Jodie Foster..... bye bye closet!

[Wolfman1982]

Dyke_Writer: I feel you are no better than the gossip magazine journalists who loves to get those tidbits of information. So to me, you are guzzling it up like a dried out person in the desert. So if you ask me , don´t even bother try defending your way with the thread. And what do I think of you ? well my mind flows over with British English bad words, and then some. But other than that, you can only guess what words I am thinking off. Since they are not being written down by me to your amusement. So colour me beautiful, Dyke_Writer the only thing you would be good at, would possibly be at the type writer of the old days, whether the type writer has a screen , or it is a computer. Dyke_Writer , you are nothing to me, and well I am quite happy about that.

But opinions are like arseholes, everybody has one.

 

[Jagged]

Did he, never even knew about it - the book or the brother, I much prefer her work to her bedroom activities.... although if she offered, I wouldn't say no!

Neither would I...*s* Lovely woman and an amazing actress. The bedroom and the breakfast conversation would have been amazing.

 

[Dyke_Writer]

Dyke_Writer: 1. I feel you are no better than the gossip magazine journalists who loves to get those tidbits of information. So to me, you are guzzling it up like a dried out person in the desert. So if you ask me , don´t even bother try defending your way with the thread. 2. And what do I think of you ? well my mind flows over with British English bad words, and then some. But other than that, you can only guess what words I am thinking off. Since they are not being written down by me to your amusement. So colour me beautiful, Dyke_Writer the only thing you would be good at, would possibly be at the type writer of the old days, whether the type writer has a screen , or it is a computer. 3. Dyke_Writer , you are nothing to me, and well I am quite happy about that.But opinions are like arseholes, everybody has one.

1. Had that been the case, I'd have posted this last month when it was actually 'news' and wouldn't have found out about it only a couple of days ago. I didnt defend my thread, I tried to clarify what I meant which is very different.

2. I dont give a shit.

3. If that is your stand point, why on earth are you bothering to jump on every single thing I have said on this thread rather than ignoring me? Although I assume my nothingness to you will make any future posting I make completely invisible to yourself and therefore I may be able to partake in conversations that have been read properly by others rather than have them interrupted by yourself with this self righteous, holier than thou attitude. You seem to have a huge problem with me considering Im nothing to you.

I asked you personally nothing, the only question I posed is why things like this, or indeed the dating habits of anyone who is in the spotlight, suddenly becomes news.

Now maybe the rest of us who actually want to either discuss the questions I did pose, or generally talk about Jodie Foster can do so in peace.

 

[Wolfman1982]

wonderful

Dyke_Writer you rhyme on typewriter, but anyway
it suddenly occurs to me, we have something in common, we don´t give a shit . So let us work something out in the future.

 

[BiDrew42]

Think about this - what if the partner was the one who wanted to remain in the closet/shadows?

My point - a lot of assumptions are being made on this thread and the fact is none of us really has a clue. We don't know that the partner was in great pain - perhaps Jodie was the one in pain. The fact is if there wasn't a celebrity involved, no one would really care except maybe the family and close friends.

How fo I feel about her finally coming out?

I think Jodie Foster is a terrific actress.

Drew

Don't you think it had caused her partner great pain to be hiding in the shadows for 15 years? Think about that. She didn't come out for you or I or anyone of those people that cares. She came out for her partner and noone else.

 

[none2_none2]

I think Jody Foster is a great actress. I don't know the names of all her films; but being a sci-fi fan, I really loved the one where she listened to radio waves in the cosmos.

Whether she came out or not really doesn't matter. If it makes herself, her lover, and their kids feel better; then all power to her. If it would have made them all feel better to stay in the closet until death; then that would have been fine to. I'm kind of in the same boat, though I'm not anybody famous. I love my guy. That being said, I know that co-workers, church friends, and some relatives wouldn't understand. I see no reason to discuss sex topics with those that it would hurt or would only cause an argument. Life is too short for that. My partner is simply the guy I plan on spending my life with -- not a trophy to put on display or to hit people over the head and say get use to it. I say this because my dad was the opposite. He was a person always into shock affect so that he could be on center stage.

