaming, flaxen, waxen

Give me down to there hair
Shoulder length or longer
Here baby, there mama
Everywhere daddy daddy

Hair, hair, hair, hair, hair, hair, hair
Flow it, show it
Long as God can grow it
My hair

Let it fly in the breeze
And get caught in the trees
Give a home to the fleas in my hair
A home for fleas
A hive for bees
A nest for birds
There ain't no words
For the beauty, the splendor, the wonder
Of my...

Hair, hair, hair, hair, hair, hair, hair
Flow it, show it
Long as God can grow it
My hair

I want it long, straight, curly, fuzzy
Snaggy, shaggy, ratty, matty
Oily, greasy, fleecy
Shining, gleaming, streaming
Flaxen, waxen
Knotted, polka-dotted
Twisted, beaded, braided
Powdered, flowered, and confettied
Bangled, tangled, spangled, and spaghettied!

Oh say can you see
My eyes if you can
Then my hair's too short

Down to here
Down to there
Down to where
It stops by itself

They'll be ga ga at the go go
When they see me in my toga
My toga made of blond
Brilliantined
Biblical hair

My hair like Jesus wore it
Hallelujah I adore it
Hallelujah Mary loved her son
Why don't my mother love me?

Hair, hair, hair, hair, hair, hair, hair
Flow it, show it
Long as God can grow it
My hair, hair, hair, hair, hair, hair, hair
Flow it, show it
Long as God can grow it
My hair

 

[annieleigh]

Personally I think a man with hair on his body is very sexy

 

[lucky_rocks]

Ok. Thanks guyz i will talk to her and see what i can do. Thanks for the great poem i loved it. Waxin doesn't suit me so i think i will stick wit my manly hair.

 

[Lurnk]

*Sniffles* Does that mean my hubby, with his essentially hairless torso, isn't manly?

Hmm, that depends. Does he have a manly man voice? If so, maybe we can work something out.



Lurnk.

 

[SweetErika]

Hmm, that depends. Does he have a manly man voice? If so, maybe we can work something out.



Lurnk.

Oh yesssss...a nice, smooth, resonant bass. He'd be great on the radio.

 

[Lurnk]

Ohhh, sounds yummy. I shall bestow upon him a manly status then.



Lurnk.

 

[past_perfect]

Well, if your gf doesn't like your hair and you don't fancy shaving it regularly, ask her to do it for you - specifically in those places where it matters most to her. It can be quite a turn on.
If you have problems with skin irritation I'd recommend the Phillips Bodygroom (google) - which allows you to trim and shave very fast and safe (can be used in the shower as well), so it won't be such a big thing after all.

 

[wifey0809]

This is what I was going to say.

My husband's a hairy guy, and before I met him, there was a time when I would have though it was gross. Not so anymore.

I totally agree! My husband is hairy and I used to think is was nasty, but I think when you love someone, you also love the sometimes "nasty" parts too. Love isn't about picking and choosing. But perhaps your girlfriend dislikes the hair because it irritates her skin (happens with me sometimes). If she doesnt like the LOOK of it-- turn the freaking lights off!

 

[Eilan]

I know a guy who used to get his mom to shave his back for him because his GF didn't like back hair.

 

[hogjack]

I know a guy who used to get his mom to shave his back for him because his GF didn't like back hair.

Ah, there's a keeper.

I'm sure the ladies chased him. Good to his ma and all.