I've always wanted to ask a woman...

[Ssbbw4u1974]

Is there a specific act or behavior that suddenly turns you on?

"I'm hard for you... I'm stroking my cock"
While we're chatting...

 

[PersonalFavors]

On my stomach prone from behind. Never fails.

Mmmm I had a lover like you in my 20’s. I loved how she would instruct I did not cum. Insist. Threaten. She was quiet when she came but I knew I could lock my legs around hers and let my balls love her thighs. She loved that position and we used the pull out method. She liked my cum all over her back as much as I did.

 

[Strixaluco]

Is there a specific act or behavior that suddenly turns you on?

Nothing is foolproof. It needs to be the right person doing it (anyone not already in a sexual relationship with me better NOT tell me they are stroking their cock as that's a turn-OFF from them.)

And even with the right person, I need to not be very low with my hormones or too stressed.

But if the time and man is right, several things will advance me turning on. Suddenly pinning me against the wall and kissing my neck, for example. Many featherlight caresses too.

Turn-off can be instantaneous, turn-on tends to be a sequence. Unless my hormones are already running so high that I barely need anything anyway.

 

[LoneMilf]

This bears repeating - so true (and poorly understood, it seems):

Turn-off can be instantaneous, turn-on tends to be a sequence. Unless my hormones are already running so high that I barely need anything anyway.

 

[Richardsb2]

Is there a specific act or behavior that suddenly turns you on?

Being protective. Not in a creepy or possessive way. More in a looking out for you, kind of way. Making sure I walk on the inside of a pavement, standing in front of me if someone we don't know approaches, taking over doing things if they seem a bit dangerous. So I supoose you could say genuinely chivalrous. I do find that extremely sexy.

I know there are some women who dont like this though, so be careful x

 

[Strixaluco]

taking over doing things if they seem a bit dangerous

Especially this is something where it's worth paying attention to very varying lines of what is appreciated and what is not.

I love my partner looking out for me. I even like his way of doing some things that are half possessive, half looking out for me, like placing me on the window seat in public transport.

But I'm used to taking care of certain things and accepting certain level of risk, and don't appreciate being babied much - despite being a little! (Then in some situations I may ask for it when I don't trust my exhausted hands for example, but I also won't be turned on then.)

 

[Strixaluco]

This bears repeating - so true (and poorly understood, it seems):

I agree. Too many men assume we turn on like a flipping a switch, and very often it is not like that. And that expectation is a burden that only slows it down.