That doesn't mean I'm homophobic, I'm just a realists. I do want the same rights everybody else has -- even if I didn't exercise them if we had them. I really hate how in the US, the gay marriage has been such a rallying cry for radical republicans. I remember going to a rally where a guy mentioned he was against gay marriage, and every applauded like they were in a stadium and they just one a sports event. It didn't matter that he didn't care if good paying white-collar jobs were off-shored to cheaper countries or other things that affect so many. It was this one topic that got many straight people intensely interested. I find it really repulsive that they claim to be "pro-life" (anti-abortion), and yet they are actually more intense about gay marriage than even the topic of abortion. My guess is because straight people don't want to admit that they want abortions when THEY want them. Whereas they will never want gay sex, and so it is easy to condemn that which convienently will never affect them.

Back on topic with this thread: Wolfman1982, I don't know why you got so upset with Dyke_writer. I know neither one of you, but I think if you closely read what IS in the threads and not read something into it, you would see that Dyke_Writer really is not pushing some agenda. She is simply commenting on one wonderful actress' coming out. We all have times when we have things that trigger anger. I remember a really nice looking gay guy that wore a T-shirt that said something to the affect that he was a great person because he was NOT a breeder. I wanted to punch him in the face. As a gay, infertile, male I greatly resent any gay bigot who dares to make reproduction a derogatory term. There are plenty of gays who DO have kids (or in my case, wish I could) plus we all came from some kind of reproductive act.

Anyway, you truly have a right to feel however you choose to feel. That being said, personally if I were you, I would apologize to Dyke_Writer. That isn't because you are a bad person or anything. In fact I have liked some of your posts in the past. Rather, it is just that I think in this case you are getting upset about something she wrote that just isn't there. Please re-read her posts. You shouldn't find anything radical or judgemental in what she wrote. Actually you almost have the same view point, you just come across as not seeing that commonality because you are pissed about something. Being upset can impair one's impartiality. I know that from personal experience as I can be VERY hot-tempered at times.

 

[Wolfman1982]

normally I do apologise. But this thread had as much nonsense in the first post as one of those Harry Potter wizards was gay. I just don´t get all the hurrah about Jodie Foster is gay. I think she is a great actor, but her private life is her private life. And I wish her all the great years she can have. But at the same time why is it always the celebrities who get clapped at when they come out of the closet, and not the common man, like you and me. And if you ever came out of the closet, I would hug you, kiss you (on the cheek) and protect you in any way possible. But nobody does that, they are only interested in the rich, famous, and "beautiful". And in reality I couldn´t really give a rats arse about them, other than. They are also people with needs of love, and all that. But in reality, as I said in my second post. I would feel bad asking for an autograph. That is why, I got angry over Dyke_Writers thread. I would have greater respect for her, if she didn´t make this thread, but seriously I got pissed over Dyke_Writer, not anything else. Since I saw clearly , and not any part of my body was fogged. And especially not my eyes. And the thing is, I knew a woman, who you could call famous in some ways (not because of acting but other stuff). And if she had decided to be in the closet, and had asked me to shut up about it. Then I would have, but since she was out and proud as a bisexual woman, before I even met her. Then it was fine. But the crucial part is , Dyke_Writer literally pissed me off. So if I have to apologise. Then I have to think it over big time.

And believe me, when I say privacy is privacy. Then I really mean that, privacy is privacy.

 

[robbie_boy1]

1. Had that been the case, I'd have posted this last month when it was actually 'news' and wouldn't have found out about it only a couple of days ago. I didnt defend my thread, I tried to clarify what I meant which is very different.

2. I dont give a shit.

3. If that is your stand point, why on earth are you bothering to jump on every single thing I have said on this thread rather than ignoring me? Although I assume my nothingness to you will make any future posting I make completely invisible to yourself and therefore I may be able to partake in conversations that have been read properly by others rather than have them interrupted by yourself with this self righteous, holier than thou attitude. You seem to have a huge problem with me considering Im nothing to you.

I asked you personally nothing, the only question I posed is why things like this, or indeed the dating habits of anyone who is in the spotlight, suddenly becomes news.

Now maybe the rest of us who actually want to either discuss the questions I did pose, or generally talk about Jodie Foster can do so in peace.

I love the chains...

Perhaps she remained in the closet is for this reason... She didn't want to get into this type of discourse that will go on and on and on...and nobody cares exept the people that wish to live their lives instead of their own...

I am not saying you do but I would rather hear about you and yours than someone that I really will never meet, will never have a conversation with or would ever reply to this message...

