is this safe sex

[invaderguy]

my gf and i have been having sex for almost 6 months and we didnt use any form of contraceptive, after we cum, (i cum inside her everytime) she just goes to the toilet and pee, and she is still not pregnant at present.. i just want to know if

1. is this normal?
2. what do you think are the chances of her getting pregnant?
3. do u think its effective

 

[EJFan]

welcome to lit, invader.

1. is this normal?
2. what do you think are the chances of her getting pregnant?
3. do u think its effective

1. no.
2. very high if this is the only BC (and i use the term loosely) you're using
3. no. urinating does nothing to flush semen from her body.

an added thought:
your thread title asks about safe sex. the idea of safe sex, to me, includes protection against std's as much as pregnancy. your post doesn't indicate that you're addressing std's in any way that you mentioned.

 

[5pintshefound]

my gf and i have been having sex for almost 6 months and we didnt use any form of contraceptive, after we cum, (i cum inside her everytime) she just goes to the toilet and pee, and she is still not pregnant at present.. i just want to know if

1. is this normal?
2. what do you think are the chances of her getting pregnant?
3. do u think its effective

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your kidding, right? you guys are damn llucky not to have gotten pregnant. effective as bc?? hell no...

the only good thing that peein after sex for her is : less chance of getting a urinary tract infection.

seriously, invest in some condoms, or get her on the pill/shot/whatever.
if your mature enough to have sex, then you need to be mature enough to keep both of you safe. you can get condoms for what... $5.99.. seems pretty damn cheap as compared to the thousands of dollars a baby costs.

~5PHF

 

[invaderguy]

okay... tnx...

she pee's all of the cum out... i can literaly see it in the toilet.. altho i know some of it is left inside her.. (we know we dont have std's) i just find it amazing that she is still isnt pregnant... tnx 4 d reply.. i just want to know if anyone othen than myself had this experiece..

 

[invaderguy]

we used condom once, but it really gets her dry, and she doesnt want it.. nor use any lub, i talked her about the pill, but there was also the side effects of it...

 

[wicked woman]

we used condom once, but it really gets her dry, and she doesnt want it.. nor use any lub, i talked her about the pill, but there was also the side effects of it...

get thee to a planned parenthood place or search the internet...you guys seriously need some good information.

Sorry...that she doesn't want to use lub or that the pill has side effects is no excuse for having sex bare back if you don't want to get pregnant. Nothing wrong with lub and she shouldn't get dry if she;s using it with you using a condom.

You both sound a bit immature about this to me...you two ready to raise a child?

 

[SesameStreet]

okay... tnx...

she pee's all of the cum out... i can literaly see it in the toilet.. altho i know some of it is left inside her

Are you sure you are using the right opening? Everbody might laugh at me for asking this question but I knew a man and wonman in real life who were not. They had been married for about a year and no pregnancy. She went to the doctor to find out why not. The doctor examined her and then told her to come back with her husband. The doctor got out diagrams and told them both that they had been having sex using her urethra instead of her vagina. True story, believe it or not.

If you are using her vagina then she could get pregnant at any time unless she is sterile or you are (which is a possibility). Not using a condom as protection against STDs might work as long as both of you are faithful to one another. You had better be sure on that point.

 

[invaderguy]

it is not that we are immature, it just feel better bare.. u know..i just want to know if anyone have the same experience as me,.. coz, its just cool on how i can just cum inside her, and see her peeing it out the next minute.. then see her jump a bit,..and let some cum slide out...

do anyone think she has a problem that she cant get pregnant

or mine are just too weak to make her pregnant

 

[EJFan]

it is not that we are immature, it just feel better bare..

it won't feel so good if you're interrupted by a crying baby in the middle of sex.

 

[wicked woman]

oh wow! connecting this thread with your other one where you say she cheated on her bf with you and then on you with the 'ex' bf and now you're concerned if she might cheat on you again! Buddy USE CONDOMS!!!! Doesn't matter what she wants....YOU should want to make sure you practice safe sex...pregnancy isn't the only thing you need to worry about and no amount of peeing is going to help here.

 

[silverwhisper]

invaderguy: what you've described fits absolutely no definition of safe sex or birth control that exists in english, man. please reconsider before you find yourself with an obligation or problem that doesn't care how good it feels.

ed

 

[5pintshefound]

it is not that we are immature, it just feel better bare.. u know..i just want to know if anyone have the same experience as me,.. coz, its just cool on how i can just cum inside her, and see her peeing it out the next minute.. then see her jump a bit,..and let some cum slide out...

do anyone think she has a problem that she cant get pregnant

or mine are just too weak to make her pregnant

sperms size is measured in microns, and the size is roughly the size of a {singular- meaning one} red blood cell. it only takes one sperm to make its way to her egg, and for her to get pregnant.

take a plastic bag, put a couple tablespoons of mayo in it
try to squeeze it all out. it wont ALL come out, there will still be traces of the mayo in the bag. if you cant get all the mayo out the bag, by squeezing, what makes you think she can get it all out by just sittin there jigglin?

also, you asked 3 questions in your first post. once you typed that, the proverbial cat is out of the bag, you cant backtrack and change your post to "i just want to know if anyone have the same experience as me,.. coz, its just cool on how i can just cum inside her, and see her peeing it out the next minute"

you ARE being immature if you really think that "it just feels better bare" is a good reason not to use birth control.

and seriously. babys and stds are the only thing that can come from no birthcontrol. maybe the fact that you 2 havent gotten pregnant in the 6 monthes youve been sleeping together, is that some higher purpose feels that you two shouldnt multiply. take it as a "oh thank god im not pregnant" and use some BC


~5PHF

 

[lovingdreamer]

Trust me from a mom who planned both of her kids with her husband. You don't want a baby if you are not ready for one, and honestly you do not sound even close to ready!

