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Wow. Good stuff. Though I do believe you spelled "truly" incorrectly. A- for you. 
Hey, I think I sent you a PM about your Colorado story. And one later one that alluded to the subject matter within (granted it was in regard to one of your pic sets).
I have my crude side, and I won't deny it. However, I only show that side to those who show an interest in seeing it.
Also, as I've said before - a little advice for the guys (mainly the guys). If a woman has a beautiful/sexy picture (or several) of herself posted in her thread or in an avatar, there is a pretty good chance that she's been complimented on it/them before. Therefore, if you take the time to PM her, you might want to show enough initiative to get to know a bit about her besides how busty she is or how nice her ass looks when she's in a certain position. Good general rule - if a woman is hot, assume she gets ten PMs a day telling her nothing but "you're hot" or something like that. Therefore, if you want YOUR pm to get noticed by her, take a little extra step or two.
Hey, I think I sent you a PM about your Colorado story. And one later one that alluded to the subject matter within (granted it was in regard to one of your pic sets).
I have my crude side, and I won't deny it. However, I only show that side to those who show an interest in seeing it.
Also, as I've said before - a little advice for the guys (mainly the guys). If a woman has a beautiful/sexy picture (or several) of herself posted in her thread or in an avatar, there is a pretty good chance that she's been complimented on it/them before. Therefore, if you take the time to PM her, you might want to show enough initiative to get to know a bit about her besides how busty she is or how nice her ass looks when she's in a certain position. Good general rule - if a woman is hot, assume she gets ten PMs a day telling her nothing but "you're hot" or something like that. Therefore, if you want YOUR pm to get noticed by her, take a little extra step or two.
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jtmalone70 said:
That is an interesting post - very interesting. I hope we can get the reality from this post. Women post here for all different reasons - attention, boost esteem, to get off, or just to talk to people. (men too for that matter) If you talk to one and you are taking the conversation in the wrong direction and she tells you - GET THE HINT!!! I know this amazing woman has taught me a thing or two about this - and...I thank you ma'am!
Well Damn It All
What do you mean by "looking is all we are going to get"????
I just knew that everyone was going to get a shot at you if we sent enough comments, emails and IM's 
.....Damn...I JUST HATE THIS INTERNET STUFF....LOL,LOL,LOL
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What do you mean by "looking is all we are going to get"????
I just knew that everyone was going to get a shot at you if we sent enough comments, emails and IM's .....Damn...I JUST HATE THIS INTERNET STUFF....LOL,LOL,LOL
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I found the conversation very interesting. I am just curious if anyone else noticed the underlying anger that the guy had. He accuses you of having an additude that puts yourself on a pedastool and then he tells you that he doesn't respect you. He lumps you in a category with porn stars suggesting underhandely that they do not deserve respect. I think its interesting how in this country we claim all men are equal with inalliable rights and so on and so forth yet somehow we ALWAYS find people to which this does not apply. until the civil war "all men" literally meant all white men. Then lincoln freed the slaves (which, he actually didn't technically do since in the areas where he claimed it illegal to have slaves he had no jurisdiction and he did not free any slaves in the north.... its true read the emancipation proclemation its very very clear. What is important about it is the gesture) that we got closer to men being created equally but it wasn't for another almost 100 years until we really get an idea of people being created equally. Yet, this guy implies that porn stars are below him. Be he is a porn viewer how is he better. What I basically get from what he says and I I belive you noticed this as well is hi sapprent lack of self esteem. Which, he attempts to make up for by forcing himself to belive he is in someway better than those who are comforatable with being naked and choose to show other people. HE makes the assumption that everyone who is doing is like himself and w/o self esteem looking for reassurence. And he is right some percentage of posters ARE looking for the false boost inthier self-esteem. I personally find that unnattractive. Also, it is an ineffective way at building your self-esteem. Self-esteem is not related to how you look. This is what most people don't understand self-esteem is an underlying opinion of yourself which has the tendency to present itself in how you look. It also appears commonly in about 5 other places I can think of and presents in patterns.What makes me such an authority on self-esteem you might ask well I have had self esteem issues I ound therapy and it helped me 100 times more than anything else could. Also as an artist, which is what I consider myself, I find myself observing things. I watch people how they react to things and what they do. I am like a research psychologist. Anyhow this gutys conversation is rife with subconsious meanings that really give you a picture about him.