You are beautiful and lesbian ... be proud..be you... fuck the rest of it...

When I stopped trying to identify myself as one thing or another I then began to live life on life's terms as they are.. I think it was about the same time that I found Lit ...I had so much to say at that time. Once I accepted who and what I am, I no longer feel that I need to justify who I am or what I do..........


oh, anyone out there have a large dick that would like to stangle me or do me in the ass.........lol........... nah....didn't think so........ok, Ladies.....strapon or cream pie?

 

[Dyke_Writer]

I love the chains...

Perhaps she remained in the closet is for this reason... She didn't want to get into this type of discourse that will go on and on and on...and nobody cares exept the people that wish to live their lives instead of their own...

I am not saying you do but I would rather hear about you and yours than someone that I really will never meet, will never have a conversation with or would ever reply to this message...

Im sure she had her reasons for both staying and and coming out and I'd be surprised if she didn't discuss them fully with her partner before she decided to come out. Then again, I think what will end up happening is what went on with Ellen, there will be a shed load of hype and stuff about it, then she'll just be Jodie Foster again. I mentioned it merely to say yay for her for coming out (wow, I've said that a lot! )

You are beautiful and lesbian ... be proud..be you... fuck the rest of it...

When I stopped trying to identify myself as one thing or another I then began to live life on life's terms as they are.. I think it was about the same time that I found Lit ...I had so much to say at that time. Once I accepted who and what I am, I no longer feel that I need to justify who I am or what I do..........

Exactly, I live my life, pay my taxes, take care of my family and generally get on with things as they come along. Im really not bothered by the rest, as long as its not hurting or upsetting me and mine, then live and let live!
As long as you're happy with your lot, then really, what others think isn't that important, especially if you dont have to live with them. You only ever have to answer to yourself and if you're not happy with you, then theres little chance that anyone else truly can be.
And what you do in your own bedroom (or any other room for that matter) is the business of those you invite in there!



And none2_none2 As long as you are happy in your life and with your partner is what matters, come out, stay in, as I said, its your life and you have to live in your way. But if you do decide to come out, then I hope you have as stressfree trip as possible and that theres lots of folks who will offer you support should you need it! Either way, I'll raise a glass you if you do!

I know I couldn't stay in a closet personally, I love my partner and Im proud of her and what she does and I want to be able to be proud to be seen with her when we're out together, something we couldn't do if we were both closeted. And as we run a company together and go to a lot of conferences etc, I dont want to have to have to pretend we're just friends when we're out in the evenings etc.
Dont get me wrong, Im not saying you're not proud of your partner and all those things, Im just saying I couldn't do it.
In fact, I think its probably harder to remain in the closet than it is to come out.

 

[robbie_boy1]

Im sure she had her reasons for both staying and and coming out and I'd be surprised if she didn't discuss them fully with her partner before she decided to come out. Then again, I think what will end up happening is what went on with Ellen, there will be a shed load of hype and stuff about it, then she'll just be Jodie Foster again. I mentioned it merely to say yay for her for coming out (wow, I've said that a lot! )




Exactly, I live my life, pay my taxes, take care of my family and generally get on with things as they come along. Im really not bothered by the rest, as long as its not hurting or upsetting me and mine, then live and let live!
As long as you're happy with your lot, then really, what others think isn't that important, especially if you dont have to live with them. You only ever have to answer to yourself and if you're not happy with you, then theres little chance that anyone else truly can be.
And what you do in your own bedroom (or any other room for that matter) is the business of those you invite in there!



And none2_none2 As long as you are happy in your life and with your partner is what matters, come out, stay in, as I said, its your life and you have to live in your way. But if you do decide to come out, then I hope you have as stressfree trip as possible and that theres lots of folks who will offer you support should you need it! Either way, I'll raise a glass you if you do!

I know I couldn't stay in a closet personally, I love my partner and Im proud of her and what she does and I want to be able to be proud to be seen with her when we're out together, something we couldn't do if we were both closeted. And as we run a company together and go to a lot of conferences etc, I dont want to have to have to pretend we're just friends when we're out in the evenings etc.
Dont get me wrong, Im not saying you're not proud of your partner and all those things, Im just saying I couldn't do it.
In fact, I think its probably harder to remain in the closet than it is to come out.