You really need to be watching out for yourself and your gf and use some protection for std's as well as birth control, some poeple would kill to need lube as they get so wet! Just hang in there do the right thing and protect yourself.

 

[Mary Hall]

We don`t need more idiots birthing idiots into the world.

 

[Dazz Hetfield]

If you're having unprotected sex the risk of getting pregnant or infections is 100%.

What are you both, children? In the adult world we know there's no such thing as safe sex, it's only as safe as you make it and if you and your girlfriend like going to clinics to find you're having your 13th child and it burns when you pee then hey, please continue and tell us what AIDS feels like.

 

[Mary Hall]

If i was mean i`d quote the Team America song ''everyone has AIDS'', but i`m too polite for that.

As i always say, if you don`t know anythingh about sex, for fuck sake READ ABOUT it. No use standing there pissing and bitching if you got an infectuion or pregnant, when it`s EASY to learn about safe sex. There are so many ways to learn about it without giving the excuse ''i couldn`t find any information''

 

[EJFan]

i just want to know if anyone have the same experience as me,..

if this was all you wanted to know then why did you ask if it was safe? we're just answering the question you asked.

to repeat, however, IT'S NOT SAFE. and WW makes a great point that if she's had multiple partners (maybe you have as well) then how do you know you're both STD free? testing doesn't always prove anything ya know.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Ahhh I remember the good old days when the main thing that stopped me from having sex was getting some girl pregnant. I remember the good old days after that when we always used condoms out of fear of getting her pregnant. I also remember on of my buddies finding out that one of his ex partners had the clap or something like that, and was overjoyed that he's always used a condom. This girl was not permisuous, in fact she'd only slept with a couple guys, but it only takes 1. She was going on the pill and they were gonna quite using condoms when they broke up. Good thing that didn't hapen. You never freaking know!

Forget about the risk of STD's though, if you catch one through your own irresponsibility that's your problem. Let's look at the pregnancy thing though. You aren't taking any steps to prevent it, I mean fuck you aren't even pulling out. You think it's cool now, but what happens if she does get pregnant. You have two choices, get an abortion or raise a kid. Either way now you are fucking with an inocent life that isn't wanted and has no say in it's conception. So if you are that irresponsible in getting pregnant, how responsible are you gonna be in raising a kid? Or do you plan to just split?

Unless you are ready and willing to do the right thing, get married, and raise a child, then you are acting immature by taking these risks. If you are ready, great, but judging by some other threads, doesn't sound like it to me. Trust me dude, wrap your shit, if you don't you're just gambling with your dick, and you are gonna crap out eventually. The house always wins, remember?

 

[LadyJeanne]

my gf and i have been having sex for almost 6 months and we didnt use any form of contraceptive, after we cum, (i cum inside her everytime) she just goes to the toilet and pee, and she is still not pregnant at present.. i just want to know if

1. is this normal?
2. what do you think are the chances of her getting pregnant?
3. do u think its effective

What is normal? Not using birth control? Not using condoms to protect against STDI's? I don't know if it's normal, but it certainly is a huge risk. Her chances of getting pregnant are 100% sooner or later. No, what you're doing is not effective in any way...you can't 'pee out' semen....it's two seperate holes that the urine comes out of (urethra) and where your semen goes (vaginal canal). Gravity might get some of your semen out, but not all of it.

Read everything on this site:

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/medicalinfo/birthcontrol/

 

[Eilan]

Please tell me this is a joke.

 

[spiderider]

Urethra sex is an urband legend.

Check out snopes.

Urine will not wash out semen. If you see semen in the toilette it is because of gravity. When she sits to pee, much of it will drip out of her vagina and into the toilette.

The woman's urethra is not located in the vagina - no urine will actually pass through her vagina.

See this link for female anatomy.

Semen can live some time in the body, and a few hours even outside of the body. Women have gotten pregnant by just exposure to precum - so be very acareful and learn all that you can.

 

[SesameStreet]

I certainly hope so.

LOL Sorry, this was a reply to the question "Is this a joke."

 

[Mary Hall]

If you dont know about anatomy...DON`T HAVE SEX....got the message yet?

 

[jadefirefly]

My nephew is a result of exposure just to the itty bitty bit that comes out BEFORE the action really gets going.

No. It is not safe. And anyone who has had the same experience as you would probably be here to tell you that you're an idiot along with the rest of us, EXCEPT that all of those idiots are either parents, or probably at the docs treating their STD's.

She WILL get pregnant.
You WILL get something nasty on your dick.

And none of us give a shit if it feels "better". Do you want to know why? Because we all ALREADY KNOW THAT.

If it's dry, use lube. If she doesn't want to, then you shouldn't be fucking her.

Ask yourself this: Can you afford to pay HER 500$ a month for 18 years, all because it felt really really good right now?

No?

I didn't think so. Get a clue, before you have one delivered to you by a guy in scrubs.

 

[Eilan]

Is this safe sex?