I also liked your description of the people who have contacted you and I was curious I was one of the two who was mainly interested in your writeing?
I could continue my analasys of the conversation but to be honest he is rather simple and thats boring. I would attempt to extrapolate from that but extrapolation almost always has innacurate results with high deviations of error. The question that comes to my mind is why are we here doing this anyway. Why do we look why do we post why do we communicate. This entire forum would make for a tremendous case study.
I had one last comment about the idea of normalcy being suggestive. In some ways it is. For example normal is different in different cultures. In the US it is not normal to eat bugs yeat for australlian aboriginees grubs make up most of ther fat and protien intake. However for those in a given culture normal is more clearly defined the smaller the group gets. but everyone has an idea of normalcy though and in saying one doesn't is merely deluding oneself. Of course mental retardation could absolutly allow for a differeing opinion of normalcy AS the brain with which normal is being determined is not functioning correctly. Someone once told me that none of us are normal its how we know we are human. thats interesting as it implies being sabnormal is normal. however you fins that once you step too far outside of normal you are chastized and removed from your culture. Proof positive is we have a jailsytem you step out of bounds you go to jail. Some choose to remove themselves I.E. the unibomber various militia and religious groups. The amish seperate themselves from modern culture as much as they can yet they have there own subculture which still fits into a loose concept of our normal. they are still held to and abide by our laws. My conclusion Normal is tough but you are right in saying everyone has a concept of normal otherwise they wouldn't be part of the culture in which we live.
Sorry for rambling but some things get under myskin and it appears as if similar things seem to get under your skin as well.
Last comment on the convo you posted he chose the phrase spread as in photospread on purpose because of the relationship it makes to your ability to spread your legs and so on. He may not have consciencely selected the word but it was done on purpose.
I also liked your description of the people who have contacted you and I was curious I was one of the two who was mainly interested in your writeing?
I could continue my analasys of the conversation but to be honest he is rather simple and thats boring. I would attempt to extrapolate from that but extrapolation almost always has innacurate results with high deviations of error. The question that comes to my mind is why are we here doing this anyway. Why do we look why do we post why do we communicate. This entire forum would make for a tremendous case study.
I had one last comment about the idea of normalcy being suggestive. In some ways it is. For example normal is different in different cultures. In the US it is not normal to eat bugs yeat for australlian aboriginees grubs make up most of ther fat and protien intake. However for those in a given culture normal is more clearly defined the smaller the group gets. but everyone has an idea of normalcy though and in saying one doesn't is merely deluding oneself. Of course mental retardation could absolutly allow for a differeing opinion of normalcy AS the brain with which normal is being determined is not functioning correctly. Someone once told me that none of us are normal its how we know we are human. thats interesting as it implies being sabnormal is normal. however you fins that once you step too far outside of normal you are chastized and removed from your culture. Proof positive is we have a jailsytem you step out of bounds you go to jail. Some choose to remove themselves I.E. the unibomber various militia and religious groups. The amish seperate themselves from modern culture as much as they can yet they have there own subculture which still fits into a loose concept of our normal. they are still held to and abide by our laws. My conclusion Normal is tough but you are right in saying everyone has a concept of normal otherwise they wouldn't be part of the culture in which we live.
Sorry for rambling but some things get under myskin and it appears as if similar things seem to get under your skin as well.
Last comment on the convo you posted he chose the phrase spread as in photospread on purpose because of the relationship it makes to your ability to spread your legs and so on. He may not have consciencely selected the word but it was done on purpose.
JT: What you just posted about your "conversations" is why I don't pm/chat/im/phone play/web cam with what I call the "wankers." Just way to much "poor me bs", "hey babe lets play" utter nonsnse or "I have a big dick don't you want it?" crap.
Its amazing how 99.9% of the guys think/believe that if a woman either posts pics or simply posts here or any bulletin board she is lonely, looking for it and willing to be treated like some slag.