I said I like the chains.......say thank you *tapping my foot*...lol

 

[Dyke_Writer]

I said I like the chains.......say thank you *tapping my foot*...lol

How cheeky, but yes, you're correct, I apologise and thank you muchly!

 

[Xelebes]

Wait, she's les? Argh. Oh well, off to the wet dreams she goes. =/

 

[infinity706]

The thing I don't understand is why everyone's saying she's a lesbian. There are plenty of women with a female partner that like guys, too.

 

[thetwolezz]

(I deleted all the Danish crap)
But what made me angry is the whole shebang about her being gay. And you make a thread called "bye bye closet". That is like a red flannel skirt in front of some bulls. Since to me, I feel she should give the finger to the press, and lived happy ever after with her lover, instead of she is now "gay". Whether everybody knew it or not.

Lord forgive,....cuz NOW she is gay!
ROFFLAL
(Rollin on the floor flaming like a lez)

 

[co1029]

Wow.
This thread got angry really quick.
Geez

Can't we just say 'Hurray for being comfortable with one's sexuality, whatever form that might take and however you tell (or don't tell) other people?'

 

[thetwolezz]

Wow.
This thread got angry really quick.
Geez

Can't we just say 'Hurray for being comfortable with one's sexuality, whatever form that might take and however you tell (or don't tell) other people?'

I congratulate her for being brave enough to profess her love for someone, whether it's a man or woman or child...because the media eats that shit right up!
As far as her coming out in her own terms, that's her business. Jus glad she was able to find a love for whatever amount of time. EVERYONE deserves happiness for however long it may last.

 

[co1029]

I congratulate her for being brave enough to profess her love for someone, whether it's a man or woman or child...because the media eats that shit right up!
As far as her coming out in her own terms, that's her business. Jus glad she was able to find a love for whatever amount of time. EVERYONE deserves happiness for however long it may last.

Exactly.
I just really hope shes not loving children. hahaha.
I kid, but I support your points!

 

[John Doe]

and yes, it was obvius before and we all knew she was gay

No we didn't all know.

 

[Wolfman1982]

Lord forgive,....cuz NOW she is gay!
ROFFLAL
(Rollin on the floor flaming like a lez)

I am glad you laughed. Since it is a pretty fun sentence. And Dyke_Writer is still a cunt, perhaps she shold write herself a story and at the same fuck herself.

 

[groove_kid]

I don't care if she's gay, I've always loved her movies,
all though it doesn't hurt that she's one more to support the community.
Just one more influential celeb that's all.

 

[gaymm]

Think about this - what if the partner was the one who wanted to remain in the closet/shadows?

My point - a lot of assumptions are being made on this thread and the fact is none of us really has a clue. We don't know that the partner was in great pain - perhaps Jodie was the one in pain. The fact is if there wasn't a celebrity involved, no one would really care except maybe the family and close friends.

How fo I feel about her finally coming out?

I think Jodie Foster is a terrific actress.
Drew

Exactly.

 

[Wolfman1982]

Exactly.

I agree with that too, I sometimes just use a lot of cursing . Since who would care if she wasn´t an actress ? nobody. It is basic logic.

 

[gaymm]

I agree with that too, I sometimes just use a lot of cursing . Since who would care if she wasn´t an actress ? nobody. It is basic logic.

I think she is a terrific actress too. Coming out is a curious process. Yes I have done it and yes it is liberating, but think about it: wouldn't it truly be a wonderful world if no one had to come out as gay, bisexual, heterosexual, whatever? Wouldn't it be truly wonderful if we were judged by our character and ethics and morals and not [by our orientations]? (Thank you MLK Jr.)

Why should anyone HAVE to come out? I am not on a high horse, I just truly feel for "celebrities" whose private lives are splashed across the tabloids and TV. The world has many more much serious issues both personal and financial that need to be addressed and given the light of day, than whether or not some celebrity OD'd or was DUI or whatever.

Arghhhhh, rant off
chris

 

[Dyke_Writer]

I said I like the chains.......say thank you *tapping my foot*...lol

haha thank you honey. I apologise for the delay!

 

[shycoyote]

I didn't know she was gay...
I've been in love with her since I was a teenager... Back in the orginal Freaky Friday days.
It really is none of my business but it sure does make her even hotter.
Now I want to go watch Contact again.