It's so unfair...

[Boxlicker101]

It's not exactly fair that we're supposed to just know when a guy's attracted, ya know, Snoop. If we mis-read the signals, we can either miss an opportunity or make a fool of ourselves by flirting with someone who isn't interested.

Romance is tough all around.

In this case, it's completely fair and even because guys are supposed to "just know" when a woman is interested. We are equally at risk of making fools of ourselves.

I hate to say this, Snoop, but it may get better and it may not. As for me, I got married three weeks before my 41st birthday, to the first woman I ever found who wanted me.

Edited to add: By the way, if you want one person to blame for the situation, blame Ann Landers. She probably did more than any one person to preserve the outdated customs that you and I decry. Her twin sister is a strong second.

 

[sexy_dancer]

True

Yes babe it is unfair. I always liked to make the first move for a couple of reasons.
1. I'm in control
2. I let him know right off what I want and what I expect
Its not really fair for guys to do all of the work and play all the guessing games. The girl has to do some of the work at one point or another.

 

[Halo_n_horns]

I don't know who's to be blamed, God, culture, history, society, etc. but it's so fucking unfair that men are supposed to take the first step, to date women, to pick them up. And it's so unfair that it's that easy for women to get a date or to get laid. Why can'T it be otherwise.

So much for sexism....

Snoopy

I lost count of how many women I've dated and/or had sexual relations with some time back, but I can tell you exactly how many I've actually taken the first steps for: 3

Not sure what you're doing, but it sounds like it's time for a different game plan, or it's just the luck of the draw.

 

[sexy_dancer]

Try less

I lost count of how many women I've dated and/or had sexual relations with some time back, but I can tell you exactly how many I've actually taken the first steps for: 3

Not sure what you're doing, but it sounds like it's time for a different game plan, or it's just the luck of the draw.

Agreed. New game plan is a must. Why dont you make her make the first move. Women are easily swayed...if you do it right. For instance you have to look at the woman and decide what kind of man she wants. Does she want sweet and romantic or does she want a hard to handle bad boy. Think about it...be sneaky. Women are!