Just because we are bi/gay seniors doesn't mean we don't need a little TLC also

[Muddy91]

That's another reason why I like older gentlemen. I don't like hookups at all and prefer to get to know someone and have more of a FWB relationship (despite what my fantasy stories imply haha).

Yeah I can absolutely understand that!

 

[Muddy91]

Yeah I can absolutely understand that!

I went in saying lets chat and see if we hit it off, but 15 seconds in to the meeting I was already

 

[SissyAngelicaLu]

I went in saying lets chat and see if we hit it off, but 15 seconds in to the meeting I was already

Omg haha you were too excited! That's actually so cute!

 

[Muddy91]

Omg haha you were too excited! That's actually so cute!

Lol yeah you think so!?

 

[Muddy91]

Lol yeah you think so!?

Just terribly thirsty i guess! haha

 

[SissyAngelicaLu]

Lol yeah you think so!?

I think so! There's definitely something cute and adorable about someone super eager to please their first cock!

 

[Muddy91]

I think so! There's definitely something cute and adorable about someone super eager to please their first cock!

yeah i feel like a cock whore now tho. lol

 

[Muddy91]

yeah i feel like a cock whore now tho. lol

Cant wait to have some new cock in my mouth. What have I done!? lok

 

[wintergrain]

That's another reason why I like older gentlemen. I don't like hookups at all and prefer to get to know someone and have more of a FWB relationship (despite what my fantasy stories imply haha).

Hi Angel, i agree with you totally, the quickie one night hookup may satisfy for the moment but then it leaves you feeling empty inside afterwards... while you are focusing on the immediate pleasures, part of you is wishing it was a committed FWB relationship giving you the opportunity to plan new and exciting things the next time you're together.

 

[mayihaveanother]

be happy to chat sometimes, you're right , just finding a chat buddy is hard

I agree, and would love to chat. None of the labels seem to be quite be 'me'!
I'm ORAL, and Gay doesn't get there... Neither does Bi, neither does... well, any of them. 'Urges' INDEED! The deep deep satisfaction I experience when using my Lips, tongue, and yes, my mouth.... is incredible! I'm widowed, 'Old", and would SOOO love to be able to PLEASE someone, M or F, Not a 'Personal' here, just hoping to chat with someone who might understand a little!

 

[SissyAngelicaLu]

Hi Angel, i agree with you totally, the quickie one night hookup may satisfy for the moment but then it leaves you feeling empty inside afterwards... while you are focusing on the immediate pleasures, part of you is wishing it was a committed FWB relationship giving you the opportunity to plan new and exciting things the next time you're together.

Yes, I definitely feel the same way. I've had a few one time experiences when I was younger that I'll never forget, but as I get older I remember those but also I remember all the times where I was stood up, didn't enjoy who I was with, and just frustrated in general with the manners and behavior of people. I've definitely learned to appreciate good, open communication, punctuality and good hygiene over sex for the sake of it, and finding someone, especially a respectful older gentleman who can provide that is certainly special.

I'll also add that for a lot of older bi gentlemen on this forum, it seems like many of you are suffering from dead bedrooms, lack of intimacy and general loneliness. I feel hurt and saddened to see many of you going through issues like this.

 

[wintergrain]

Yes, I definitely feel the same way. I've had a few one time experiences when I was younger that I'll never forget, but as I get older I remember those but also I remember all the times where I was stood up, didn't enjoy who I was with, and just frustrated in general with the manners and behavior of people. I've definitely learned to appreciate good, open communication, punctuality and good hygiene over sex for the sake of it, and finding someone, especially a respectful older gentleman who can provide that is certainly special.

I'll also add that for a lot of older bi gentlemen on this forum, it seems like many of you are suffering from dead bedrooms, lack of intimacy and general loneliness. I feel hurt and saddened to see many of you going through issues like this.

Wow, you hit the nail on the head so many times there, you are correct and right on so many levels, your insightful message moved me, at least now i know someone cares, you are special and i hope you find that special someone one day soon.