I truly admire your pics and just as much if not more so the silliness that you put up with because of it!
Keep on keeping on JT!
Its amazing how 99.9% of the guys think/believe that if a woman either posts pics or simply posts here or any bulletin board she is lonely, looking for it and willing to be treated like some slag.
I truly admire your pics and just as much if not more so the silliness that you put up with because of it!
Keep on keeping on JT!
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Filly Gal said:
Wow, you hit the nail on the head. I love to talk to some of the guys here, some of them are very intelligent and intersting. Its funny how quick you learn to deal with the ones who have no clue what is going on.
I started to turn my chats off several times, but I have met so many people that are so nice, it makes dealing with the idiots a non-issue.
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jtmalone70 said:Yeah, you and FillyGal are right. There ARE some really nice guys here, and I've had some fun talking to them. Unfortunately, there aren't lots of them to be had.
I know I shouldn't mention names, as I'm SURE I'll leave someone's name out, but, just off the top of my head -and I'm in a rush here to get out the door!- but, like I said real quick and off the top of my head, there's vancoouverite, espon-something-or-other (Sorry, forgot how to spell your name!) johninlansing, oshkoshnative, beefyboy, MAYBE kildo, and a good handful of others.
...if I forgot your name, well hey, I really am in a rush to get out the door. We're going to the store here, but I wanted to take a moment to reply!
Jess,
Thanks for including me in your list...
(maybe or not)I think you're great in many ways.......
LOL
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helpful
Really helpful to get a gal's take on a guy's take of gal's pics. (confusing?) Yeah, there are plenty of annoying guys out there. It is just refreshing to hear, basically, 'put yourself in other's shoes' (not literally) and 'treat people like people, not objects'.
Good manners goes a long ways.
Really helpful to get a gal's take on a guy's take of gal's pics. (confusing?) Yeah, there are plenty of annoying guys out there. It is just refreshing to hear, basically, 'put yourself in other's shoes' (not literally) and 'treat people like people, not objects'.
Good manners goes a long ways.
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jtmalone70 said:Yeah, you and FillyGal are right. There ARE some really nice guys here, and I've had some fun talking to them. Unfortunately, there aren't lots of them to be had.
I know I shouldn't mention names, as I'm SURE I'll leave someone's name out, but, just off the top of my head -and I'm in a rush here to get out the door!- but, like I said real quick and off the top of my head, there's vancoouverite, espon-something-or-other (Sorry, forgot how to spell your name!) johninlansing, oshkoshnative, beefyboy, MAYBE kildo
...if I forgot your name, well hey, I really am in a rush to get out the door. We're going to the store here, but I wanted to take a moment to reply!
woohoo! top billing!
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Ok, all that discussion is very interesting.............
Now can we get back to the subject matter of a thread in the Amateur Pic forum?
hehehehehehehe 
Now can we get back to the subject matter of a thread in the Amateur Pic forum?
hehehehehehehe
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jtmalone70 said:
QUOTE]Then I get the "Me, Too" crowd.
"Your husband and I sound so much alike. He must really be proud of having such a beautiful wife at home, so willing to sexually pleasure him at the drop of a hat. Gosh, of all I've read that you've written about him, it seems he and I have such similar tastes... especially in women.
Uh huh, well, you're nothing like him, so you can stop trying to weasel your way into my good graces by claiming acceptance by imaginary similarities.
And, if my husband EVER said he was "proud" of my sexuality, I'd slug him!
...geesh... and people wonder how it is I could marry the man who raised me. Boy, look at the options that were open to me! He's always treated me with dignity and respect. That alone would be enough to earn my love and a place in my bed.[/
If I fit into the categories above, I apologize.
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JT...I truly enjoy your thread not only for the pictures that you post, but for the personallity that shows through your posts. I have posted a few comments here and there and I hope that I have not come across as a "wanker" as someone has put it. I appologize if I have ever come across in the wrong way to you or anyone else on Lit.
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jtmalone70 said:
Have you ever thought of getting a job in the special effects department of the BBC? They'd have paid good money for those sorts of blue electronic monsters in the days of Blakes 7 and Doctor Who!