 

[wintergrain]

I agree, and would love to chat. None of the labels seem to be quite be 'me'!
I'm ORAL, and Gay doesn't get there... Neither does Bi, neither does... well, any of them. 'Urges' INDEED! The deep deep satisfaction I experience when using my Lips, tongue, and yes, my mouth.... is incredible! I'm widowed, 'Old", and would SOOO love to be able to PLEASE someone, M or F, Not a 'Personal' here, just hoping to chat with someone who might understand a little!

I understand

 

[Oyster69]

Happy to exchange thoughts, experiences, with you.

Would also be happy to chat, Im in EST zone, may be a problem.

 

[wintergrain]

Would also be happy to chat, Im in EST zone, may be a problem.

Not a problem, I'm in the same Zone

 

[Meateater72]

I understand the situation completely. It is really hard for an older cocksucker to find someone to have a fwb relationship with. I'm turning 52 and have tried to connect with a man for some fun and when they find out how old you are they just dissappear. If I could find a guy in south central Texas to chat with, and eventually connect with, I would love to show him a good time from time to time.

 

[Tom599]

We still have urges too, maybe not as often as the younger generations but we still have them, some of us are looking to explore the bi side for the first time, some of us are looking to reenact old memories with a new friend, for some of us who wish to keep things discreet, it is a challenge to meet someone with similar interest. there should be an easier way for men to meet other men nearby discreetly, a friend with benefits sort of thing, if you live in a small town your chances are even lower.

Have the same problem living in a small town love to have a love friend

 

[Meateater72]

I know how that goes. Everybody knows everybody. If you are trying to be discrete forget anybody there.

 

[TryGuy35]

I understand the situation completely. It is really hard for an older cocksucker to find someone to have a fwb relationship with. I'm turning 52 and have tried to connect with a man for some fun and when they find out how old you are they just dissappear. If I could find a guy in south central Texas to chat with, and eventually connect with, I would love to show him a good time from time to time.

Well I love older men, very much my type. Especially a nice white or silver daddy type beard yum

 

[IKEA_Boy701]

I know this thread is for you folks older than my mid-40’s and for in-person meet-ups, but I wouldn’t be above being pen pals with some bi/gay men.

 

[Daddoo]

I have found that it pays to be upfront in the first couple of messages so everyone knows where I’m at. I try to let them know I’m old, fat, married, have health issues so my cock doesn’t get that hard, and I don’t do anal. I also dress sissy sometimes. After we get through that I have met some pretty nice people.

 

[write_or_wrong]

I have found that it pays to be upfront in the first couple of messages so everyone knows where I’m at. I try to let them know I’m old, fat, married, have health issues so my cock doesn’t get that hard, and I don’t do anal. I also dress sissy sometimes. After we get through that I have met some pretty nice people.

Totally agree. Way better to get everything on the table right up front. Very frustrating for both of you to waste time thinking there's a match only to have it fall through when you finally meet. Being forthcoming at first will mean a lot of early rejections, but the final result will make it worth it.

 

[wintergrain]

Have the same problem living in a small town love to have a love friend

same here, lot of lonely guys out there who would love to have a FWB but may never get the chance to explore what it's like to be with another like minded man, especially in small towns

 

[SmoothAndSweet]

Never forget that we are human also. We have feelings, likes, dislikes, emotions ( I know because I cry a lot) wants, needs. It is more difficult for a TS, or Shemale, or Femboy, or someone that is considered 'Intersex' like me. I yearn to find a person that will love me because of who I am and not what I am. Someone to hold me, cuddle me, sniff my hair, tell me they love me, fuck me till I can't see straight, suck me till my balls are dry, let me fuck them until another eclipse ( ). Anyway, I hoped that was an answer

 

[Oyster69]

I have found that it pays to be upfront in the first couple of messages so everyone knows where I’m at. I try to let them know I’m old, fat, married, have health issues so my cock doesn’t get that hard, and I don’t do anal. I also dress sissy sometimes. After we get through that I have met some pretty nice people.

Just like you, I make it known right off the bat that I’m no spring cock!
Thanks for the good chuckle on a previous post of yours, ‘ sucking your own dick but, not being limber enough to lick your own ball’